. Givers and Takers

I was a giver to a fault, I had to learn to balance it by keeping some for me. I still don't take, I'm not comfortable with it and I suppose I never will be.

When I was single and working, I am strongly a giver, I always find myself sharing my blessing to my family,friends and relatives. and I really love it, unexpectedly by the time I will give, I am also receiving a lot! I remember several time, when I distribute the clothes which I didn't like to wear anymore to my relatives and friends by the following month, my aunt sent me more that what I had given. It is funny..This time that I am not working, I can say I am still a giver but all intangible/abstract like love,care, etc..

I have always been the type of person to give to others every chance that I got to do so. I never get it back in return though, so I changed it up a little bit. I do still give to people but I make it in moderation because I got so tired of being used or people just wanting more and more from me and then they would leave me cold turkey. I do still give but I never expect any acknowledgement from them because they never give it to me anyway.

I would say I have been a taker untill very recently. My Teachers at the very Accredited School iwhich I attend , have taught me , that there is more to life , than simply taking whether it is physically , emotionally , or psycologically. It is Far more full-filling to Be loved By Your Fellow Man / God then it is to have a wealth of physical riches! Money....can not Buy you Love. Give love , unconditionally and it shall return to you 3 -fold. God -Blee and.......G'Day! Constantine!

um in my case i'll consider myself both giver and taker definitely because sometimes i give but i choose to whom i give and also depends on my mood...somtimes to be hopnest i'm more a taker to the fact that i take some thing without permission to the owner...*so sorry for my self but i can't break that bad attitude i 'd have...im just me and Human.. i donno which must take bigger part I'm just playin fairness... *jam* -live life- keep it simple****