tianli

@tianli (311)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Are there any efficient ways to get rid of the snores?

youless @youless (113950) • Guangzhou, China 24 Aug 09

In fact I get used to my husband's snores. But since lately our son starts to sleep with us, so I am afraid that it will disturb him. Are there any efficient ways to get ride of the snores?

snore

snores

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tianli You are so great,you are still insisting. Man always has many excuses to explain his idleness . o(n_n)o...like me, I give up mylot a very long time ,but today I see you are still here ,I admire you .

24 Aug 09

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Do you often use ATM?

youless @youless (113950) • Guangzhou, China 19 Dec 08

I don't often keep a lot of cash in my hand as it's not very safe. The ATM is quite common everywhere and it's easy to find one. So I prefer to withdraw money from ATM when I need the cash. So I use it quite often.

atm

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tianli Hi that is a long time to see you. I prefer to use ATM ,but there are not much money in my bank card . LOL~~~

26 Dec 08

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Will sharing a bed with your children kill your marriage?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 23 Oct 08

Sharing a bed with young children is a common practice in Asian families as they think that it makes the family closer. Some people think it's a horrible prospect and it kills a couple's intimacy. But even with that kind of...

intimacy

sharing bed

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tianli Yes , I think it is not a wise behavior to share a bed with child ,of course, if it is just a occasional phenomena , I can accept , while if ask me to share a bed with my child everyday, I will be mad . I cann't imagine how discomfiture that a couple make...

23 Oct 08

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How often do you have get together with your family?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 23 Oct 08

Family get-together is an important occasion but sometimes though we are all very busy working to make a living that these occasions are sometimes left unattended. For me, our family get-together is only when someone has a...

family

get together

occasion

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tianli Now, I am a student and have much time , like summer vacation , winter vacation and weekend . But i prefer to have a job and earn money by myself , live a busy life . As what you said , I can understand your feeling , all the reason is that you are so busy,so...

23 Oct 08

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where do you start a discussion?

wangkai @wangkai (797) • China 22 Oct 08

Hello every one on the mylot.we know that if you start a discussion,there are two wys to choose usually .one is from "interest".the other is from "general discussion".however they have different effect for a discussion.why it...

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tianli I always start a discussion from " general discussion" , I even don't have a try from " interest" . If "interest" really can get more responses , I will change this habit. *_*

22 Oct 08

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What's the effective way to reduce the spicy taste?

youless @youless (113950) • Guangzhou, China 15 Oct 08

When we eat the spicy foods, although it tastes well. However, the spicy feeling is also terrible. I have heard that drinking milk will less the spicy taste. I am not sure whether it's true. Do you have any effective ways to deal...

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tianli LOL ~~ I have the same question with you , I can't refuse the spicy foods which are so delicious , for example,duck neck , I am mad about it recently . the feeling of the spicy is so terrible , but after you drink some water , then feeling will be more...

22 Oct 08

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"I think you are insane"

cyntrow @cyntrow (8523) • United States 21 Oct 08

There is a certain person here on Mylot who is so crazy and nonsensical that I cannot bear to read the discussions any longer. Furthermore, when this person replies to a discussion, I just skip it. When I do see a discussion by...

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tianli Hi, cyntrow . Do you find a funny phenomenon that if you don't reply the message which make pepole think you are talking about him or her. And after giving your last response " not you" , then the one you don't reply is answer , right?*_*

22 Oct 08

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The reason to be a mistress.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 21 Oct 08

I was watching my local news and they listed the 4 reasons women said they were seeing married or attached men. Here they are: No strings attached. There wouldn't get serious. Better s*x.The time spent together is well...

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tianli I don't get married , but I oppose to be a mistress . Once a woman become a mistress which mean she will unhook from a society . as a woman , she should have her own life except her boyfriend or husband .Work and friends can make a woman's life more...

22 Oct 08

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Can you last a day without talking .....

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 21 Jul 08

Can you go through a day without talking to anyone, not even on the phone? I've done that before - once or twice, when my husband was overseas, and I was all alone at home. It was rather nice - very peaceful, and...

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tianli When I just saw your discussion's topic , I had thought that you would say a day without talking is boring and grief . then scaned your content, I found I was wrong . I can't image what a boring day without talking. when I am at home , I often feel lonely ,...

22 Oct 08

Friendship or Money?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 21 Oct 08

People are getting more and more materialistic today. Some people are not true friends at heart. Some of them become your friend because of your money. They will leave you when you are not rich anymore. Only then, you can really...

friendship

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tianli Yes , it is true, but I haven't experienced it.I am a student and haven't entered society , so friendship and money are both important for me , Of course , when meet some troubles ,I will give a chooce between them .but by now , I haven't meet it .*_*

22 Oct 08

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'Love is a weighty thing for girls'

marina321 @marina321 (4556) 21 Oct 08

Yes, that's what this article I read in the paper says...[i] 'A Woman goes through five stages of weight fluctuation when she's in a relationship, new research has found. At the start of a romance she sheds...

comfortable in relationships

comfortable relationships

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tianli In my opinion , love is a weighty thing for everyone,but for a girl , she shouldn't put all energy on her love , who had better have herself work , friends .Once she loses her love , who can face with a great grief.Losing weight is a way of becoming prettier...

22 Oct 08

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On Marriage or Single Life?

tianli @tianli (311) • China 28 Sep 08

We have the different ideas about marriage and life. A man that has wife and children has hostages to fortune,for they are impediments to great enterprises.But the most ordinary cause of a single life is liberty.Whereas, sometimes...

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tianli yes, xi'an is my hometown which is a historical city.*_* now, you are a single, right?and if you have learnt to love yourself firstly ?LOL~~

22 Oct 08

Have you tried wishing upon a shooting star?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 17 Oct 08

When I was a young girl I used to dream of good things in the future. Sometimes i go out of the yard at night and look up to the sky. I often heard from people that it is nice to wish upon a shooting star. So I would look up to...

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tianli Wishing upon a shooting star is a romantic story , I can't remember if I did that when I was a young girl , but I really hope a shooting star can help me to make my dreams come true.

17 Oct 08

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"Drink soup" or "have soup"?

tonytt2009 @tonytt2009 (1706) • China 16 Oct 08

Hey there~I came across a tip about the culture different between west and east countries,which says that the native English speakers will never say " drink soup"? Does it sound rude to you if someone speak "drink soup"? Do you...

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tianli Good discussion, these small discussion are often neglected by us.

17 Oct 08

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one dollar and twelve cents!!

austere @austere (2812) • Philippines 16 Oct 08

that's my mylot earning for today! it's unbelievable!hahaha i'm definitely happy with how much i am earning here!hehehe so the key to get this much earning is to make 50 or more post in a day.. that's what i did i created 50 posts...

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tianli Nice to hear that,but I want to ask you how much time you will cost after making 50 post .English is not my mother language , so I can't express my meaning exactly , one dollar and twelve cents is my dream.

17 Oct 08

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Can you work as you listen to the music or watch TV?

zhaosonghan @zhaosonghan (1039) • China 16 Oct 08

When i was a student i often do my homework like this,now i work as listen to the music,it is very normal for me,i don't know whether you have this habit,but recently i found that i can't pay full attention to one thing,i am very...

work as listen watch tv

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tianli Yes , i often do that . In fact , I like listen to the music when I do everything,including doing homework , housework even sleeping. But watching Tv is too difficult for me to pay full attention to one thing , you know there are more interferes on Tv than...

17 Oct 08

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Do you want to become rich?

Margarit @Margarit (3676) • Philippines 16 Oct 08

According to the book i've read,(im sorry i forgot the name and author of the book) their are 10 secret of becoming rich. 1. Learn the value of time by understanding its importance. 2. Set lifelong goals that include major...

becoming rich

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tianli That is great, but finishing all the suggestion is very difficult ,so rich men are not many . All of these , I think goals are really important for everyone no matter who is ,then are attitudes.

17 Oct 08