Bathroom Doors OPEN!

@kareng (54680)
United States
June 13, 2008 11:43am CST
I find this really amusing. I work in a really large building. There are restrooms in the center, and both ends of the building. I find it so amusing when I come to work in the morning to find the doors propped open by the custodians. They do this so the floors will dry. Now what I find amusing is that people will go on in without closing the door, do their business like normal. I just shake my head when I go by, see the door open and then a flush. I would never do this! I always shut the door if I am the first one in there in the morning. So my question to you is, would you go into the restroom and use it leaving the door open? Or would you shut the door behind you? I guess some people don't care about privacy...lol.
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• United States
17 Jun 08
I hate closed doors worse than anything because of my past.....however.....I could not ever do my business with the door open. I even keep the door closed when it's just me and my husband in the house.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Me too! I think it mainly boils down to how you were raised and what you feel comfortable with. Have a good one!
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• United States
16 Jun 08
Aww if I have a stall door to lock, then I probably would leave it open as well. Now if there was not a stall door then yes I would have to shut the outer door.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hehe. I would have guessed you would have said the opposite. lol!
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@lisado (1227)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I guess it depends on where the toilets are located. At the Naval Hospital you have to do an S curve around a wall that leads to a large room full of sinks and a smaller area in the back where the toilets are. You can't see or hear anything from the hallway when the door is open. I've left the door open there, but in most cases I hold it or move the sign. I can't "go" if someone is watching or listening, like if there is a line of people and they're staring at the door waiting on me to come out. I freeze up when under pressure. lmao
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
That does make a difference but still a question of modesty and privacy here since it is a small bathroom with only three stalls. LOL on you freezing, when I gotta go, I gotta go!
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@TinaCL (429)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Yeah I guess after awhile you don't get shocked by seeing those kinds of things. I always close the door when I use the bathroom. Unfortunately, when I'm in public restrooms, the locks don't always works. Once I was in a public bathroom where the lock didn't work. I REALLY had to go, so I made do by putting my bag behind the door to act as a barricade. Unfortunately, some moron just barged in without knocking. Why don't people knock before they enter public restrooms? Don't they know that the locks don't always work?
@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
That's rude someone barging in! Geez...
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@relundad (2310)
• United States
13 Jun 08
If it had stalls in it I would more than likely leave it open. The reason is that I hate after I have done my business, washed my hands and ready to go, I have to touch the exterior door not knowing if the people before me washed their hands. I normally take a papertowel to open the exterior door if its closed. This would be one less step and probally one less cold per year...ickkkk....the germs on the bathroom door!
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
You have a point there, but you cold also use your foot to push the door open.
• Greenland
13 Jun 08
difinitely something I wouldn't do :S I would die of my shame if I forgot the door open and someone passed from the hall :S
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Yay,we have a gentleman here! awesome!
@scapula (760)
• Jordan
14 Jun 08
Door Hole - Joke : Why do some people leave the bathroom's door open behind? the answer was because they won't let anybody to sneak from the door hole
I always double check that the door of the bathroom is closed, I don't want to be embarrassed if someone by mistake come in, this is bad habit to leave it open behind, actually you remembered me with a joke which says "Why do some people leave the bathroom's door open behind? the answer was because they won't let anybody to sneak from the door hole", I didn't imagine that their is some people do it.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
haha
• United States
17 Jun 08
I guess I would be one of the ones that don't care about privacy. I would be one of the ones that would go in and use the bathroom without closing the door. My first thought is that I am lazy and I am not the one who propped the door open in the first place; second, the door was propped open for a purpose, and since I don't know what that is or if this person is returning, let me leave it alone; third, the stalls have doors, right? So you can't see me! Finally, if you hear me in there doing my business, so what? We all do it! We're all human!!! So why should I be embarrassed about a normal bodily function?
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I have yet to figure out why they prop the doors open. If they mop, you sure can't tell it. There is tile in there with a groove that is supposed to be white. It (the groove) is now black. So if they are mopping, they are not mopping with any kind of effort.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
14 Jun 08
LOL..Kareng..when you grew up in a household with 6 kids and then had 5 children of your own..it doesn't have a meaning the word privacy..LOL..When i go to a place and the womens restroom is so long in the line..I tell the women.."Don't be so modest..we all have the same thing..so save some time and button yourself/zip your self up after you get out to move the lines faster"..it always gets the ladies to laugh and the lines do move faster..LOL..yeck with privacy..Nursed hungry babies wherever too!
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I can see that where there are lines but there is never a line in this restroom. There are three stalls and it is unusually for there to be 3 in there at the same time.
@Valenas (1507)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Oh my. Is it one of the bathrooms with stalls, or does it just have one toilet? I would not mind if it was stalls, that is one less door that I have to open, and the bathrooms at my old high school did not have doors when we walked in there. But, if it is just a single-toilet, you have some brave co-workers! I would definitely shut that door behind me.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
13 Jun 08
There are stalls but this restroom is located on a MAIN hall with lots of traffic.
@Valenas (1507)
• United States
13 Jun 08
We have thousands of kids roaming the halls of the high school that I used to go to, and wide open entrances (ten feet on each side) on both the men's and women's bathrooms. I think some people are used to it, but I can understand that others might feel uncomfortable. Also, people there early in the morning might not feel as bad about it because there are less employees nearby at the moment.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Yeah, it takes all kinds to make the world go around!
• China
14 Jun 08
i also realize this phenomenon in our campus. i prefer to shut the door and care about my privacy very much.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Good to hear it happens everywhere and not all the weird-o's are not here. lol
@xhatredx (19)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
wth?? of course i will shut the door lha. come on. it's privacy?? can anybody nit have the privacy int the toilet nowadays?
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Apparently now!
• United States
13 Jun 08
Sometimes I leave the door open. It depends on how much attention I'm paying. I know sometimes after I've done my business I walk out and realize it's open and had a little "flush" of embarrassment. It also depends on how many people are in the bathroom. If I'm the only one and I'm paying attention, then yes I will close that puppy. Especially if it's a small bathroom, say 2 stalls. If it's a bathroom with a lot of stalls and a lot of activity then I probably won't because: 1)I'll feel like a fool for being the only one wanting the privacy. Why would I feel this way? Because I believe going to the bathroom is a natural part of life and in a perfect world people wouldn't be embarrassed by doing things they have to do to live. 2)It won't matter in the long run...there's already people in there to hear you go, plus people outside the restroom won't be able to identify who's doing what.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Good point, thanks for bringing us all back to reality.
• China
14 Jun 08
Oh,dear.I think it's a common discussion. Cause I have something agreed with you. Often,my mother tells me not to close the door when I am at home.For the reason,it's unconvenient for her to use the washroom. Though thus.I always close the door.lol Why does she get the strange idea? I want to know... If the male comes ... Oh my god.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I think our mom's generation was very modest, more so that we are. Now the generation below us, has let all modesty go out the window--or most of them.
• United States
13 Jun 08
always close the door
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing! At least I'm not the only one left in the south that would take the time to shut the door! Good to hear!
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I've worked in places where I've seen that, and honestly, I don't get it. Not only do I not want to be seen or heard, I don't want to see or hear anyone else. I can't see why someone would neglect to close the door. Can they be in that much of a hurry? It only takes a second to kick the doorstop up.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I guess they just aren't very modest. I don't get it either.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
13 Jun 08
I am sure that all of the responses you get to this discussion says they would close the door behind them, because that is the normal thing to do. But I can only guess that some people aren't normal. Of course I would close the door even though I am a woman and there would be another door to close for me so it would be a little more private for me. Hee hee.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
LOL, yep you are right--all people are not normal!
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
14 Jun 08
OMG, can't say I have seen someone do that before that is bizzre, don't they know a thing called privacy. I would never do that, I always shut the door when I am doing my business, lol.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I know!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Jun 08
heavens no I would shut the door before going into a toilet stall. I want my privacy for sure. I think some people get the idea that since the door was left open they dare not close it lol.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I think that is part of the reasoning and just being lazy.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
13 Jun 08
Don't these bathrooms has stalls with doors. If this is equip then maybe it does not make a difference for the users. They just go on doing their business.
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@kareng (54680)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Apparently it doesn't bother some. I like to shut the door because this restroom is on a main hall and there is a lot of traffic constantly in the hall.