Can you last a day without talking .....

@lazeebee (5461)
Malaysia
July 21, 2008 2:41am CST
Can you go through a day without talking to anyone, not even on the phone? I've done that before - once or twice, when my husband was overseas, and I was all alone at home. It was rather nice - very peaceful, and I had my books, TV, the computer and snacks to keep me company. Some people can't, like one of my friends, even when she had a sore throat or a bad cough, she couldn't refrain from talking. It's like, she had to hear the sound of her voice, whereas I just like to have background noises, but don't necessarily need to talk. How about you? Can you go through a day or how long can you go through without talking to anyone?
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
I can't last a day without saying any word. For one, I am a teacher and I need to speak every now and then in my classes. Talking for me is a very healthy yet affordable way to relax and clear your confusions. Well, if you have sore throat and bad cough, it would just be good to stay silent and speak minimally.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Yup, it's your job - just imagine a teacher who doesn't talk! The students will go crazy, wondering why ! Well, one of my friends still continue talking though she had a sore throat and bad cough - I guess she loves the sound of her voice! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
@eveeee (659)
21 Jul 08
Hi lazeebee When you say you had your computer was you talking via thay, such as instant messaging or even mylotting? I have done it before many times, where I don't orally talk to anyone, if I have been stuck in all day, but I have kept in touch with people via Instant messsenger and other sites and also via text. I think if absolutely ALL forms of communication were cut off I would go stir crazy but I don't have to actually talk out loud.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Hi Eveee...the computer was, so no skype or voice over. So it's only messaging and mylotting! I guess you're right - communication is there, but not talking out loud! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
21 Jul 08
Even when I lived alone, I talked to my dogs all the time so I don't think I can completely not talk at all. Sometimes, ok maybe almost every day, I even talk to myself out loud! I don't think I want to go without talking.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Maybe I'm talking to myself, though not out loud. Just like now when I'm typing away, I'm having a conversation in my head! Thanks for dropping a line and have a good day!
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@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
21 Jul 08
Hello,lazeebee! I am not a saint that i will not talk to anybody during the whole day.it is not only difficult but also impossible on my part to remain calm even for an hour.even if nobody is available with me at home to talk I will to talk over phone with my friends and grand sons.to remain silent is punishment for me.thanx.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
well yea..i agree.it's soo uneasy not to talk the whole day.whew..i cant actually do it..im gonna be crazyyy..haha
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@parthag (145)
• India
22 Jul 08
During the process of becoming saint one has to go through a training to keep mum. This may last for days.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Bbsr13 dear, it's not saintly though, not to talk. If there's anyone in the house, they'd have thought I'm crazy not talking at all. I was rather happy with the peace and quiet for that one day! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
• Canada
22 Jul 08
Not a chance. Well at least I could last without verbally talking to a person but probably I would at least have to talk to someone online that day.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
Hi Khaled, online as in msn, email or skype, where you actually talk to them? Anyway, thanks for responding and have a good day!
• Canada
26 Jul 08
Usually Yahoo Messenger.... The reason why I can't last a day without talking to anyone is that I don't go into absolute silence except if I am really depressed. However, when that happens, I usually find someone close to me to talk about my problems.
@snebxu66 (379)
• China
16 Aug 08
I've done that once over 20 years ago when I took passenger ship to my university, I just slept and ate sth without talking to anyone for 2 days. Is it too silly at that time? but I really did not want to talk sometimes, just kept quiet. Now it is changed and that never happen again.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 08
Hi, that's interesting. Where was your university? I suppose you were among strangers in the ship, so you didn't talk to anyone! Thanks for sharing and have a good day!
@snebxu66 (379)
• China
21 Aug 08
I live in the central part of CHina and my university is in Shanghai, an amazing city.
@MsCYPRAH (394)
22 Jul 08
Definitely not!! It's not just the talking, per se, but the interaction with others that I would miss. I am a communicator and i love to chat, especially on the phone or dining out. However, there are days when I really like my own company and don't really want to speak to anyone, though they are rare, and mainly when I am not feeling too well. I certainly could not go for days without talking. I think I would go mad..:o)
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
Yup, we need to talk to keep in touch / communicate; however, at times I'd need to retire from the world for a little while just to enjoy the peace and quiet! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
22 Jul 08
Wow! That's something I'd like to try. But if I do that I have to get away from everyone I know so that I don't get them wondering what has happened to me. lol Does talking include not writing, not typing any word, not emailing, not instant messaging or using short messaging services? If I do spend a day without talking, I'd be sure to bring a book (or several books) and a laptop. (But then again I should not bring a laptop if not talking includes not typing any word.)
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
Yup, I did not talk to anyone those few days, but still communicate with others through emails, msn and sms. And of course, like you said, I've my books and the computer to keep me company, so it's fine!
@stbiii0 (92)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Yes, sometimes I'd rather like to be not talking and savor the silence around. It get you to think about yourself more and the world around you. You can also harness the power of your mind when refraining to talk and talk with your mind. But it's not also healthy to do this all the time, as you might get insane. hahaha. The key is to balance yourself, if you feel everything around you is so cluttered and too much noise, it is best to indulge in silence.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
Hi,you are right..there are times to be quiet and turn inwards to reflect on self. And other times, to talk and communicate! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
22 Jul 08
This is a really interesting question, lazeebee! I'm sure I've had days when I haven't spoken at all - the last time my husband was away overnight and my son spent the night at his mate's I thought I probably hadn't spoken to anyone - but then I remembered I always say 'good morning, lads' to the two birds when I uncover their cage! My husband and I are pretty insular in nature, so we're not yacking away non stop - but I do find if I bump into someone at the shops I often can't stop bashing their ear because I don't socialise much!
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
I guess you are comfortable with the company of your birds and yourself, when your family is away! At times, it's nice to have some peace and quiet, away from human noises ! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
• Malaysia
21 Jul 08
Hie Bee, my profession involves lots of talking and I do get sore throat at times. And I will be too happy to keep quiet when I am alone by myself but I do occasionally talk to myself out loudlike now for instance. It is nice to be away from the daily normal routines and get to hear/listen to other pleasant noises instead, it does calm me down and very comforting too. Cheers,
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
Yea, I would be thought of having something weird or major thing going on too...stay away, BEWARE. But it's great to be able to get away from the daily norm of noises. Cheers and have a good weekend.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Yup, if I'm working, I have to talk. I can imagine my staff, customers, partners - they must think that I'm either in a bad mood , having my PMS or totally crazy - if I don't talk to them. However, a day or two away from all these noises was really very relaxing - the total quietness - I really miss those few days!
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@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
22 Jul 08
Hi lazeebee, that is a lovely question and reminds me of a film i saw recently about Geronimo, where one of the indians did not engage in any conversation or smalltalk. Apparently the reason was that the indian was preparing himself for going into battle, when he would have to be absolute quiet to sneak up on the enemy. I do like the quiet and I do like to have time alone to myself to think. However, I also like the company of people too. I need to get the balance just try. All the best. Shush! Umart
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
Hi, what was the name of the show? Sounds interesting! Yup, it's good to have balance in everything we do! When there are people around, we have to talk, or else they would think we are angry, unhappy or worse, snobs! Thanks for responding and have a good day!
@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
22 Jul 08
Hi Lazeebee, I can go through the day without talking to anybody. I like to have time alone and to think things out. My mother tells me I was always that way :-) However, I also like the company of people, so I try to keep the balance just right. I saw recently in the film about Geronimo that an indian used to keep quiet the whole time. When somebody asked why?, they were told - he is practising for the war, when he has to sneak up quietly on his enemy. See you. Umart
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
Hi, I remember your response earlier ! Thanks for responding again!
@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
26 Jul 08
Hi Lazeebee, sorry for the double answer, but I was having some technical problems with MyLot at the time and thought the first answer was not sent. The film was Geronimo: An American Legend (1993) with Wes Studi. It is the indian army scout who always remained very silent. Have a good weekend. Umart
• Jamaica
22 Jul 08
I know I could go a day or two without talking to anyone. I'm a quiet person by nature and I don't really like talking on the phone for like 13 hours (unless it's someone I haven't seen in a while). There have been days where I haven't said much to anyone the whole day. I know I could'nt go a day without talking at school though. My best friend is so talkative I'm sure I would'nt last half an hour.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
On the phone for 13 hours - I've not done this! Have you, or someone you know did this? It's amazing!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
21 Jul 08
There are times I do not talk to anyone much unless it is my husband. I just go thru days where I feel it is not worth having to call everyone just to say HI!! and would rather do it by Email or myLot etc. as well. I find it never hurts to just have time for yourself without actually having to talk all of the time to someone as well. But about 2 months or so back, I had laryngitis, and could not talk at all for like 2-3 days, so that was not Fun at all. I had no choice as to not talk as I had no voice. And since I felt so miserable on top of it, all I did most of the time is sleep as well. So in times like that, it was peaceful for sure for my husband as well.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
Hi, I would feel the same - it's different, if keeping silent is a choice, rather than forced to , because of illness or other reasons. I hope you're better now. Take care!
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
21 Jul 08
When no one else is around I think I can manage, but I know for a fact that I can't when other people are around even if I don't want to talk. I got fairly pissed off when I just had jaw surgery and people around me (who knew I wasn't allowed to talk) would keep asking me questions and talk to me and I got so annoyed I told them in a pretty loud manner they shouldn't asked me anymore questions because they know I can't answer and I really hurt my jaw this way. Even the fact that this happened didn't stop some people to talk to me so I stayed in bed in my own room for about two days and felt very lonesome. I slept a lot and luckily in a while my jaw felt better. I like to talk normally when my mouth and jaw feel fine so I think I wouldn't last for 3 days or so but 1 or 2 should be doable.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
It must be very annoying for you then - that people could actually see that you've had jaw surgery, and they still expect you to talk. I'd have done the same thing you did, or maybe pin up a notice saying 'I can't TALK - don't ask me anything'.
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
21 Jul 08
It is nice but you need to distract yourself. If you do nothing to activate your mind you'll be putting in for sickness, believe me. When I'm totally alone, usually every weekend, I constantly do something to spark up my interest, like cooking, cleaning, reading, praying, etc. It is nice to be quiet and do things for yourself but if I do it for more than two days I begin to feel the effects. I'm not so sure we humans were exactly meant to be alone.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
Your're right - so I'd have my books, TV, DVDs and the internet to keep me company.
• United States
21 Jul 08
I feel the same way. I do talk a lot for the simple fact is, I recently moved and a lot of my family and friends live in a different city and I use the phone a lot, and my boyfriend lives kinda far, so me and him talk a lot. But other than that I like just hanging out and being quiet.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
I guess you miss your family & friends very much - which means you'd want to talk to them and hear their voices. I'd too, if I have to move elsewhere. I'd call them everyday!
• United States
21 Jul 08
the closest i've come to going a day without talking is that i lost my voice for 3 days. i had a whisper and had to write notes. it was awful cause i couldn't go thru drive-thrus which i often do. i had never experienced being without a voice like that and i was in shock. of course my family thot it was extremely funny.
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
It's terrible, right, when you're forced to keep quiet because of illness or some other reasons. However, when it's a choice, it's enjoyable! Especially when I have my interests & hobbies to keep me company!
@nasohail3 (355)
• India
21 Jul 08
specially for me i won't talk to any body in night because i sleep whole night but in a day i can't stop my mouth ill chat with my friends or relatives or on phone etc its going on you got a whole day its amazing yaar
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
Hi Nasohail, I guess no one talks when they sleep, unless they're dreaming! You must be very sociable, with lots of friends and relatives whom you enjoy chatting to! Thanks for sharing and have a good day!