What turns you off in the opposite gender?

@catmint (628)
Singapore
June 3, 2008 10:02pm CST
I guess because I am extremely shy when in strange company, I always find guys who cannot draw me out of my shell is a turn off. Guys who are arrogant, lack confidence, unfriendly, judgemental, pretencious or excessively confident are total turn offs. What traits would not sit well with you?
5 responses
@020788 (78)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
First things first. What really turns me off especially with a stranger is - a dirty set of nails! It just means for me that he is a topsy-turvy kind of person, he can't even manage to do one little task how much more with the big ones. Unlikeable teeth like very yellowish crooked teeth is a big minus too. Next will be mannerisms, anything unacceptable behavior he has will be a great NO NO. Then the personality when I get the chance to know him. I don't like those selfish, dishonest, overconfident, messy kind of guy. It's a turn off if he's not goal-oriented, dependent, and not romantic.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 08
That describes the lack of self-introspection and self emotional recognition. Those behaviors are following and correlating to each other in one person's emotional.
• China
4 Jun 08
Sure, shyness is a barrier among people not only guys and girls. Speak up your feeling, emotions, your likes and dislikes, why not? Of course, I dislike arrogance, prejudice.
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
mmmmmmmmmm..........I think we had the same traits that makes us tUrn off to a MAn... i merely doesn't like such traits especially if The person concern is not GOd- fearing one....and has live life with all the temptations on earth such as being a drunken masters, smokers, and many other bad habits in life.... I HATE SUCH ONE.. *jam*9 -live life- keep it simple****
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
4 Jun 08
NUMBER ONE.... DISHONEST!! The rest are in no particular order... selfish prejudiced Unkind Poor Hygiene boastful Mama's boy Lazy Sloppy There is more but these are the top of my list