A Great Nights Sleep?

United States
May 1, 2008 4:17pm CST
I have a very physically demanding job that takes up a huge chunk of my time and, on top of that, have sepearsted from my wife and have to look after the kids when I am done work (until she finishes...all very friendly BTW). By the end of the night I am completely wiped and can never seem to catch up on my sleep. Once in a while though I'll completely crash and end up sleeping for 10-12 hours (happened last night). The strange thing is that I usually feel way more tired after that than I do when I only get 4-5 hours per night. Anyone else encounter that?
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@hcpoirot (1562)
• Indonesia
1 May 08
Hi inked4life, Answering your question. Maybe its because you had too many night lack of sleep. When you had a long one 10-12 hours your body still feel so tired and it demand more sleep. I encountered that when I had 4-5 days of lack of sleep. and when I got long sleep, I feel more tired after wake up and wanted to do more sleep. I try by drinking coffee and do a little workout to fresh my body and brain. I hope its help.
• United States
1 May 08
thanks for the response...yeah, I load up on coffee in the morning...probably not at all healthy to be sure
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
1 May 08
I do feel tired when I'm getting to much sleep. Its hard to believe, as you would think more sleep would be good for my body. I went to bed early last night and today am yawning all day.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
4 May 08
Hi inked4life! Yes, I usually feel that way when I do get to sleep longer. I guess, maybe because my body got tired sleeping that is why when I wake up, I feel tired. haha...Just joking! I really don't know why. I have read that one cycle of sleep is 4 hours and 2 cycles is 8 and the body can feel recharged with just one cycle of sleep. When we sleep 10 hours, we have 2 cycles and one incomplete one. An incomplete cycle will make our body feel tired or sluggish. I still am trying to recall where i read it so I can send the link to you for a better explanation. I will if I will find it. haha..Just my thoughts. Take care and have a nice day!
@Breath (1297)
• United States
1 May 08
I have always had a hard time getting to sleep...Guess I am too much of a night owl!Night is when I do my best thinking and I never sleep over 4 or 5 hours at the most...Sorry thing's are happening in your life with your wife and everything...I have a feeling things are going to start turning around for us both...:)
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@Elixiress (3878)
2 May 08
Yeah I find that over sleeping is just as bad as under sleeping to me, both making me feel equally as tired. If I can get an average amount of 7/8 hours I am usually fine as long as I wake up on my own and not woken up by an alarm clock. Hopefully you start getting good night sleeps.
• Philippines
4 May 08
Me, too. I work on the graveyard shift for 3 years now. It's weird that I could get by and have more energy with less that 4 hours of sleep than when I've had 8 hours or more. This job is messing with my body clock. Big time! BTW, love the tattoos. :P
@freak369 (5113)
• United States
2 May 08
I think it's all part of the routine that you get into. I sleep about two hours a night then have an hour nap during the day. I have extreme insomnia and have tried all the neds on the market for sleep and they either make me into a zombie the next day or I go into overdrive. My body has gotten used to this sleep schedule so I have no problem functioning. There are times, like right before my period, that I will sleep for hours and hours; that lasts about three days then I am back into my usual routine. If you aren't tired you can't force yourself to sleep; likewise, if you are exhausted its your body telling you that you need some serious down tine.
• United States
2 May 08
Yeah, too much sleep often makes me much groggier than when I don't get enough sleep. However, I suspect that when you completely crash out like that, it's your body's way of saying "hey, I need sleep!" Then it just wants more sleep than you gave it, so you still feel tired. :)
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
2 May 08
Dear friend, I too have been seperated by my wife but my child is with her. I had slept for 26 hours continously once when I so tried after a long journey. But usually I sleep around 8 hours may be less or more it depends upon the tiredness. But mostly after a good sleep I feel more energised and fresh.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
2 May 08
I don't have the same issues that you do in regards to your life. I am a stay at home mom with a husband that works 7-4 and then 2 hours at the gym a lot of nights. And he makes me and the baby go with him. Well, he doesn't make me, but he whines until I give in. I have bad insomnia. On the rare nights that I fall asleep a little earlier and wake up at normal time; I find that I am a lot more tired when I wake up. I am also more tired throughout the day! I may only sleep 6 hours a day and they are completely different hours than "normal" people but when they are altered, my whole sleep schedule gets out of whack! If I take a nap...ugh. My husband thinks he is doing me a favor by telling me to take a nap, or trying to get me to go to sleep with him and the baby. I try to get it through to him that I feel so much worse when I do that!
@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
2 May 08
Always, I usually average 4-5 hours a night and if I get more I am always groggy the next day. It takes me a bit to get out of a fog. I think our bodies are used to certain types of sleep patterns. Ainge
@musicdoG (227)
• United States
2 May 08
Yea for sure i used to play alot of sports and it demanded training for at least 5 hours a day and it just beats the hell out of me and when i get home i always try to relax and get some sleep but doing that on a daily basis tends to pile up and for some days straight i get so beat that i wake up just in time for training again and thats hours and hours of sleep, and yea i wake up more tired than what i usually am. Now i just Sleep and get up for work no more sports, except on saturdays
• China
2 May 08
i think you are too tired at day or you have the bad habbys that you don't want to sleep at night.all that
@best_jr73 (258)
• Philippines
2 May 08
Yeah I have also experienced that because eventhough I am still a student, I am already loaded with so my stress and I think it is due to the course that I've decided to take. I am currently taking up nursing right now and the next school year I will already be on my fourth year already and I am glad that I could really make it through. I am residing here in the Philippines and I am happy to say that you are great because you can still manage to take care of your kids. And you have still time to surf the net. By the way, I have experienced that before. I think it is because of your Circadian Rhythm that has changed drastically. I am just a beginner here in earning money online and I haven't earned a single peny yet at all but I am still hoping to be earning some extra cash for my allowance soon. More blessings to You.. Godspeed! and enjoy life.. ^_^
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
2 May 08
I never get the same amount of sleep each night. I'm lucky to go to bed around 10, if I'm lucky. I don't have a job outside the house that tires me out, just 2 kids, 2 dogs, a hamster, and my husband that keeps me going, it seems 24/7. When I do over sleep, I feel horrible in the morning, I'm lucky I don't wake up with a headache to boot.
@arcidy (5005)
• United States
1 May 08
Yeah Sometimes when I fall asleep around 7pm and sleep till about 8am which is about 11 hours I dont feel any more awake then I do when I get about 4 to 5 hours asleep. I dont know why that is but maybe to much sleep is bad for you maybe after 10 hours of sleep will make you feel worse then about 8 hours of sleep but thats just what I think and im compltley guessing on this.
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
1 May 08
Sleep does seem to work like that! It is thought that too much sleep is as bad for you as too little! Try to get 6 hours of sleep a night, and that should be good. After that many hours, we get into deeper sleep and dream sleep, I like to dream so I try to get eight or nine hours of sleep at night, but that is more for weekends cause I also have children to take care of! Good for you for having a friendly split! It is not the kids fault, so they should not feel the heat.