Do keep your cool ,try to reason out or lash out at the sarcastic and

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
May 31, 2008 11:06pm CST
misunderstood responses to your harmless discussions here?
8 responses
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Well, I just had somebody accusing me of being greedy because I made a comment about earning more money in my lot. I just remained cool and told him that there was nothing wrong with wanting more money in life.
@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Jun 08
Nobody has refused any payment from Mylot so far to accuse others as being greedy Mirita.
@littleowl (7157)
2 Jun 08
Hi Balasri-I try always to give a formal response and my opion or view on a discussion-very seldom has anyone not agreed with me and come back with rather unsavoury responses but to my response or discussions but if they do I still just try to put my view across and call it a day by that-I don't like misunderstood discussions nor disagreements because of them as we all know this site is just for asking questions and receiving each others views not misunderstanding or lashouts on what you have responded to or discussion you may of started-your friend littleowl
@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Jun 08
You said it right Little owl.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Jun 08
I try to keep cool when he/she is not that known to me. If its someone I know I would reason out till last.
@balasri (26537)
• India
9 Jun 08
I know that's what you will do. I like the reasoning out part.I always try that.
@balasri (26537)
• India
12 Jun 08
You are absolutely right.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Jun 08
Proper reasoning could be constructive and helpful. The problem is we kind of confuse it with negative argument.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
1 Jun 08
It actually all depends on what kind of mood I am in at the moment. I get so tired of someone being rude to me. Sometimes I just let it go but there are other times when I have had enough and I will let a person know it. I try to be nice to everyone but there always seems to be one or two people who like to keep trouble stirred up, no matter where I go or what I do. Sometimes I just don't respond to thos epeople at all. It is a waste of my time. I don't want to start and arguement with any of them either.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
1 Jun 08
That is the best policy.Ignoring is bliss here.
@anonymili (3138)
1 Jun 08
I don't think I've received any sarcastis or misunderstood responses to any of my discussions so I can't really answer your question from experience. What I would say though is that myLot is a fun place to come to and I hope I would not take it seriously if someone left silly responses, I would pretty much ignore them I guess. Life is too short :)
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@balasri (26537)
• India
1 Jun 08
It is always nice to meet peopole who react like you.
@GreenMoo (11833)
1 Jun 08
Perhaps I am lucky, because I have never experienced anyone being deliberately unpleasant here on MyLot. Sometimes people do not understand the discussion, but that it understandable considering that it is a worldwide site and lots of posters have English as a second language. That's no problem. It's always good to hear what people have to say.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Jun 08
That's a great attitude Moo.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 08
I do not try to reason out, till my discussion has been completely understood. If someone writes nasty reply, I try to ignore that member's comments. Because I beleive, entering into arguments does not going to serve any purpose for me. I feel, it is difficult to change mind set of some of the people.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
1 Jun 08
That depends on the comment. I try to stay reasonable, but if they continue in the same vein I will stand my ground or walk away.