Do you think it is hard for people of different cultures to marry

people of diffierent culture have different customs. it is difficult overcome this kind of difference. if the couple really love each other and want to get married,don't marry immediately.they can live together for 1-2 year in order to know how the one he/she want to marry live in daily life. If they can get along with each other well and still want to marry,isn't it a better time?

My husband was from a very different culture and background. Agreed we had to make a lot of adjustments (I think this should read as I had to make a lot of adjustments). My my inlaws had accepted my very nicely and allowed me to live my own way. I was allowed to continue practising my religion.

It wouldn't be that hard as long as you are very open to others. About the economic status, it would be difficult if the parents of your beloved who are members of the higher class are well, hard to please.

It is hard for people of different cultures to marry at first but once they get adapted to each other's way of living, things become easier. I think it is a bit difficult to cope only at first but later things run smoothly :)

base on the different culture and background,people have different opinions to face things, when two are together, they must have enough patience and kind-heart to get along with each other, if you choose to another culture, you must take good spirit prepare, for me ,I am not going to be like that, I like local guys:)

i think it's important to keep communicating between different cultures lovers , to look for more things in common.

Hi AnnaB7, As long as both of you willing to understand each other or willing fot the adjustment i dont think its hard to marry different cultures, I am talking about myself and my husband, we have different religion before, but we manage to understand each other. and until now we are happily married. the only thing is missing is a child. thanks and have a nice day my friend.

marriage is the hardest job you'll ever have. it doesn't make any difference who it is if you are both happy & stay in love that's a miracle.

In the end, love will overpower all. However, I do believe that it should be difficult for people of different cultures to marry. The best way to handle a situation like this is to be sure that the couple engaged have a very detailed, deep, and expressive conversation about each one's own personal wants, needs, beliefs, values, and customs. With this converstaion, there will be some aspects of each other's culture that they may have to change, alter, or completely remove from their lives to accomodate each other. So answering your question, yes it would be difficult, but not impossible.

it will be a bad marriage someday . i think

It is not hard to marry a person from a different culture....what is hard is to keep the marriage with that person from a different culture! When you are fully in love you think everything will work and you will find solutions, you will make agreements, about the difference in customs, religion, cultural background...but later on you find that is not everything solved by love alone. The families of the two persons also get involved, trying to influence the couple and then the fights begin. Also when the children come, each member will want to bring up the children in their own way.... Trust me I know, better to marry a person as close to your own upbringing, even like this you will have enough problems to solve in the marriage.

i do not think so. i do think that love can solve anything. if a man is deeply in love with a woman, he would do everything he can to make her happy, and vice versa. and also if you have nothing in common and you cannot accept his/her culture, you will be in love with her/him, right?

For me,culture and background has got nothing to do with marriage as long as you guys really love each other.

Yes. I think it will bring the troubles easily .Peolple frome different countries must have different concepts, thoughts and characters which always lead to quarrel.

I think that any marriage with two doffrent cultures can work if you want it to...For one anymarriage wether two diffrent cultures or 1 in the same compramise is a must have,also understanding. I think that most mulit-culteral marriages have alot more strain on their marirage because they have to fight the world together. there are many who dont beelive in marrying outside your own race they give looks of dissaproval,comments so it makes it harder for them. i think that it all depend on theur beleifs and there customs.. Im not ganna marry someone who in there culture it is okay for them to beat there wifes, wifes cant do this and wifes cant do that. Never would i marry into that. but if there not like that and you love the other person why not,, i say wh cares what others think we have love thats all that matters:)...

I don't believe that anyone should let something stand in the way of marriage. If you are truly in love with a person, and they feel the same way about you, then there is no need to let something so insignificant stand in the way of the two getting married. How someone looks or ranks should not be held against them. After all, they cannot help it. If someone really loved the other person, they would not let that stand in their way.

when we are marrying someone essentially we are bonding with all their family members, I think here a lady needs to be more mature and understanding . usually she interacts more than her husband. so I think for a marriage to work both of them should put effort to get along with each other families, only then they can expect a happy family :)

i think it can work you guys just have to be willing to accept the differences that being from different cultures may bring.

hhmm....there can be some issues after marrying a partner from another community or with diff culture...but if the couple is matured enough...these things can be worked out...and yes..they can lead a happy life even with different cultures....

No with modern generation you can inter marry. Unlike the old age where strictness were considered. I come from a culture where many world athletes come from, many of them have married foreign girls while our girls have been married by foreign men. So there is no problem in this what matters is love among the two.