Are you touchy?

New Zealand
June 27, 2008 7:25am CST
Do you like being cuddled up with your loved one? Do you love holding his/her hand most of the time?
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12 responses
• Indonesia
27 Jun 08
i am not touchy. how can i touch my girlfriends if she live 750 miles from my place? having a distance relationship, we cannot be touchy. we can just talky
• Indonesia
27 Jun 08
sorry, i mean "my girlfriend" without s
• New Zealand
27 Jun 08
LOL.. I understand... I used to be in that situation way way back... I can only dream about it...
• United States
28 Jun 08
aww I feel you . LD can be so hard but sometimes they are so worth it when you finally are able to be together
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
27 Jun 08
Lets face it, this kinds of things only happen when you are not married. I mean during the first stages of a relationship, you would go out on a date, say go to movies where you would snuggle while enjoying your movie. But as your relationship progresses, this cuddling thing becomes less needed. But the holding of hands is always there whenever you walk together.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
27 Jun 08
I don't agree with you, perhaps my relationship is one of the few once that still has this (as you state it's not neccesairy after marriage), but my boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 years now and we still snuggle up. We're not married yet but together for a long while now and we're engaged. I guess it depends on the couple, what you want and what you expect to happen.
• New Zealand
27 Jun 08
hmmm... you both have good points... but in my case with my ex gf we became more touchy when the relationship between us got deeper... but since I'm still too young to be married I guess I couldn't agree with muelitz yet... so we'll see about that in the future...
@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I think you're assuming what happens in your relationships happens with everyone. My wife and I have been married for 4 years now, together for 6 years and we still cuddle all the time.
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
Definitely yes! Sometimes if my boyfriend doesnt hold me i feel like taken for granted specially if were in a crowd. i want to be embrace all the time hehehe.
• New Zealand
6 Jul 08
I feel that way too at times but I understand her so I learned to live that way but when we're alone I really cuddle with her a lot...
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
YUp, i love to hold my loved one inside my arms and holding her tight.. Because i dun wanna lose her at any moment and i wan her to feel that she's the only special one to me, and only she deserves this kinda touchy things from me.. And also to let her know, how much i love her ^_^ hehe
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
28 Jun 08
yeah, other than my dear, xxjinx08xx, i'm thinking also of my sweet preciouse julie.. lol ^_^ MUAHHH mAUHHH
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
yeah kun2349 I feel that way too... when I'm with her I just don't wanna let her go...
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@manoj1502 (854)
• India
27 Jun 08
Ya its the truth and fact that we always wish to hold the hands of the loved once because its simple we LOVE them.when some one takes care of you each and every minute than we wish that person to be be with always we would love to hold their hands tightly. weather its happiness or sad we want their hands to hold.
• New Zealand
27 Jun 08
I like the way you think... hehehe... that's one way of looking at it that I never really thought of until you said so... thanks...
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• India
27 Jun 08
Do you know why God made gaps in our fingers to be filled with our loved once : )
@MaeTsuen (257)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
hello there base on my personal experience i love to be cuddled or hold my hands by my partner. For most girls and myself too, It gives me the feeling of security, that nothing bad will happen, thus being cuddled uplift ones spirit even if it's just your friend, being hug makes you feel good.What more if it's the love of your life who's the one hugging you. It makes me secure or remind me in the simplest way that he loves me buy just holding my hands or cuddles me. . If i can the chance even on elevators on malls i give a quick stolen kiss to by partner. And he likes it =) As they say "Actions speaks louder that words."
• New Zealand
6 Jul 08
Hehehe... yeah actions does speak louder than words... I believe that too...
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
yes. I'd love to be cuddled up by the people who love me especially my boyfriend. I love him holding my hands, giving me a hug and kiss me.
• New Zealand
1 Jul 08
I feel the same way... thanks for the response...
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
27 Jun 08
Hi There, With me it is usually yes...but in moderation. I do like to hold hands and stuff, but I like to have my own space as well. I cannot stand to always be in contact with someone else. Sometimes I do it just to make them happy, but inside it drives me crazy. So I guess in short...yes...sometimes. :) cheers,
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
hmmm so you're not really the touchy kind of person...
@MsCYPRAH (394)
28 Jun 08
Yes, I am very touchy feely, tactile and affectionate. I always want to be held, to be hugged and just be close to my partner no matter where I am. It's a wonderful feeling of affirmation and reinforcement. The converse to that is I cannot stand being touched if I don't like the person. I am then as detached as ever. But when the chemistry is there between us, snuggling up close or holding hands it can be a awesome experience.
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
yeah that's how I feel too...
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
27 Jun 08
I absolutly LOVE when my husband holds my hand or cuddles with me. I must be lucky because I have been married for almost 3 years and the cuddling hasnt stopped. I am a very touchy person. I love when my husband is doing everything expessially holding hands.
• New Zealand
27 Jun 08
hehehe... nice... I hope it never stops even when you become really old already... wish you both the best... god bless you and your family...
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
28 Jun 08
i am not in a relationship now, but i love holding my family mmember's hands!!! i feel more secure and feel loved... and i guess it help us to be closer to each other!!! i love my family!!!
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
yeah that works too...
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I love being close to the man I love . We like to always be close like that . I love to cuddle and just holds hands when you are out together. i feel bad for some couples who dont have that
• New Zealand
29 Jun 08
LOL I used to be in such situation... but it was easier that way than when she left me for real...