MsCYPRAH

@MsCYPRAH (394)

Age 78

Joined myLot 19 years ago

Sixty, Sexy, Savvy And Soaring!!

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A problem with my bestfriends and her boyfriend... Please help me out

eil_noz @eil_noz (961) • Philippines 18 May 10

Hello mylotters! I just want to ask for your opinion about my best friend and her boyfriend. My best friend and I usually hang out almost everyday when were still in high school and when we graduated we entered in different...

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MsCYPRAH Unfortunately this is human nature, especially when we are the type who lack confidence and seek to please partners. People tend to become engrossed in their boyfriends/girlfriends, especially in new relationships, to the detriment of their other friends. It's...

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Can someone help me with this ?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 14 Apr 10

THe issue is this- I need to withdraw my paypal money to my bank account in India. In the month of FEBRUARY, I had made attempts to verify my account by following the instructions. Paypal says that it has sent two amounts for...

unsuccessful attempt at verification

withdrawal of paypal money

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MsCYPRAH Hello kalav. The two amounts you mentioned would be very tiny and you should double check to see if they are not there. However, you won't be able to get your Paypal money into your bank account unless you verify that it is your account so you need to sort...

15 Apr 10

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An EX wanted to get me back!!! but his married already.... OHHHH Nooooo..

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 14 Nov 09

My ex just call me this day. He is asking me about us. What had happen to our relationship before and Why I leave him? I told him that I send him a letter for our break up stating all what I want to tell him. It is because of a...

lover

partner

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MsCYPRAH Please tell this gentleman where to go, very clearly. First, he is married. Second, you have moved on. There really is nothing else to it. Why would you wish to be his friend? If someone still likes you sexually, it wouldn't work because his reasons for...

15 Nov 09

Ignore Helium and my rating is sinking. Has this happened to you?

AnythngArt @AnythngArt (3302) • United States 9 Oct 09

Lately I have been concentrating on writing for Associated Content and haven't been producing for Helium. Every day, I check my rating and earnings over at Helium, and each day it seems my star rating (for writing) is sinking...

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MsCYPRAH It seems that Helium has tightened up on its algorithms for giving stars so that if you are not active on the site the rating goes down. And it probably has nothing to do with your ratings from colleagues. That happened to me as a 4 star writer and I actually...

12 Oct 09

Suggestions please!-topic is old but I hope the question is new

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 17 Aug 09

The issue is this.I tried resolving some old responses of mine today. Now, when I read through the responses all over again, I clicked on to the profile and visited this. Now, do you think I should give the best response to the...

best response

inactive member

second best response

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MsCYPRAH Sorry if the last paragraph wasn't clear but what I meant was, the BEST one in every sense should be awarded and not just because the person is active, otherwise it just wouldn't be fair.

17 Aug 09

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Suggestions please!-topic is old but I hope the question is new

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 17 Aug 09

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MsCYPRAH The best response should have nothing to do with popularity, site attendance, or any other factor. The only criterion should be whether it provides the most information to other readers to educate or entertain them or it deals with the question more...

17 Aug 09

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I am afraid of Marriage, help!!

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 2 Jun 09

Dear all, I am about to get married with my boyfriend at the end of this year. But i start worrying about the life after i get married with him. Below is the things that i am worried about: 1.His bank card have no money, i mean...

marrage

worry

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MsCYPRAH If you are afraid of marriage then DON'T do it! That is your instincts telling you what you should do and when people ignore those instincts they usually have some suffering afterwards. When it comes to relationships, the signs are ALWAYS there at the...

3 Jun 09

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How many credit cards do you keep in your pocket?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 2 Jun 09

Its a freedom from carrying cash and I too often use them every now and then, but I feel one is always in debt if you are in a habit of using them more of. How many credit cards do you have in your pocket and use them...

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MsCYPRAH I use only ONE at the moment. It serves as a debit card as well so I get the best of both worlds when I am travelling. I don't have to use two or three different cards, which also means NO debt as all the money I use comes directly from my account. A few years...

3 Jun 09

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Should I let go or not?!

marie_cehl @marie_cehl (50) • Philippines 31 May 09

I read some messages from my bf's mobile phone, and i was so hurt when I read some flirty messages from his textmate. I already told him that I read those messages and he told me that "it was nothing!, you are my gf and I do love...

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MsCYPRAH Yes, you should, and quickly. This gentleman has no love or respect for you. He is insensitive to your feelings, does not really care as much for you as you do for him, and seems to be mainly pleasing himself. Furthermore, no one has a 'textmate' with saucy...

1 Jun 09

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What your favorite day of the week?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 10 May 09

I'd probably say my favorite would be Friday because the next day would be Saturday and there's no work till Monday. What about you?

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MsCYPRAH My favourite day of the week is Saturday mainly because, as I work for myself, I tend to treat Monday to Friday as normal workdays, to discipline myself in getting a lot done. I use Saturday to relax, to shop, to socialise and to do exactly what I want, which...

12 May 09

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my fiance has more male friends than female --- do i need to talk to her?

born1989 @born1989 (177) • India 7 May 09

i am a little insecure about the fact that my fiance has many friends who are males than girls. should it be ok ? she hangs around with her friends but there are no girl friends in her list. do i need to speak to her & ask her to...

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MsCYPRAH I would not argue about what your daughter does, but I was actually addressing this question and this particular situation and stand by what I said, especially in relation to the suggestions I gave to the person asking the question.

10 May 09

My friend married an old guy

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 6 May 09

Oh my!!! As if I can't believe it. It doesn't matter to me if it happens to other people but to my friend? I just receive a message from her that she is now is Scotland. hahahah then I saw her pictures with her hubby who looks...

friend

married

old man

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MsCYPRAH The man might look like a grandpa but it is her life and, unless she was coerced into it, you should be very happy for her. The only question that matters is: IS SHE REALLY HAPPY? I am sure you wish her to be happy in her life. If she is genuinely joyful then...

8 May 09

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A Love SONG you would like to sing for your love...let me know

darksorrow @darksorrow (4666) • Bangladesh 6 May 09

Sometimes you may want to sing a for the one you love. Or they may ask you to sing a song. Well for me i have not sang a song for her. But the thought came to mind suddenly that everyone may have the most suitable song for the...

love

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MsCYPRAH There are tons of songs I would love to sing for my love one but the main one that stands head and shoulders above the others is this one: Because You Loved Me by Celine Dion. An incredible song that says it all about my feelings of love and gratitude for my...

8 May 09

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What does it mean when a person won't look you in the eyes?

deejean06 @deejean06 (1952) • United States 7 May 09

Does it have a significance when someone won't look you in the eyes when they're speaking to you? Is it embarrassment? Is it guilt? It makes me uncomfortable when someone won't look me in the eyes when they are speaking with me....

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MsCYPRAH Many people put a lot of meaning into eye contact, believing that it indicates certain characteristics about the individual, but that is a mistake because eye contact between two people depends primarily on the following reasons: 1. Cultural...

8 May 09

my fiance has more male friends than female --- do i need to talk to her?

born1989 @born1989 (177) • India 7 May 09

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MsCYPRAH If your fiancee has more male friends than female, she has a problem with her self-esteem. She believes deep down that she is not really worthy to men unless she has as many male friends as possible paying attention to her. That comes out of a lack of...

8 May 09

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If money wouldn’t’ be a problem, what would you like to do right now?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 7 May 09

OK, we are often limited by money we can or cannot spend. I ask my best friend what she would like to do and she was not able to give me any answer. I would like to stay at home and work on my art projects. What would you...

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MsCYPRAH I would have my own TV programme around ageing and dealing with the fear of it. Many people fear getting older so I would love to have a talk show around confidence and its effect on our lives, especially the way it helps us to love ourselves and accept who we...

8 May 09

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Do You Write Your Middle Name or Middle Initial?

Rainegurl @Rainegurl (2156) • Philippines 6 May 09

I always make sure that when I write my name, especially in legal documents, I also write my middle initial. It seems to me that if I do not write it, my name looks incomplete. I feel the same when I see other people's name...

middle initial

middle name

name

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MsCYPRAH I actually use my middle name as my first name because of a trend in my family when I was born. My mother seemed to name us all with middle names then call us by that name instead of the first name. It meant that I and my sisters were called one thing at home...

8 May 09

Mother like secret enemy

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 4 May 09

Mother who wants to see you happy would never hurt you telling you're not good enough at doing this or that, would never criticize your male friends so they really start behave in bad way.When I started my internet business, she...

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MsCYPRAH How sad it must be for you but your mother is showing the classic case of hiding her real pain and taking it all out on you. Her son isn't alive to hear it and your father isn't alive to hear it. You are the only link to those two people and, instead of...

5 May 09

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What animals would you choose as your pets?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 21 Apr 09

From the list below, which animals will you choose to be your pets: 1. Dog 2. Cat 3. Hamster 4. Rabbit 5. Bird 6. Tortoise For me, I would choose either dog o hamster. I think that dogs are very loyal pets. It will...

pets

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MsCYPRAH A difficult one for me to choose because I love both cats and dogs. I wouldn't be interested in any of the others because they do not seem as appealing. However, I am allergic to cats, and so am limited to dogs. But then I adore dogs, especially German...

23 Apr 09

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