Unschoolers

@LovingIt (5396)
United States
April 30, 2008 12:33am CST
Have you ever heard of Unschoolers? If not here's a link that tells about it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unschooling What do you think about it?
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@AmbiePam (86043)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Well, quite honestly I don't think much of it. I think having a steady education is of utmost importance. Gaining experience by doing and seeing things can be accomplished by other means that taking such a laid back approach. I understand the allure, but I don't think I would endorse that for my child. But I like hearing about new things, and I find it very interesting.
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Personally, I don't like it either. If I waited until my kids told me they wanted to learn something, I'm afraid they never would have been educated. I wonder if this is legal in all the states. I'm pretty sure that here, even home schoolers have tests they are required to pass and I know that there are heavy penalties for kids who aren't attending school or being home schooled.
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@GardenGerty (157941)
• United States
30 Apr 08
My son learned to read, long before he was "old enough" and before he ever went to school, and I never sent him to preschool. I guess what I like is "accidental learning" like that. My daughter was making up poems before she was ever able to read or write. I think for "unschooling" in its whole concept to work, parents would have to be very tuned into their kids, and with people struggling just to make ends meet they do not have time to tune in.
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
18 May 08
My daughter learned to read on her own before she started school as well. However, if I'd left math up to her to want to learn, I'm not sure she would have ever learned to even add.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Actually I hadn't heard of the term till now, so curious I followed the link. I think Holt was right. I think that everything is to text book today and they aren't out learning as much with hands on experience which is how they will learn to do things when they are older alot of times. I know no matter how much I read, learn or am taught I learn best when I experience myself hands on. So I think it is something that should be coming back into schools because computers are taking over in alot of things with teaching the children and I they need more hands on apporach to things.
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@GardenGerty (157941)
• United States
30 Apr 08
I had not heard of that, but it fits in with a lot of what I have experienced. I feel I learned best in spite of my schools. I do not think that I would necessarily remove a child of mine from traditional school, but I do believe that they need a good amount of time to be encouraged in unschooling themselves. I am very tired,at this point, at having spent most of the year in class rooms where they are focused on State Assessments, because of No Child Left Behind. I do truly believe that schools need to be accountable for teaching, but I do not think that this is the way to measure what is learned. I think "doing" demonstrates learning. I think for that reason I agree with the idea of children learning outside the domain of regular schools.
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
18 May 08
I totally agree about the No Child Left Behind thing. The sad thing is that the brighter kids do get left behind, because they are held back at the level of the slower kids and get bored and don't learn a lot of things that they would otherwise.
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@GardenGerty (157941)
• United States
3 May 08
My son's gifted teacher thought I was nuts, because I told her that his education was still my responsibility. I did deliberately expose him to the opportunities to learn, and did point out what he was learning. I am too much of a control freak to have let anyone just vaguely wander around and sort of learn whatever they picked up. When my son started Kindergarten, for fun his teacher had a lot of kids tested in reading. He read at twelfth grade ninth month level. I fully expect now that myLot members are going to come on and accuse me of lying about this, as it happens every time I say that. I have seen homeschool programs that produced very good results, but they generally were not what you showed us with your link to "unschooling".
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@AmbiePam (86043)
• United States
30 Apr 08
My sister and I both were reading at 3, before school entered the picture. But this sounds a lot like a new age method are something. I don't see how children succeed at all without help from their parents outside the school. My sister and I would never have been reading so young had my parents not instilled in us a love of reading. But this kind of seems like a vague sentiment to me. Sort of like instead of learning why the tide comes in, let's just go to the beach and watch it...
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@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Education is the most important, no matter how it's done. I dont think there's anything wrong about it. There just different ways of doing different things.
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• United States
28 Sep 08
I am an unschooler. It's just a different method. My 7 year old had now read 20000 Leagues Under the Sea and is working on Treasure Island all because she wants to. My 9 year old is doing a study on Elizabethan England. I let them study what they want. they are also both helping me with a crafting business I am starting. It will help teach them math and economics. We live our lives and learn from everything around us.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
29 Mar 11
I am a fan of unschooling because I have grown up in the public school system. I'm currently going through my college years wondering why I'm wasting every day attending classroom discussions with students who obviously don't read their assignments and try to bs their way through everything. I saw a clip on abc news about unschooling, and the reporters just didn't do justice to the concept. They only looked at two families and focused on the one that seemed to give the least bit of parent encouragement and facilitation. On the other hand, there is a one hour lecture by Astra Taylor that can be found on Youtube. This woman was unschooled and she went on to Brown University. She speaks about the profound influence of her education. She learned to see the world as her source of learning rather than the school books. I think unschooling's success may depend on the level of the parent's relationship with the child. Although parents don't teach their children, it seems that they really have an influence on how the child wants to learn. Some parents will put out certain books for their kids, some might not have tv in their house. If the parent goes out and buys the kids video games they are most likely going to play them. But if the parent goes out of his/her way to bring enlightening subjects or tools like microscopes and puzzles into the child's presence, the child will likely pay attention to it.