Christmas In May?

United States
May 28, 2008 1:15pm CST
Well as suspected my mother in law went over board for the baby. This baby is still four months away from being borm and yet shes already got just about everything she needs. I left home with a suitcase and some blankets and returned with a trunk full of stuff. I do appreciate it alot as I will not be needing to buy much saves me so much money. My MIL is the type who is always shopping she has christmas presents already wrapped and ready to go. So do you or are you the type who over does it when shopping? Do you shop for advance gifts?
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@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
29 May 08
Thats good that you have just about everything you need for the baby. Maybe you won't have to buy too much more. My brothers girlfriend is going to have a baby in August, we're excited about it, but we don't get to see them very much because they live away from us, she will be my first niece, I already have 6 nephews, we have all boys. But no I'm not the type who over does on shopping, I always wait till the last minute. I don't like shopping actually, it gets stressful on me, because I try too hard trying to find the perfect gift...lol.
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• United States
29 May 08
Dont like shopping what is that possible lol.
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• United States
29 May 08
Yes, it is possible to not like shopping....haha.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
29 May 08
What a lovely mother in law you have there. I am not that organised and leave everything to the last few weeks of the holidays.
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• United States
29 May 08
Thanks she is great.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 May 08
wealways say we are going to start shopping early fro christmas but we dont and your lucky to have someone that thinks that much that will save you money
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
30 May 08
very nice hugs
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• United States
29 May 08
Yeah I do consider myself very lucky. My family takes care of us.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
28 May 08
oh yes, i shop all year round for gifts because this way, you can get stuff on sale which is a big bonus! (why pay extra just because its christmas???) i do start my wrapping in about november (i hate wrapping and can only manage a couple of presents per night!) i would say i have about a quarter done already.
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• United States
28 May 08
Thats great ive got a few but havent found alot of deals just yet.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
28 May 08
wow!I am sure she will not miss anyone for gift giving since she is very prepared. I am not like that, I tend to shop 2 weeks before the occasion or sometimes a week before. But, I want that idea since I have enough time to think,prepare and less stressful too!
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• United States
28 May 08
I know shes crazy but she loves it this way. She has a small home and sometimes I wonder where she stores everything.
• United States
28 May 08
oh really? maybe she has big boxes where she put it all together! Anyway, she is the relatives' santa!LOL!
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
28 May 08
I am the type to go a little overboard as far as gift giving with my family. I just always seem to see something that I think they will like so, I will pick it up. The problem is, I can never do it when it would be easier on my wallet to spread it out throughout the year and not have to cram it all into November and December and then pay for it into the new year. I always try to plan to do that. I promise myself that is what I will do. I even made a New Year's resolution to do it. Well! A lotta good that did me! Here it is nearly June and I still haven't done it! LOL!
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• United States
28 May 08
Well its never to late to shop get youre butt started now.
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
28 May 08
LOL! I will be paying off my car in July and will have everything else paid up so, I will probably start my shopping then! LOL!
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• United States
28 May 08
Just in time for my 30th birthday what you getting me hehehehe
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
29 May 08
I wish I would think to pick up things all through the year for Christmas.. but no, I never do! But then it is internet and catalogue shopping for the most part, as I very much dislike the stores, especially when they are very busy.. Case in point, my daughter's having a child in September, very likely a girl according to the ultrasound, and I haven't bought a thing yet! I think I'm shopping challenged..
• United States
29 May 08
Not me I have a shopping addiction but no money to buy with lol.
• United States
31 May 08
I have been known to over do things it the past. I don't, or at least try not to do that anymore. I think it's great that your mother-in-law is getting you most all of the things you need. You will definately be set up and ready when that baby gets here.
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• United States
31 May 08
I am set except for formula which im sure she will get me soon lol.
• India
29 May 08
No I am not an advance shopper. I tried it out a few times but I ended up buying more than I actually needed. I had shopped in advance and then when the actual festival season was here, I shopped again! Shopping in advance somehow takes away the fun from shopping during the festival season….all the decorations and SALES and new arrivals…oh its too much of fun and shopping during the peaceful non-festive months is so dull. Its almost like a chore you just have to get done. BTW your MIL is so cute, you don’t see these types much these days. My MIL is exactly similar…the moment she heard I was expecting she was busy stitching nappies and clothes and such for the baby. I cherish her help a lot.
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• United States
29 May 08
Yeah my MIL does tend to buy too much but she loves it. Every xmas we know our boys will be spoiled so we dont have to go so overboard lol. Its a lifesaver.
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
28 May 08
How nice of your MIL to do this. Sometimes I will buy a few things ahead of time but not too far in advance, especially where my grandson is concerned since his taste for things changes from one week to another.
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• United States
28 May 08
Yeah I am the same. I got a few ready but she literally has stuff everywhere. I remeber when my hubby and me started dating she found out on a visit it was my bday in a few days and went to her room and pulled out about 10 gifts for me. She just had them laying around her place.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
29 May 08
Yes...and probably go overboard sometimes especially for the grandkids.....I love to spoil them. When I was raising my own kids I didn't have extra money so now when I do I like buying things for both the grandkids and the kids......man...it's so much fun!
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• United States
29 May 08
Yeah thats the same way my mom feels.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
30 May 08
Hi minnie_98214! Wow, your mil is very excited for the coming of Savannah. haha.. I don't think I can beat your mil with her shopping! haha..I am that type of a shopper and I don't think even if I will have much money to spare, I wouldn't go Christmas shopping in May. haha.. Take Care and God Bless! Have a smile in your heart always!
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• United States
30 May 08
Yeah she is excited she has grand daughters but they live far away so its exciting to her.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
30 May 08
Though I don't, my wife does. I wouldn't say she goes overboard, she just does Christmas shopping throughout the year. It's a good thing too, cause sometimes around Christmas my work slows down so the pay checks get smaller.
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• United States
30 May 08
Well its a good thing she shops early than.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
30 May 08
Well i don't think i overdo it (except for our family reunion) but i do try to shop throughout the year because my husbands job at times slows down around the holidays. I don't usually actually start Christmas shopping until Jan. 2nd. I like to stay home on the first because of all the nuts on the road! And the sales and clearances during the year helps us be able to get better gifts than if i had waited until the last min. and had to pay the full price!
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• United States
30 May 08
I love to shop the day after christmas you can get some great deals.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
29 May 08
My mom is like that. She already has Christmas for next year all ready. She even has the presents all wrapped. We do Christmas at her house in the basement, so she just leaves the decorations up year round. She is a shopaholic, and is always on the lookout for a bargain.
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• United States
29 May 08
Sounds like my MIL. She doesnt have a basement yet her xmas trees are up year round also. She works at target so shes always looking for a good deal.
• United States
28 May 08
I do not always shop in advance but as a grand mother and MIL, it sure helps! I do not think I over do it however, and I bet you will not get your MIL to admit it either. We just love to do it.
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• United States
28 May 08
Oh no she will admit it. She knows she goes overboard but she loves it and so do I lol.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
29 May 08
That's really sweet of you mother-in-law going overboard with the baby buying stuff, just think you won't have to worry about getting anything...hey has your proud Dad gotten anything for the baby yet? Most of the gifts I give to people are ones that I make myself since I do a lot of craft work...so kind of saves me money there..LOL
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 May 08
minnie I do so admire people who shop ahead like that as I am one of those last minute shoppers for Christmas gifts. that was sweet' of your mother in law to do all that for 'you. a refreshing change from all the mylotters who cannot stand their mothers in law. I loved my mom in law but we lived in separate states so never got to see her but once. she was a very sweet lady.
• United States
29 May 08
Yeah I dont mind my MIL shes 3 hours away so we can visit but I dont have to deal with her everyday plus shes just really nice. Now me and my FIL have had our issues but we move on.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
29 May 08
Minnie..all of my grandbabies got spoiled before and after they were born...I feel they and the mommies deserve the best and if i am able I will do it for them which i'm sure your MIL did for you plus ITS A GIRL remember..LOL
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• United States
29 May 08
I know I cant help but want to spoil her too lol.
@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
29 May 08
I didn't used to be. I am always that last minute shopper and I HATE shopping. So this year I am going to start my christmas shopping in June. I am buying ALL handmade gifts at etsy.com (which is where I have a shop as well) and I am going to buy a couple of gifts each month until Christmas. This way I am not broke for all of Dec. and Jan. and I don't have to deal with shopping at stores. :) Not to mention I have found a LOT of really reasonably priced handmade gifts for everyone on my list from 3mos to 100yrs lol. So this year I plan to be more organized. (we'll see lol)
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• United States
29 May 08
Yeah I said the same thing and I have bought a few things but I need to get in gear and start looking for more stuff.