Do you think its possible that the lost love ever come back in life?

@subha12 (18449)
India
June 16, 2008 5:21am CST
One of my friend was asking me this few days back. she once wa sin relationship with a guy. Actually that guy cheated her. they broke up in very bitter way. they are also not in contact thes edays. But it seems that she is not still able to erase the love for me. After about a year she misses him so much. she even mailed that guy but he did not respond. Do you think that its possible anyway for the guy to contact her again? And say sorry?
5 responses
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
it depends on the personality of that guy,some guy really treasure thier X but most of guy doesn't care about tghe feelings of the girl they hurt...but then their a saying that what you have done to others will come back to you the worst scenario...but if your saying that the guy might contact the girl maybe if they both are not yet married,if they both is still single there will always a chance that they might be together
• India
17 Jun 08
Nope, i dont think its possible. Better she gets involved in a much busy life schedule and limit her thoughts 4 him. She has to move on, obviously, the guy cheated on her and still she has feelings? She really needs to get out of that situation, where she thinks he ll come bk, ppl like that dont. And she should have some dignity 4 herself, and stand up against him, even if he ver come bk, but i guess she is so weak and so much more confused.
@checapricorn (16049)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hi subha, if the guy cheated her , maybe he is now happy with the new girl and I am sure time will come he will be asking forgiveness from your friend but I am not sure if he will still consider to come back. He was able to hurt her already and left her in a most painful way so It's very negative for me that he will do it. I hope your friend will be able to move on even without the "sorry" from her previous lover!
@ssh123 (31086)
• India
16 Jun 08
If due to some misunderstanding, or tendering of sincere apologies on the part of one of them or both them can make things clear and I do not see any problem if they come together to love each other. There are so many instances where the lovers have come together after a bout.
@stephcjh (32303)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Yes. I have been through this so many times in my younger years. Guys would use me and dumo me and then come back to me and do it to me again. I got so tired of that. I told the good lord the last time, that if another guy does that to me, please keep them away from me and do nto send them back if it was not meant to be. He sent, my now husband, back to me and we have been married for 16 years now.