I want to Die ..... What will be the better way to go for it ?

India
April 28, 2008 11:20pm CST
Friends , I am in very deep crisis of so many things . I don't have control over the things which is going through my life . I am not able to do what I should in this time ... And I am tired of myself in so many way .... I have thought so many times before asking you .... but I got there is nothing wrong with it ... It may be there is another level to feel and to learn beyond it ... So I am asking you .... what will be the better way for it ? And have you ever gone through these types of feelings ? What should I do first in this condition ?
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14 responses
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 08
hi sincere... i feel sorry for you. i felt the same thing for long ago. yet i realized that it's not a solution. well i went to a religous person to talk about my problem and surrender all thing to God. since He's the only One who Have all things in this world. including our heart, body, problem, happiness etc. then i realized.. well what should i worry about life. it's all His. Then give all those to Him.. and let Him manage it for you. But if you don't believe in God. i don't have any word to say.
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• India
29 Apr 08
I can say only one thing to you ... I am an atheist from the first day of realization about the world where I am living ... Before I also used to go temple and church . So I can't think in this way ...
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• India
29 Apr 08
There are so many problem in this life and what we will get after fighting and winning from those tension ? There is no meaning of the world and things which are going through this time ..... there is and end ...and what after that ?
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@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 08
Don't you think you have a task to answer your own question before you die? you know the answer for all the problems and fighting in the world.. there's no need at all.. so simply don't do that and or participating on that problems and fighting.. there's always worth about being in the world. even animals. and you.. you can be our lesson of how we sometime facing problems. and how we can solve it..and that's only one thing.. you can be everything.... you mightnot realized that how valuable you are. let us find out before you die...
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
I can see that you are full of pain and misery. I dont know exactly what you're going through... but let me remind you that life is a big battle field. You are right with what you say I don't have control over the things which is going through my life ...you may be right my dear... but you will always have control on how you will react on things that is going through your life. I may not see things the way you do... and you may not see things the way I see it... but if you will only try hard to see... you will see all the things that you should take into consideration before doing things that will end your life. all of us here have burdens to carry... ever since we are born...we already faced different challenges in life. I myself faced a lot of problems, that I would never want to experience again... but if in case, I have to... I will face it one more time, no matter how much pain will it cause...I made it through before... i'll make it through once more. Now, at your age... maybe you dont realize how many times you made it through the hard times... and Im telling you my dear... today is not the day to give up... not now, not ever. fight until it takes your breath away, fight until your body would be the one to surrender, fight until it is the last thing that you can do...wait until your heart voluntarily surrender... die with pride and honor. What I can say is embrace your pain... feel it, until you see it as your teacher and not your monster...until you understand why it is there... Be brave... even if you are not... pretend to be. Just stand still... it will soon go away... everything will be fine soon...
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• India
29 Apr 08
Thanks for giving me these types of positive attitude .. You are right ....I should fight untill my last breath is with myself ... thanks !!!
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• Philippines
29 Apr 08
One thing more... You are not alone. That is why we're here... listening and helping you to make it through. You will never be on your own. We maybe stranger to each other... but believe me you can make it. Me too, I have been left before... I've been alone physically... but it doesn't mean I can't survive. I was too blind to see that nobody cares during that time... but I was wrong... Something good happen after those miseries and sleepless nights of crying. You just have to hold on. Remember we are here.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
29 Apr 08
Hurting yourself is not going to solve anything, believe me my friend. I read the discussion your talking about and I am sorry that you and her separated, in the discussion she said that she does not love you anymore, so there was a time when she was in love with you, you can try to rekindle that love but by hurting yourself you will loose that chance and hurt her terribly. It is one thing if she had told you that she never ever loved you but this is not the case. You also asked her if she loved the new friend and she said no, she doesn't. You must admit you still love her and have deep feelings for her so you must work on that. You need to find out why she left you, you mentioned your jealous and many people can not tolerate jealously, maybe this is what turned her off, then you need to work on this problem. Possibly you and her can go for "couple counseling" it is worth the try but if you take your own life then you both will suffer over this. Listen there still is a chance - don't loose it. Try talking to her, you really do not know if she is sitting at home crying and thinking of you too. Best of luck to you.
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• India
29 Apr 08
Yes, I should atleast think about her . Thanks ...I have got a new energy to do what I should in this stage by one response . Thanks you man !!!
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
29 Apr 08
Your very welcome my friend. Stay strong and show her your in control. This will be a big plus for you!
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@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I've been where you are many times. Ive even tried to kill myself twice. I dont know your situation. I do know you can build yourself up. Do what you can do and forget the rest. If you have alot of stress try and fix it if you cant dump it. YOU have to change the way you think about things. It is hard to do. If your not happy find out what it is that is hurting you and change it.
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@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
29 Apr 08
all i can say first is wow...honey y would u post something like this on a sit...2nd no i have never been in ur situation to think bout killing myself or wanting to die...honey u need to face ur problems not run frm them....hope u dnt do something stupid...think bout wat ur say n and thinking
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• India
29 Apr 08
every human being is an institution . So we can't expect same things in every one's life . I am not running .... I have asked you for positive side of it ...if there any ?
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@Hatley (163905)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Apr 08
sincere you are unique, that is positive,you aresomebody and that is positive,, and since God made you you are very good as he does not make anything bad.there is always a positiveside and you have tolook forit.YOu are alive, you are healthy and you camehereseeking help and that is positve
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@qdietz (244)
• United States
29 Apr 08
First of all you should talk to people as you are doing right now. You see you have made a right choice! Talking to people can really help as they will cheer you up and show you how much they care. Think back to good moments in your life, think back to something that made you happy today, something you looked forward too. Those are the memories that count, not the bad things that happened today. Good luck, and try to enjoy even the littlest of things.
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• India
29 Apr 08
I have got so many sujjestion from my friends about what to do and what I shouldn't ... That means I know everything about my condition , but I am getting any energy to change any thing .... and not getting any change , which should come after some clash ... It has been really a long time I am living like it .... I am tired of it ...and can't carry it for long time ...
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@qdietz (244)
• United States
29 Apr 08
try to treat yourself to something you like to do. Go out and have a good day/vacation or whatever. A sport or a passion really help, it makes you want to do something and lets you forget the bad and concentrate on whatever you are doing. I hope I can help
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• India
29 Apr 08
Every one is very disturbed from me , who care about me . No one can help me to get out of this situation , You can only give me advice .... and I told you ....advice is not working on myself .... this is really a bad situation ....
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@stephcjh (38557)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Hi. I know exactly how you feel. I have prayed to the lord so many times to let me die in my sleep and take me home because my life has alot of rpoblems in it. I seem to get through each one of them though and I thank God every day that he did not answer my prayers. The lord, instead, answered my prayers in so many other positive ways. I know you think things will never get better in your life, but they will if you hang in there and keep trying hard to move forward with your life. Everyone of us are experiencing these problems. The first thing I would do is just what you did. I would talk to other people who are dealing with the same things as you are and if we cannot help you, then seek professional help if possible. There are alot of people here at Mylot who care about you. We are here for you if you need to talk. I would like for you to be my friend here. I am going to send you a friend request. I hope you accept it so we can talk about the things that are wrong in your life.
@steph07 (38)
• Canada
29 Apr 08
first, stop talking non sense. if you always feel like that get some professional help or talk to your friends about the way you feel. there is always a reason to live , personally i would like to live forever, but it is not possible. Get out of home and travel a little around the world if you have the means. if you really dare, you can try some extreme sports like bungee bridge jumping from very high and imagine you are not attached while doing it, if that does not help you love live better then you should get real help.
@adinkle (45)
• La Verne, California
29 Apr 08
It is our destiny to have troubles in this life. We must go to the Lord and ask for His guidance in all things. Let the phrase "I can do all things through God who strengthens me" be consolation to you. Remember Jesus said"I will be with you always, even to the end of the earth".
@gkthegr8 (163)
• India
29 Apr 08
Yo sincere4frdship, I felt the same when I had to quit my old school.. Look at me now.. I'm very much alive !!
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@melken (15)
29 Apr 08
Every human being I believe have been gone through to the same thing thats happening to you so don"t you worry always remember that God given you that kind of feelings because you can over come all of these.Sometimes in our lives we are so tired physically, mentally and emotionally almost wanted to end up everything. The best way you can do is just seat in a quiet place and try to recall all the good things that happened to you pretty sure your feelings will be as light as a linen. When you feel a little bit light talk to God and ask for guidance and without knowing it everything will flow smoothly.Life is beautiful!
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@Candee (530)
• India
30 Apr 08
Hi friend. I am sorry to hear this. I just hope you have good ppl around to take care of this insecurity. Having said this I can relate to you to some extent. Firstly pls raise your self esteem and have faith in your self. Happy living.
• United States
29 Apr 08
well you have to do something to better yourself then maybe you wont fel the ways you do
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
29 Apr 08
i never thought about that i hate to hear that why do you want to die for there as got to be something you want to live fro i will pray for you i hope you dont do that to your self we all done some bad things in our life but dont worry about it try to hang in there
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