Are you emotionally attached to your friends on my lot?

India
July 26, 2008 5:57am CST
Yeah I love all my friends on my lot and sort of attached to many of my friends on My lot. You know I’ll check all my dear friends, have responded to my Discussions or no. Sometimes I won’t have time to respond to one and all. And Even I try my level possible best to respond to all of the discussions started by my Friends. But nowadays I feel very sad that am not able to my lot {sad}. There is no Internet access in my office now and in house I will have chores. I feel so sad pity me. And when any of my friends don’t respond too I feel bad. Anyways happy mylotting friends have a great weekend, make friends and enjoy posting here on my lot. Take care and blessings!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
Uhm, not really. There are familiar names and reactions but not really attached to them that much. I don't dwell so much with mylot people, I guess that's why. Yes I do say hi once in a while but not really go all the way to talking to them about personal stuff. We just meet here in the discussions. I'm not attached in the sense that it doesn't really matter to me who started the topic, I merely look at the topic as it should. I'm more inclined to be attached to my chat friends online, but here, I am purely spending time to react or express my thoughts. =) But of course, there are informations here which I would also carry as a conversation to my offline and online friends or to my family. But that's just about it. =) I hope it doesn't make me a monster. That's just me. =)
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• India
26 Jul 08
[i]Yeah thanks a lot for response, but one my friends i was sort of attached because he used to respond to all of my discussions, now he doesn't talk to me, yes of course my lot is best to express yourself.I do agree with you. Take care have a great weekend[/i]
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
27 Jul 08
I think if you get in deep on here you run the risk of getting hurt. Although our relationships on air may be illusionary (we tend to project on to them) the pain associated with them is very very real blessed be
@gemini_rose (16264)
26 Jul 08
I have a special fondness for one or two of the friends that I have made on here, those friendships have spilled into my personal life through emails and phone calls. So those friends I will say I am starting to develop an attachment too. I am sorry to hear that you are not able to access the internet as much as you like, it must be hard to not be able to come on here when you obviously really enjoy it.
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• India
26 Jul 08
[i][b]Hello gemini hope you are doing well, thanks a lot for the response. Nice to hear that you have made genuine friends. Take care and blessings Have a great weekend[/b][/i]
• United States
27 Jul 08
I get attached to my friends on Mylot too. Two of my best Mylot friends are missing these days and never login. I guess they have busy lives. But I do worry about them and wonder what they could be up to.
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
27 Jul 08
Well they must be very busy just now and must be missing mylot as much as you are missing them.
• Japan
26 Jul 08
emotion ? Not really emotion in the sense of attachments. but a virtual care to the friends - to the unknown unseen friend at the other end of communication.
• India
26 Jul 08
thanks a lot for response have a great weekend
@muxicka (215)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
Nope, I don't get attached to them too much because this is just online. Maybe if someone out there reaches out a hand to know me much more better, I might do the same to him/her, vice versa.
@crazy286 (269)
• India
27 Jul 08
I dont think i am. I have very few friends on mylot and I think i have them there because they want me to respond to their posts and i need posts to respond to. I am not emotionally attached as i dont even know their real names and faces. even they dont know mine. so, it is not ok to say that we are attached.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
27 Jul 08
Yes I do have an emotional attatchment to my friends on mylot and this is why i feel unable to delete anyone from my list, sadly even those who are quite clearly no longer active. To delete them for me is like a betrayal blessed be
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
Hi ramyashreesk! Yes, I am somehow attached emotionally with friends here. I do care about them and have a genuine concern over their situations and with the trials that they are going through. But I don't have that much expectations from mylot friends because I learn to understand and accept that we all have our own lives to live that I can't demand so much time from them. If they won't respond to me, I will understand because most of the time, we all simply can't find time somehow and sometimes, the computer breaks down or something will happen that will hinder us from mylotting. Take care and God Bless!
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
27 Jul 08
I have a lot of friends here on mylot and am attached to some of them. I always check for their responses first whenever I start a new discussion. I like to know what they have to say about the matter. And I surely miss them on a holiday when I cannot access the internet.
@thestar (304)
• Egypt
26 Jul 08
let me tell you that I'm new here but I'm really like your way in written your discussions i don't care about what is the subject that my friend start to discuss cause most of it i have good knowledge about but I'm really care to leave a comment to give him/her the trust to go on above i give a good comment for this kind of discussion that I'm feel that i like it and match with my personality about rating others i think this came cause i love my friends and i want them stay here in mylot so i will help them too to feel that we really love them and rating is the only thing here that reveal this love good luck in your mylot posting my dear friend .