grumpy wife

So sorry to hear that. I guess that is why many wives sometimes goon strike. No one is perfect. Maybe someone will remind him of that. If he had to do it all himself he may have a different view.Hang in there.Be nice to yourself. That is a start!

well them romance is missing in your relationship.

Well then perhaps a small demo of the frying pan might just get through to him. lol.What has happened 'to the love between the two of you? There has to be a reason why things are going wrong between the two of you? Talk to him and communicate, tell him' what you have told us. it might work wonders.

You sound like me, or how I will be soon. I can never seem to do anything right in my husband's eyes. He is always complaining about something. It's not what he wants for dinner, I didn't hang up his shirt right away, I can't rub his back while I'm nursing my son. He complains about everything! I have to repeat myself 12 times before he listens to me. Being that my children are little (under 2 years old) and we have a house quest (roommate) taking my daughter's room, we don't have time for the fun stuff. The kids sleep in our room for that reason. SO, I'm sorry I don't have much advice for you, but I hope we get it together!

If your not careful,the grumpiness will turn into an ulcer, or premature Grey hair or even age lines on your face. if he says" don't be silly" just laugh it off!it might change his attitude