Is a woman's job only at home?

United States
November 1, 2006 7:48pm CST
I seem to get so upset when people think in this day and time that a women's place is still at home to cook, clean, raise the kids, while the man / partner works.. what do you think? Is the home where the Women should be?
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@jmusser (177)
• United States
2 Nov 06
That used to be where I was at , doing the house work while my husband worked. You would not believe how many people still believe thats the way in Louisiana. I was ok with doing the house work but now that Im working we share a bit :) I still do most :) but I guess I have more training
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• United States
2 Nov 06
Yeah, I find myself going in after him to do the finishing touches.. it helps a lot but, I seem to always add my touch to it..
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• United States
2 Nov 06
I feel that like megs said, the housework should be divided equally. Most men don't understand what hard work it is staying home and caring for a child 24 hours a day. I actually had more energy and felt like I had a lighter work load when I was working outside the home!!
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• United States
2 Nov 06
I know what you mean.. no kids at home all day making messes every 2 minutes or diapers needing to be changed constantly. (I still have 2 in diapers!) I sometimes miss being out in the work force but, I do love being at home! My husband helps a lot around here. I dont think I would appreciate it if he didn't. He realizes how hard it is to be at home with kids all day and he knows I work hard on the computer too. Thank goodness he understands... well mostly.. lol
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@pumpkinjam (8539)
• United Kingdom
4 Nov 06
I do think that if you have kids then one parent should be at home until they start school but that doesnt always have to be the mum. But if there are no kids then both the man and woman should go out to work and both take responsibility for housework, well obviously it's their choice if they want one to work and one at home, but I think if you do have kids and choose to stay home with them then whichever parent goes to work should still help at home. I get really upset when my partner doesn't do anything at home. If he's been at work all day, that's one thing but when he's had a day off or only working for a couple of hours I don't see why he shouldn't help at home. Saying that, even if he has been at work all day, I've usually not stopped from before he leaves the house until well after he comes back so I get frustrated that he comes in saying he won't do anything because he's been at work all day.
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
2 Nov 06
It frustrates me beyond belief when people adopt this attitude. I think it is so archaic and outdated it just isnt funny. My partner has a full time job, he's a builder and I stay at home and look after bubs, thats my full time job. I do the cooking (only because I dont want to end up in hospital with food poisoning lol) but we share equally the house work. It really annoys me when people think that my partner should be able to come home from work, relax and not have to do anything. My job is 24 hours, I dont get weekends and I dont think I should have to do everything. Whats your opinion?
• United States
2 Nov 06
I agree with everything you said.. I feel like this a lot.. I am with my kids 24/7 and never get to clock out. I think Men can pitch in and help. I understand if my husband is out all day long working hard he may not feel like helping to much, but just spending time with his kids and letting me do some things I need to do helps me a whole lot.. Now.. say something like this to my Grandfather's they would think differently!
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• India
2 Nov 06
Nope I dont agree
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• United States
2 Nov 06
Typical MAN LOL
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