Does "making love" with your BF/GF really needed in a relationship.?

@mEisky (824)
Philippines
June 25, 2008 2:04pm CST
I get so confused with all the situations nowadays,'cos there were lots of minors doing that kind of thing even if they're not at the right age.For you.?is it the sign of true love with your partner (as what other says.?
3 people like this
7 responses
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Making love isn't a sign of true love. I can't even determine why would minors go for something like that in a relationship. Don't they even bother for the consequences that it could bring? Another human being can be born and would they be sure that they can grant that child good parenting while they themselves aren't well established to take care of themselves? If they are curious enough to experience an intimate activity like that with their partner, them might as well be curious enough to consider the possibilities of doing such things as well.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Yea,soo true.It's so sad to have this kind of things nowadays.i knew some of my friends who's already dealing with this,actually i told em not but all they could say is that they can't.uugh.too bad.
1 person likes this
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well, as long as they are aware of the possibilities and the consequences, let them lead the life that they want to. Its their choice anyway. We often make decisions and they would either be good or bad ones that really determines our lives but, even so, its how we deal with the results which really counts, not the mistakes or achievements. Hey, thanks again for the best response
1 person likes this
@tianli (311)
• China
4 Sep 08
Sometimes, making love is not a sign of ture love ,it just a impulsion and a requirement.
1 person likes this
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
its definitely not the sign of true love.. coz if it were so then a lot of people would have found their true love... heeheh.. yes, younger people now a days are more sexually active.. there are just a lot of influences now a days that drive these minors to do the things that they do.. its sad but it is reality.. but then again "making love" is the ultimate act of love that a man and woman share.. (note: man and woman, which means adults.. heheh..) but ultimately the difference lies then in the reason for doing it.. you may be young or an adult.. just as long as you are fully aware of the responsibility that goes along with it.. =)
1 person likes this
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
good day... not really specially when they were both too young to know the responsibilities it requires. but if they're of age and knows the pros and cons and if they both consent then I think no one could object.
1 person likes this
@shav9292 (928)
• India
23 Jul 08
i dont think so ,avoiding such a situation builds up a healthier relationship according to me,,,,, that is until you are married of course.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
Minors nowadays tend to be hasty in doing what they want. They just rely on their emotions, the love that they thought was there is not really love but lust. Consequences are bound to happen with these kind of relationships. So if one needs to cross that bridge, maybe he/she needs to think twice before they do it. Is this love or just lust? Is he/she really the right person for me? These are the questions that need to be considered and be contemplated.
1 person likes this
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
I don't think that making love isn't really necessary in a relationship even though a lot of people had been doing it already even in a very young relationship. I think that if your partner actually forces you to get into this despite the number of times you have already said no then it is really not a sign of true love.I also believe why a lot of teens get into this activities early on is because of the availability of materials that could really influence them to think that this things are cool. Sad to say but this bad influences are really everywhere from commercials to products.