do you make it a point to mark best responses?

@richiem (3644)
Philippines
May 30, 2008 9:36pm CST
is it your policy to mark best responses to your discussions? of you just leave your readers to decide? how do you select best responses? when you do select it? do you a lot maybe a day before selecting the best response? what is your marking rule? 5 responses to the best respondent!
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
5 Jun 08
I want to go through and give best responses on my discussions,but I am kind of afraid too,because I dont like hurting peoples feelings,and I dont want to upset any of my friends on here,if I dont give them the best response,any suggestions my friend?
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• United States
5 Jun 08
No because it is your right to designate the response you think is best as the best response,that and I only think I should get the best response if I deserve it.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
so you need not be afraid that you will hurt others if you don't give the Best Response because they may think the same way as you have answered.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
would you be upset if i won't give you the Best Response in this discussion?
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
5 Jun 08
I do not mark best responses on a regular basis but I do try to when I have time. I think that the "response" system mylot has is a great system to award those with great ideas and great responses. It also allows people to be known as once a best response is marked it indicates it at the top of the page. I really like your idea of marking best responses as I think that it's a great way to have fun while encouraging people to respond more to you. It's also great that you let it be well known so that people will look at your own discussions and respond. It's a win win situation. I don't know of a way to do this for my own responders, as like I said I do it when I have time. I may think of my own way to reward these responders. Happy Postings To You, and Have Fun Here At Mylot.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
5 Jun 08
Yes I also rate my responders positively. Although some people believe that the star rating is not a great idea, I think that it helps in finding those who give great responses.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
I also find it as a win-win situation. I want to reward my respondents for increasing my earnings by increasing also their earnings. it creates a symbiotic relationship. that's why i like marking best responses. i also use it to find more friends here in mylot. i know of some who have thousands of friends here and i think it is great! i also rate all replies to my discussions positively. that way, even if haven't chosen them as best respondents, they are still rewarded for responding.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
i have never looked at the stars when i mark best responses. a star is is just an achievement for me.
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@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
31 May 08
I do. I figure, I like knowing someone liked what I had to say, so I"ll return the favor.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
that is also my reason for always marking BRs, returning the favor. had you ever chosen a response who had opposed your opinion as a best response? that would seem a very special case, right?
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@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
31 May 08
Off hand, I can't say yes or no, not sure specifically. but I do know I would give BR, if it was an intelligent and sensible comment. Just cause we don't agree, doesn't mean I am right, they are wrong.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
it should be a very intelligent and sensible comment at that. and maybe that comment have greatly changed your opinion on things.
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@mayka123 (17083)
• India
14 Jul 08
I wait for a couple of weeks after the last response has come in. Its only after that I give a BR rating. But sometimes I do get a response that has touched me in some way. Then that response gets the BR rating right away. I check not only the kind of response the person gives but how long there is exchange of responses between us. Sometimes the string of conversation continues for a long time and I like that a lot.
@mayka123 (17083)
• India
15 Jul 08
Its very rarely that I get to see that personal touch in discsussions here on mylot. Thanks a lot for your response and happy posting.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
The string of conversation is really one of the best measure to select the best response. Because that string shows how involved a person is in the discussion and how willing he is to talk with you about it. I also use that in choosing the best response. I also look for the most unique response, something with a personal touch. Responses which are mostly similar to each other seldom get the best response award. I look for the one that really stood out. Have a nice day!
@sophialin (2677)
• China
4 Jun 08
yes i never forget to mark best response in my discussions.but when there are so many responses,it's indeed a little difficulty to chosse a best one.basically,i'll mark the best one in the first 10 respnses.what's more,response with more reactions is more likely to be the br.
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
4 Jun 08
hi my friend,it's true that we earn more if our discussions have more responses and comments.that's why i always give each response and comment to my discussions positive rating.since they have increased my earnings,i also wish myself is helpful to increase their reputations.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
thank you very much. and i've noticed you have many friends, i targeting to have more friends too.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
i also think responses with more comments more likely deserves the best response. for it means they have been very cooperative in the effort of making a healthy conversation. i am also having the idea that responses with a lot of comments earns the host more points. i have not been able to mark best responses lately because i am busy catching up responding to my best respondents. that is also why i only have few new discussions started yet.
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31 May 08
honestly, i used to not care but when i go about the responses someone just stands up and deserves credit! that's how i choose best responses :D
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
so its the impression they make in your mind. how impressive! so next time i respond to your discusssions i need to be impressive. does impressive means long and informative responses or brief but precise ones?
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31 May 08
hmm...that's hard to decide. i can see you're making a career out of mylot huh? :D
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
i just want to learn, earn and have fun at the same time. things always work out if you enjoy what you are doing.
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I am bad at choosing best responses. I often forget to mark them for months. A few days ago for example I read every e-mail I got from Mylot in my inbox and chose the best responses then. I resolve to try and be better in this effort because I know some people put a lot of work into their responses and they deserve to be rewarded for them.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
I have set a time to mark the best response. Usually, I mark the best response maybe after one day, or after a time when the discussion is not any more active. that way, I don't have problems with unresolved discussions. But now, I am having many unresolved discussions now. But I plan to resolve those and pick best responses after I reach the payout for this month. that would be my new method of picking the best responses for my discussions.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I do mark best responses but admittedly sometimes pretty lame in it. In fact, I just went thru and did up a bunch this morning. It is easy when you only have a couple of responses but it is so very difficult when there are many. I usually narrow it down to a few or at least try to. I will get tired of trying to decide and if they are all equally good, I'll pick one that I don't think I've picked before...spread the love. I really don't like that task but and procrastinate terrible but it does put a smile on someones face so I do take time to do it.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
I think when you are marking the best response, you are also encouraging and motivating the mylot members to respond more and give more of their effort in responding. That way, this community will be filled with inspired and motivated persons and will grow healthy. I know what you mean how difficult it is to choose the best response when there are a lot of responses in a discussion. I usually choose the most unique and most interesting answer.
@sameroad (3178)
• United States
31 May 08
i don't usually give them out right away.. if i ask a question or need help, etc. i give it to who ever answers my question or helps me. and on other discussions that aren't like that i'll sometimes just kind of pick randomly if i can't decided which one i like best. lol but i try and just pick the one that best answers to the discussion topic.
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@sameroad (3178)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I don't think i've ran into the problem yet... and theres nothing i can do so i probably won't feel anything.. lol
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
i also don't give them out right away. have you ever experienced you have marked a response as the best and then later another response came and you think you should have given him the BR (best response)? how did it make you feel?
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I try my best to, although, I may never get around to every response..
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
It's really hard to go over every response especially when the responses reached a lot of pages. But I see to it to read most of the responses before I select the best response.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
yes. i do care about selecting a best response. it's the least thing that you can do to the people who responded to your discussion. i believe that giving them credits will make them feel that they accomplished something & they are recognized for it. i usually wait until no one responds to my discussion. if a day passed & no one added their response, then that's the time i select the best response. i hope all discussion starters practice this.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
yes, i guess. ;)
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
i think most of discussion starters practice this. I am having this idea of starting 5 discussions a day and selecting the best response the next day. that would speed up earnings right?
• Canada
11 Jun 08
I've only recently joined, but I have created a few discussions that interest me and want to discuss with other people. I have received a few great responses, but since - again - I am a fairly new member, I want to make sure I provide ample opportunity for others to view and respond to my discussions. I think I'll set a cut-off mark of about a week, save for the 0 responses (those which of course I'll give a little more time) to provide a best response. I do take the selection seriously because I don't want to just be giving BR's willy-nilly - that would just render the value of the BR as insignificant. I want to make sure I reward a member when they provide me with insight, entertainment, a valid opinion and a non-judgmental response.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
well said. BRs are really precious. It took a long time before I received my first BR.
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• Canada
11 Jun 08
It's my third day here and I'm quite surprised and feel blessed to have received three best responses already. I guess I just really like to talk. :)
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@successlog (3172)
• China
7 Jul 08
hi friend: In fact, i have not marked any one of the respondence on my discussion yet. Some friend's respondence is really nice and meaningful.I have the point to mark some later. And i think every of my repliers want me to do this.Because it will make them earn a little more, the important thing we just get them guaranteed by our sure best answer.isn't it? Have a good day.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Sometimes we can say that we have given our best answer and still it is not chosen as the best response. It is in the mercy of the discussion starter. I always like to mark best response to reward my respondents for their very best effort that they put into the discussion. Sometimes, it really becomes hard to choose one but I guess we really have to. I think it is better to choose one that to choose none.
• Australia
15 Jul 08
We all have opinions therefore choosing ' a best response' can be difficult, yet it really is manners because, at times, you can keep checking back wondering if you will ever get a response, other times you get so many you find it a problem selecting a preference. Wouldn't other go through the same emotions?
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I think it really matters to select best responses because I think if you won't select any, you are depriving your respondents the right to get the award of being the best. I think it is not fair not to select one even if becomes very hard. Have a nice day!
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
4 Jul 08
Is this the one I am supposed to find???? Well there is certainly no zero response rate now! It was not my policy in the past, no; but I have been making every effort over the last few weeks to catch up and mark best responses to all the topics I have posted over the last two years. I am almost done!
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Good for you for making progress with you unresolved discussions now. I have read you have problems with discussions with no responses and I hope I can get to them soon enough. Have a nice day!
• United States
19 Jul 08
There are only a few posts that I started will receive best responses. I know the best response the moment I read it. Sometimes I have to wait and see if anyone else will top it. Most of the time they don't and I mark it.I usually wait a couple of days. But then again I have waited and mark a best response only to have another post come in that should have been the best. And I have a few posts that don't have a best response because there were two that were great and I couldn't decide between the two.
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• Philippines
31 May 08
I just finished giving best responses the other day. I must admit that it was really tiring. I had more than 5 pages to work on. It was my fault, I did not give the best response as soon as I should have. I read all responses and choose the response that satisfies me the most and that's what I choose as best response. It is difficult at times though because most of the responses given are really great!
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
31 May 08
with this experience, when do you think is the best time to mark best responses? how do solve problems like having more than one best responses?
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@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
11 Jun 08
I am not expecting a best response to this, but you can check out my discussions anytime you wish... I wish to review my topics in a little more time. I just find more ways to improve my status here. Best response for me doesn't mean a lot for this, I guess doesn't even improve our earnings. It only motivates us to write more quality discussions and to respond to discussions that would give more challenge to the writer or the starter of it. I think, generally, best response goes to everyone of us here, to write more. More discussions that help us all improve ourselves, as human beings...
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
I don't really know what a best response is worth. But I am hoping it is worth more than a cent. Because I am thinking of selecting a lot of best responses in a day to reward my respondents.
@excellence7 (3698)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
Not really. But sometimes when the discussion worth to be marked, then I go ahead to mark the best response which is like a reward to mylotters.
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@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Actually I only mark the best responses if they really have answered the discussion in a very unique, honest and clear way. Also I usually wait for some time before marking because I still need to view other answers as well.
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