Can you really find out?

Philippines
July 28, 2008 11:43pm CST
A friend of mine threw this question while having a small get together party..Here it goes.. Have you ever meet someone, that as soon as you met them,you just knew that they were the one for you? Have your say, can you really find out? Thanks...Have a nice day!!!
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
29 Jul 08
well in a way...when i was about 15years old I saw a fella singing on TV and I was just gobsmacked, i thought he was gorgeous, a few weeks later I went to a gig that he was at and I stood at the stage and as he went along he touched the hands of the girls, well I got the biggest electric shock and I never ever lost that something for him....many years later after a few very unsuccessful relationships and still he was in my heart and all my old boyfriends knew about this thing I had for this guy then one day he started performing again and I went to a few of them and he started talking to me, he gave me his phone number but i didn't have the courage to ring him but one day i did...he would tell me where he was going to be singing and he always came up and sat with me for awhile, then one day he rang me and asked me to go to one of his gigs with him and after that I spent 18 glorious months with him in his world of music and then one morning he passed away in my arms.... I believe to this day I was meant to be there for him even if it was just a short time....
@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
29 Jul 08
That is so beautiful - tragic but gloriously happy at the same time. Thank you for sharing such a personal story.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Jul 08
gosh lila.......god bless you.
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@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
29 Jul 08
It hasn't happened to me, but I often have a feeling that there is someone out there ... a soulmate if you will ... whom I have never met but I know. It's a weird sense of something just beyond reach. Depending on a persons beliefs, I guess there could be a lot of suggestions as to what this means.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Jul 08
it was not exactly love at first sight.but we were friends and we somehow knew we are for each other.good day to you too.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Jul 08
i am yet to meet someone like taht. but this situation is not rare. i think many have experienced this.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Yes I do believe it happens. I think some people's souls are entwined from the start so when they finally find each other, they just know and feel complete again. It's like going through life knowing you were missing something but not knowing what that something is...then one day you find it and you know.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jul 08
sweetbarbie yes I knew he was the one the moment I met him. I was thirty one, and he was thirty seven. He was an orderly and I was a nurses aid in St.Lukes Hospital in Phoenix arizona. We met makinga surgical bed together and he and I ended up arguing over how to make a surgical bed .lol. he had the cutest bottom and the most wonderful sense of humor too. Sparks flew as we talked and we went out several times and it got worse. we got married six weeks later.our marriage lasted 34 years,we weathered the good and thebad, we lost a child and we survived. I am a widow now and a survivor too.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I was asked to go out with a friend of mine - I wasn't too intrested but after many please come out with me's I went. I only knew my friend so as we approched the tables I said to my friend is that the table we are going to? He said yeah. I looked him in the eye and said I want him that guy there in the black shirt. As we were sitting there having drinks I was falling in love with this guy and I didn't even think he noticed me. We closed the bar / resturant and went back to my friends house. I told the man in black that I wanted to see him again. We have been together ever since. We are now married for 4 years (with a few problems) we have a beautful 19 month old daughter, have a nice house and every thing that should be in a fairy tale. We also have realty and have issues but we are working through them and agree not to give up. I have to say I believe in love at first sight. And you just know.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
29 Jul 08
Yes. It is possible for such a thing to happen. That when you look at someone, you know that that some one is the one for you. It is totally possible. I am a living example. My first love became my girlfriend. And she later became my wife.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Thought I did a couple of times, but I was oh, SO wrong!! I know people who have, though, and turned out to be very happy together!
@nupats (3564)
• India
29 Jul 08
well i do not believe in love at first sight or meeting but yes i do make friends easily and decide up to what extent to build it...it is not easy to form an opinion early...i am a very practical person me and my husband were friends and later fell in love..have a nice day..
• Japan
29 Jul 08
If we feel like that, then probably our heart is cheating the brain. Always rememeber first impression cheat many times. Attraction towards things OK. This is mine and I will buy it OK. But dangerous if we feel that a person is made for me.
@vimaal (3361)
• India
29 Jul 08
hi sweety ya i already have this experiance.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
No. Never experience that before. You can never be sure if that person is the one. It takes time before you will truly knew him or her. That's the time you are sure to say that he or she is the one.
@baintidy (10)
• China
29 Jul 08
May you everything goes well!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I have met someone that showed me he was the one for me. I did not believe him at first but he knew that I was the one for him and I am so glad and so happy that I have found such a wonderful man. I met this man through the internet but also though a mutual friend and am so glad that I responded to him. If I hadn't he wouldn't be sitting right beside me today playing 007!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
It hasn't happened tome personally but in my case it was more of a process than actually that happening right there and then. I know that my girlfriend is the one for me but it took me sometime to realize that. Lucky are those who at that moment realize immediately that they found the person that they love.