If you met your ex-boy friend accompanied by new girl on the street......

bf-gf - relationships
Malaysia
June 17, 2008 3:28am CST
If you met your ex-boy friend on the street accompanied by his new girl, what would you do? Say hello or quickly turn away?
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10 responses
@rsa101 (28259)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Well I think its best to avoid the situation at all. I guess the relationship has ended and you have no more right to interfere with his business anymore.
• China
17 Jun 08
I think you should walk along to him, and ask him by face to face if you have enough courage. Don't worry about the resoult, just look what his react. Maybe all of this is a mistake, or more worse, it is true. anyway, it's a best choose to deceide meeting it directly i thought.
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@rsa101 (28259)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Well I really don't think that as necessary why would you create a stir if you and your BF has separated ways already. Just let him be and you on your own way. Get a life of your own.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks for responding.
@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
Hello curious888, If I can avoid, I will avoid him but if not, I will just say hello. Anyway he is just my ex, and I don't really care whether he has a new girl or not. I just want to avoid him because I don't like to meet my ex anymore. Once it's over, it means really over for me *smiles*
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks for sharing.
• Indonesia
20 Jun 08
Depends on my mood. LOL. Well, probably I would just turn away and pretend that I didn’t see them around. * grinning * I don’t think the new girlfriend would feel glad to be introduced to someone who is the ex-girlfriend of her current boyfriend. LOL.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
I think so too. thanks for sharing.
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
i would say hello and chat with them. honestly im already close to my exes and to their girlfriends. it is really nice to have a good relationship with this people. though others says that its weird to be close with them.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks.
@williamjisir (22885)
• China
17 Jun 08
Hello dear curious888. I think that it all depends on how you both parted each other. If it is a sad departure, then there is no need to say hi to him or her when you see him on the street or vice versa.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks
@checapricorn (16049)
• United States
17 Jun 08
HI curious, If we have a good breakup, like we talked about it,we agreed about it, I will definitely say hello to both of them...but, if we end up the relationship in a sad and bad way, like third party...I will be turning away, especially if I meet them and I am still in the process of healing myself!
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks for sharing.
@holachika (176)
17 Jun 08
Some would say it depends on the nature of your break-up or separation in the past. If it was friendly and amicable, then by all means say hello. But if it's not, then it would be better to look the other way and leave. I see some comments in the thread thinking the same way.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks.
@stephcjh (32303)
• United States
17 Jun 08
If it was me, I would turn away quickly and act like I did not even see them. My ex's treated me badly and they would only want to flaunt their new girl in my face. They would also act like they are all friendly to me, but I know they cannot even stand to be around me. Most of my ex's would not give me the time of day anyway. they also used me and act like I do not exist now.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks for sharing
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
I think I have to ask my bf what is going on. I have to make sure that he will not deny what he had done because if I were able to confront him the later time presumably he will deny everything. I want to see his reaction and the other girl reaction and the long talk will be the second time or maybe not at all.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
thanks for responding.
@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Jun 08
I already got over it. I am married and have a happy family. So when I meet my ex-boyfriend with his new girlfriend, that's no problem for me. Perhaps I will be excited to say hello to him. I love China