Why is it so hard here to have fun?

We could have a witch hunt or a "troll" hunt and after we take all of them out, then the fun can begin.. I have been trying so hard to get my 10 back and can't do it for love nor money.. I worked hard for that 10 and someone, I have no idea who could have done it, decided that they wanted to give me negatives, so I have to try all over again to get back to my 10.. I am ready to have fun on Mylot, so count me in when you get it figured out.. And all of the "Gloomy Gus's can just go home and leave us alone..

When I'm here I have lots of fun. Where are you Rosie? I couldn't give a doodah for the trolls, if they exist at all. I've heard of them, but have yet to see one. I care only that my friends and I can giggle. There are times when what seems like tidal waves of negativity overtake people, me included, but I can't help feel that it is all needless. If we refrain from throwing stones, then our windows won't be broken. If they are, well, put new glass in and hang the expense. I'm much more concerned that there are no interesting discussions right now, and those like the one that you had deleted, that are fun, should remain. The Guidelines should be just that. Not hard and fast rules unless someone has been hurt or the site is likely to break the Law. Now, I'm going skinny dipping and I have some pasta bake, strawberries and cream and lashings of real lemonade. Fancy a dip?

Rose I do not think that we ever can, the Site has been destroyed by the Trolls because now Friends are falling out, People are getting stressed out People are scared to start Discussions, I am really fed up with it when I first joined 2 years ago it was nothing like this and it is sad to see what it has turned to, do not worry about the Trolls Sweetie just stick to your Friends that you feel safe with Hugs

just do it. have a good time. post discussions that interet you and don't worry about what others think. just have fun. when you focus on the trolls they are then going to be focused on you. just have fun. live in the moment and don't worry about a future that is not here yet

Hi Sweetie, There have been a few discussions that I couldn't understand why they got deleted. I don't understand it at all. I didn't see any links or any bad words or anything. Trolls huh, well the don't bother me as much as the gremlins. Trolls come at ya and up front about it. Gremlins, now they are tricky. However, dragons are the bestest, lol. Hugs,

WELL how about this I was your first reply and I am not even included....what a sad place this is

well, i think everywhere you go there will be good and bad people... and that includes mylot... you just can't avoid it... as long as you keep your low profiles here and just make friends with everybody, i don't think anything will happen to you here... just try to relax and be friends with everyone and have fun... even if the trolls attack you, just ignore them and pretend that they don't exist... don't give them the satisfactions to see that you get upset because of them... they are just not worth it... take care and have a nice day...

I say screw the trolls, I could care less about this damn star, have at it as long as I am free to enjoy my circle of friends, and those that want to befriend us all. Give me a glass of sangria and a pole to dance on, I would think that would bring a few giggles and fun back into our place!

I think many of us here are feeling safe and having fun. All these accounts you sometimes read about trolls victimizing people or posts getting deleted...well there are such things existing, but I don't think it is a big thing or that it is rampant here. We get to hear about these stories from a couple of people, but the community here is so large, and there are thousands and thousands of postings, so I don't think these things manifest themselves in any big way. Just post as normal, observe the rules of myLot, and you should have a pleasant experience. If you worry about this, it will bug you because then you will start to feel paranoid. Just relax and have fun with all the nice people here.

rosekitty i feel the same way with my friends here, I do trust them, but I dont think we are too nice as a group I think we are just a great bunch of people and just a few trolls are causing big havoc, we need to have fun andignore the trolls and let them go take a long dive off a short pier. if we can we should delete any trollish insulting posters responses.otherwise we should all get along as its social here as well as money making.huggles to you rosekitty.

Well, Rose, hehehe.. hunny.. We could always have more fun and party again at the Realm? No trolls are welcomed at the Realm, except for our very own Troll! Bring your friends over! We always have plenty of room at the Realm! Hehehe! *winkwinkwink* And gimme the magic carpet back! I need it again to fling some poo at some people's house!! LOL!! Love you, sis! XOXO ~Shad

I think it is fun here or am I seriously mistaken? Also what do you mean by a troll? Other than the odd one or two people that spam the place with referral links and post nothing else I have never witnessed a troll.

I don't konw I just reply which discussion which I interesting. And I 'm feeliing a little boring just reply here. Why mylot don't have other thing as like playing games for us to have fun and earn money. Why moylot just staying like a forum and don't have anything new.

I really do not know,why don't people lighten up a bit,this isn't a court hearing just a discussion site. You ask a question and you would think you are ready for the firing sqaud lol Get real everyone,have a laugh.

i havent had anything deleted that i know of but i try to not let trolls destroy what i want to post but i have seen my rating go down after a post that may stir up some feelings from different people.. maybe they should monitor ip addresses for those people that do it.. get blocked.. then just start another account.. i dont think they should block ip's right away since there are other people in the family but they could pay attention if that address keeps producing problems..

Hello Rosekitty, We have to forget things that happens here but you have your friend that is all that matter just do you discussions and reponding and just have fun, you can't those people win. Tamara

Just like anywhere in life online or off, you are going to come across inmature trolls, who think that they are really cool because they can bully or put down others, I have always believed that if someone is petty enough to waste their time trying to cause other people misery than they really are not worth my time or effort to even think about or consider them. Just put these sorts of people out of your life and continue to have fun being who you are and pay no attention to people who think that they are superior or at least try to act like it when in fact they probably realize that they are truly pathetic.