Making a wish upon a turkey wishbone

@winterose (39887)
Canada
May 18, 2008 5:32pm CST
I am deboning the turkey my mom sent for me, because she helps us with food. I found the wishbone and dried it out, and then made a wish and broke it with my son. The person who gets the biggest part of the broken bone gets their wish come true. Now when I was a child my grandmother always did that with me, and I always believed it. I don't remember if my wishes came true or not but it is a tradition I always kept. Do you wish on the wishbone? Do you have any other turkey traditions?
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
18 May 08
I have done the wishbone thing with my son a few times. He always seems to get a kick out of it. I always seem to get the smaller piece of the wishbone.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
maybe you are pulling too hard
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
18 May 08
my sister & i use to do that w/the chicken to. i'm like u i don't remember if the wishes came true or not but it was fun.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
yep it is fun to do isn't it.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 May 08
I am glad that I am not the only one still doing this. It was something I did as a kid also and I still do it everytime we have a turkey. My husbands family didn't have this tradition and he sometimes thinks I am silly for doing it. I was always told to hang or put it above the door and let it dry out before breaking and that is how I still do it today. I don't think alot of my wishes came true while growing up because I most always would wish for alot of presents at christmas and it usually never happened that way now days I always make wishes for other people. To give them help and may they have it better even if I myself am facing dicculties. We didn't really have any other traditions for the turkey.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Will do, thanks.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
now you can tell your husband that you are not crazy mylotters still do it too, lol
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
19 May 08
This traidition is in my family also. I remember breaking the wish bone with my mother lots of times when I was a child. That was a neat tradition. I made wishes also if I had the biggest bone.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
yes it was a neat tradition, I think this generation of people have forgotten all these nice little traditions and it is a shame.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
22 May 08
Yeah they seem to have I agree.
@raydene (9871)
• United States
19 May 08
Awww Sweets You take me back... When the kids were little I would ask everyone in the neighborhood to save their wishbones so there were enough for all the kids to do together... Lucky for us we had lots of older people with grown kids near us xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 May 08
My mother had 8 kids at the time I wish she had thought of that for us. Most times it was just her and my step dad got to do it so it would be fair since they were only one. But as the older ones left and they were just 2-3 kids left she let us start making the wishes. Cool idea though to get everyones that wasn't going to be making any wishes on them to give them to the kids. I think it is a tradition worth passing on to the kids.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
wonderful idea to ask for the wishbones, that would be a good thing for all large families.
@ruby222 (4847)
4 Aug 08
We always keep the wishbone,and let it dry out for a few days,lol and than we will pull it,I always say to hubby that he holds the bone in an unfair way!!and he has more chance of getting the wish lol,but like many tradtions its something that we have always done,and more than likey will always continue to do!!long live traditions.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
5 Aug 08
yes they are fun aren't they, I love traditions too.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
19 May 08
I always did the wishbone thing also with my family members. I don't know if any of my wishes ever came true either. I think i live on a wish and a prayer though. I bet over time, some of my wishes were granted and I didn't even realise it because it came later than expected or some other fashion or form. that is about the only turkey tradition I can remember in my family also.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
you and me both, I live on a wish and a prayer as well.
@Modestah (11177)
• United States
20 May 08
my mother always did that with my brother and I. It was such a big deal to us. I have one dried out from our first turkey as a married couple that we have not pulled apart. I guess I am not so much into the superstitious, but it was a special day so it is my memento.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
that is so wonderful that you kept it. I like that.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
19 May 08
I have this weird tradition about turkey wishbones myself. I only get a turkey around Thanksgiving time here. So after the turkey is roasted I take the wishbone and save it for a full year until next thanksgiving, then that's when I make a wish, then when I have the new turkey, save that wishbone for the following Thanksgiving...don't ask why I started that tradition, just did
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
that is quite interesting, first I have heard of it but a nice tradition too.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
19 May 08
Yes, we did this as children too. I used to make a wish with my sister growing up. This discussion reminded me that I have a dried out wishbone sitting on the top of my microwave still. A wish waiting to come true...
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
glad I reminded you.
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
20 May 08
yes i love that tradition,even though i don't think that any of my wishes ever came true also.my kids love the wishbone and it is usually a fight who is going to do it.i wish that we all could keep these traditions alive for ever.cheers sue
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
me too they are great little traditions.
@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 08
We only ever have turkey at Christmas but have chicken a fair amount and we always do the same with the wishbone there. It is usually one of my daughters that gets it but they always make a wish. Like you say it is tradition. Ellie :D
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
25 May 08
and magic is especially fun for young ones.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
19 May 08
I used to do that all the time with my parents when I was younger. I have only done it once with my children as they are still a little young. My children thought it was pretty cool, even though I dont think they quite understand the whole "make a wish" thing yet.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
they eventually will give them time.
@Dorislee (209)
• China
19 May 08
Oh, very interesting, and this is my first time to hear about wishbone like this can be wished. And I should say that in my hometown there is no any tradtions like yours, maybe someday I can have a try, make a wish, then break it, and catch the biggest piece, and waiting for the wish come true, hehe.... Anyway,thanks for your share.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
where do you live?
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
19 May 08
Funny you bring this up. The wife and I just broke one a few weeks ago. It was sitting on the kitchen window sill since Thanksgiving 2006. We forgot all about it till I washed the ledge and found it. I never recall the wishes yet alone if they came true. Old age does that to me. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
old age ya right, you are the same age as me.
• United States
19 May 08
As a child I always wished on a turkey or chicken wishbone and still do until now.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
kept the magic going hon, wish upon your turkey or chicken bone
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
19 May 08
We always made wishes also on turkey and chicken wish bones. I never could remember though if it was the short end or the long end that got their wish. I boiled a chicken today to make chicken and dumplings for my son's birthday dinner and I forgot all about saving the wishbone. I don't remember either if my wishes ever did come true. I hope all of your wishes come true winterose.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
if only half my wishes came true I would feel happy.
@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
19 May 08
Oh, we always did that! There were five of us kids so there was always a fight, but since I was the baby, I usually got to take my turn. I remember Mom used to hang it somewhere to dry real good and we'd ask her every day if it was 'ready' yet. I've done it with my own kids and now with my husband. Thanks for a sweet memory.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
yes it was a sweet memory wasn't it.
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
19 May 08
I have always wished on the wishbone, when I could get a hold of it.. There were so many of us growing up and only 2 wishbones a year, that I didn't get to do it that often.. I have always wished on the wishbone with my husband after I grew up and got married and with my son later.. It is a tradition and although we don't normally have turkey unless it is Thanksgiving or Christmas, we do utilize the wishbone.. Have a wonderful evening..
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
happy that you are keeping the tradition going.
@welshdai (77)
19 May 08
yeah i always done this with my nan,since i was a young boy,and when i was home a while ago,she had one and ask me to do it and i just remember being a tradition that my family always done it,pass down by grandparents really to their children to their grandkids and i think it good thing really
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 08
yes it is such a nice little tradition for sure.