My Update On Everything
By CatsandDogs
@CatsandDogs (13963)
United States
July 2, 2008 12:38am CST
that I can remember since there's so much going on at one dang time.
Yesterday mom went to the doctor and she told me that the pain in her side had disappeared but the other pain (chest) is from the fall which she landed on top of her walker so that too should subside in due time. Both she and dad like the doctor very much so that's one thing knocked out of the way. They finally have a PCM!! YES!! One less thing to worry about!! Thank God!! Anyway, they both had some prescriptions to have filled and so we met them at the store as well to help out since mom couldn't go inside, she's too weak and dad doesn't know much about what is what and where things are so I did the shopping for him.
Today dad had an early appointment with the VA doctor which is 2 and a half hours drive away so I had to be at their house by 7am to be with mom so she wouldn't be alone. I got about an hour more of sleep before having to get up because she was up. She was bright eyed and bushy tailed and strolling herself around in her wheelchair trying to do some small things which is very good for her, I think. Her therapist doesn't want her doing anything but to save her energy to her exercises. I disagree because, she's relearning her motor skills by doing the little things. Anyway, I haven't felt good all day long however, I managed to keep going. When I got home I laid down and slept a good while because I'm just not feeling good and trips to the bathroom... you get the picture. I think I've run myself down now and I have to take time out for myself to regroup once again. These past few months have been pure hell and obviously, I'm not coming out smelling like a rose... just yet. Hopefully tomorrow I'll feel better but not so sure that I will for this has been coming on for roughly two weeks now. I'm wondering if it has something to do with my broken crown and tooth that was inside which broke too and that maybe I have an infection of sorts and the stress that I've been under sure as hell doesn't help any. However, tomorrow is another day so we shall see how it goes and what it brings me. I've got to clean my house some day and since it's the first of the month, I HAVE to get my bills paid.
I'll be going back to mom and dad's on Friday to help them get their bills paid so I'll most likely be gone all day long.
Loads of fun that'll be... NOT!
I do have more great news to pass along!! I have an audiologist appointment on Thursday!!!!!! Just a day away!! I'm so excited because it means, I'm one step closer to getting new hearing aids that I so desperately need!! There's an organization who's helping me get them since they cost is unbelievable!! Somewhere in the 3 thousand dollar range!! Ridiculous as hell but it is what it is and not a thing we can do about it. AND get this!! I have a dentist appointment on the 16th!! I'm finally getting my life back in some aspects which is such an awesome feeling!! YESSSS!! It IS my turn now and I'm sticking to it!! I will NOT cancel any more appointments because it's MY turn to care for myself too!!
As for my cat Bobo, he's doing GREAT!! He's walking now without falling over even though he's still a wee bit lopsided still but he's doing so much better!! He is, however, getting a little bit depressed because he's not allowed to go outside on his own. We'll take him out on a harness and a long long leash, more like 5 leashes and a very light weight chain so he can roam some but not far. He likes to just go out there and lay in the pile of leaves and enjoy the fresh air and sounds of mother nature and just go to sleep. I can't trust him enough to take him off the leash for I'd be afraid he'd take off the first chance he gets and that's NOT going to happen... He has a second chance at life and I'm going to be darn sure he gets every bit of it! lol
Hubby and I decided to try to sell my car for a couple of reasons. One is because the gas mileage has dropped horribly!! It went from 27 mpg to 22 mpg!! Something HAS to give!! Hubby seems to think it needs a complete tune up and now but we can't afford to do that but we might have to put it on a charge card... a never ending damned debt!! ARG!!
But one has to do what we have to do especially with these gas prices as they are! Another reason is because it's a small suv which means, it's so easy to flip it if one isn't careful especially on a windy day. We have a lot of windy days here so I'd feel much safer something else. I'd love to have a mid size suv but they're too expensive and we sure as hell can't afford the payments right now so that idea is OUT. lol We need to look into a car that's good in gas mileage more than anything else. I don't want something that made of tin either because in the event of an accident, I want some steal around me!! lol But then again, as long as we're both very careful, I don't see why not. At least for a little while.
Hey, sorry that this so long but I wanted to do it all in one discussion instead of two or three or what ever. I can get it all in in one shot and soon go to bed to get the rest that I so desperately need. Thanks to all of you for your love and support!! You guys are awesome!! xxxxxxxx 
Loads of fun that'll be... NOT!
I do have more great news to pass along!! I have an audiologist appointment on Thursday!!!!!! Just a day away!! I'm so excited because it means, I'm one step closer to getting new hearing aids that I so desperately need!! There's an organization who's helping me get them since they cost is unbelievable!! Somewhere in the 3 thousand dollar range!! Ridiculous as hell but it is what it is and not a thing we can do about it. AND get this!! I have a dentist appointment on the 16th!! I'm finally getting my life back in some aspects which is such an awesome feeling!! YESSSS!! It IS my turn now and I'm sticking to it!! I will NOT cancel any more appointments because it's MY turn to care for myself too!!
As for my cat Bobo, he's doing GREAT!! He's walking now without falling over even though he's still a wee bit lopsided still but he's doing so much better!! He is, however, getting a little bit depressed because he's not allowed to go outside on his own. We'll take him out on a harness and a long long leash, more like 5 leashes and a very light weight chain so he can roam some but not far. He likes to just go out there and lay in the pile of leaves and enjoy the fresh air and sounds of mother nature and just go to sleep. I can't trust him enough to take him off the leash for I'd be afraid he'd take off the first chance he gets and that's NOT going to happen... He has a second chance at life and I'm going to be darn sure he gets every bit of it! lol
Hubby and I decided to try to sell my car for a couple of reasons. One is because the gas mileage has dropped horribly!! It went from 27 mpg to 22 mpg!! Something HAS to give!! Hubby seems to think it needs a complete tune up and now but we can't afford to do that but we might have to put it on a charge card... a never ending damned debt!! ARG!!
But one has to do what we have to do especially with these gas prices as they are! Another reason is because it's a small suv which means, it's so easy to flip it if one isn't careful especially on a windy day. We have a lot of windy days here so I'd feel much safer something else. I'd love to have a mid size suv but they're too expensive and we sure as hell can't afford the payments right now so that idea is OUT. lol We need to look into a car that's good in gas mileage more than anything else. I don't want something that made of tin either because in the event of an accident, I want some steal around me!! lol But then again, as long as we're both very careful, I don't see why not. At least for a little while.
Hey, sorry that this so long but I wanted to do it all in one discussion instead of two or three or what ever. I can get it all in in one shot and soon go to bed to get the rest that I so desperately need. Thanks to all of you for your love and support!! You guys are awesome!! xxxxxxxx 
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6 responses
@mummymo (23706)
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4 Jul 08
We are aawesome? Are you for real? You are awesome my sweetheart and you have done so much and so well to cope with everything, even when you think you can't go on you have found the energy and marched on for everyone else! I am so chuffed that you are finally taking time back for your appointments and yourself! Please know that you are in my heart and my prayers and I am thinking of you all the time! Hugs xxx
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
4 Jul 08
YESSS you're awesome!! Because most people would've left me to deal with this on my own because they can't handle it. You didn't and for that I thank you from the top to the bottom of my heart!! I couldn't have done it without you!! I sincerely mean that!!
Now have you seen my lastest discussion? I finally went to see an audiologist!! Check it out....
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
2 Jul 08
You have some very good and positive things going on. I hope it continues that way. It is early morning, but I am feeling kind of puny myself. May go back to bed for an hour. This is my self scheduled day. I work, but at my own pace. I hear from two or three people, both online and off that there are some pretty nasty viruses going on and they are just wearing people out. Of course one would find you.
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I'm home now and have been since Saturday but have been back to mom and dad's a few times though to help out. The first fall was in the bathroom and the second fall was in the living room. That's why I snapped like I did in that last discussion I made. I even told dad (or Jimmy did it for me) over the phone on Monday to bring the darn wheelchair to the doctors appointment for if he doesn't then I'm NOT going to meet them there to help. Guess what? He listened and brought the darn wheelchair! He knew then he was pushing me too far by even suggesting he wasn't going to and did bring it after what I told him. I'm tired of the bs because I suggest something or Jimmy suggests something, it gets tossed out the darned window... well NO MORE! Mom is being hard headed and doing things that she should'nt be doing and she knows it. I haven't told her yet but I know I need to and I will but I know she'll get bent out of shape when I do but I need to tell her that if she falls and breaks her hip then it's dad, Jimmy and I who has to deal with it besides her dealing with the pain, we're the ones overloaded with the responsibiity of keeping her household going when/if she lands in the hospital again. It's not a nice thing to say and I know she'll blow up but dang it, it needs to be said but of course I haven't yet because when I was there yesterday, she was so happy and upbeat so I didn't want to spoil the mood especially when I wasn't feeling so good but if she doesn't settle her butt down, it'll have to be said and then that's when things MAY get ugly (again) but so be it if it does.
So anyway, since I've been home, I call them every now and then during the day to be sure she's alright and they know now that I've been putting off my appointments and want me to go and I am going regardless.
My car which did give 27 mpg but for some unknown reason, maybe in need of a complete tuneup, it dropped to 22 mpg which is terrible!! Jimmy wants to tune it up first in hopes that'll do the trick AND it needs an $85. alternator so this is going to cost us (while guess) around $200. or more! Like we have the money... yeah right. Damn, life can be a true blue B*TCH when it wants to be!!
Bobo, he's outside on a leash just enjoying the great outdoors. I sometimes wish I were a cat. To have not a care in the world... I should be so lucky!!
I'm feeling a bit better today. I think it was a combination of things such as exhaustion and tooth problems but hopefully I'm on the mend! Hugs to you!!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
4 Jul 08
Sweetie you are run down and tired, your Body is now telling you to take things easy, it always happens, while things are upside down you do not notice you just keep going and going, but once things calm down that is when your Body lets go and it is telling you that you need rest and recover from all the stress and activity, so rest as much as you can and when ever you can, the House can wait, your Body can't so please listen to your Body, I know I have been there many a time. I am glad that you have your Appointments now, today is Thursday please let me know how you get on
Love Hugs and Strength to you
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
4 Jul 08
You're right gabs and it's why I decided NOT to go to my parents house today to do their bills and clean up what ever needs cleaning because I need the break from everything. I'm not even going to clean my house because I need the break, mentally and physically. I've had two break downs now and I know I have to stop and think about myself for once or I'll snap completely and end up in the ward and I sure as hell don't want that. I did another discussion, I finally went to see an audiologist. Check it out for it's got some really good things and some really bad too - as always. It'll all come together in the end though for some really good is coming forth and we'll keep on working on the bad which will get better in due time. But for now, I'm taking a much needed break for me. Thanks hon!! You're a real gem!!
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I'm home now and have been since Saturday but have been back to mom and dad's a few times though to help out. The first fall was in the bathroom and the second fall was in the living room. That's why I snapped like I did in that last discussion I made. I even told dad (or Jimmy did it for me) over the phone on Monday to bring the darn wheelchair to the doctors appointment for if he doesn't then I'm NOT going to meet them there to help. Guess what? He brought the darn wheelchair! He knew then he was pushing me too far by even suggesting he wasn't going to and did bring it after what I told him. I'm tired of the bs because I suggest something or Jimmy suggests something, it gets tossed out the darned window... well NO MORE! Mom is being hard headed and doing things that she should'nt be doing and she knows it. I haven't told her yet but I know I need to and I will but I know she'll get bent out of shape when I do but I need to tell her that if she falls and breaks her hip then it's dad, Jimmy and I who has to deal with it besides her dealing with the pain, we're the ones overloaded with the responsibiity of keeping her household going when/if she lands in the hospital again. It's not a nice thing to say and I know she'll blow her top but dang it, it needs to be said but of course I haven't yet because when I was there yesterday, she was so happy and upbeat so I didn't want to spoil the mood especially when I wasn't feeling so good but if she doesn't settle her butt down, it'll have to be said and then that's when things MAY get ugly (again) but so be it if it does.
So anyway, since I'm home, I call them every now and then during the day to be sure she's alright and they know now that I've been putting off my appointments and want me to go and I am going regardless.
My car which did give 27 mpg but for some unknown reason, maybe in need of a complete tuneup, it dropped to 22 mpg which is terrible!! Jimmy wants to tune it up first in hopes that'll do the trick AND it needs an $85. alternator so this is going to cost us (while guess) around $200. or more! Like we have the money... yeah right. Damn, life can be a true blue B*TCH when it wants to be!!
Bobo, he's outside on a leash just enjoying the great outdoors. I sometimes wish I were a cat. To have not a care in the world... I should be so lucky!!
I'm feeling a bit better today. I think it was a combination of things such as exhaustion and tooth problems but hopefully I'm on the mend! Hugs to you!!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
9 Jul 08
Short and simple is this reply. It seems you can see the end of the tunnel and the light is finally in sight and you have turned the corner. See to yourself now sweety. Stick to your good intentions because everything seems to be falling into place.
Blessed be.
@gemini_rose (16264)
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3 Jul 08
It does sound like you are seriously run down, and when we are run down then that is when illnesses that we are normally able to fight off come sneaking in. So if your health is going to suffer it will be now because your immune system will be low. Hopefully your dentist will sort it all out for you.
Glad to hear your Mum is doing OK, and your cat its really good. We are all suffering cos of the petrol prices and other prices rising, all in all it is pretty depressing times for everyone. I really like to hear your updates and I always look out for your discussions and I often think of you and hope that each day is a better day than your last day. Take care xx
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
4 Jul 08
It's been one of those days again today but there is good news and I'm about to start a new discussion on it. I'm so drained and need rest so badly but it's not going to happen. I have to go back tomorrow to do their bills which is an all day ritual.
Anyway, I'm happy about today but the bad news brought me to tears but there is a solution but still, I'm in the dumps even though the solution will work just as good. Once I'm put in that down mood, it's hard for me to come out of it especially all the hell I've been through and still going through and I'm exhausted as hell but I'll come up again sooner or later... I'll come up again. I know I will. 
Anyway, I'm happy about today but the bad news brought me to tears but there is a solution but still, I'm in the dumps even though the solution will work just as good. Once I'm put in that down mood, it's hard for me to come out of it especially all the hell I've been through and still going through and I'm exhausted as hell but I'll come up again sooner or later... I'll come up again. I know I will. 







