When you say " I LOVE YOU" do you really mean it?

@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
July 30, 2008 9:49am CST
To whom and when did you say "I LOVE YOU"? Did you really mean it saying those words everytime you say it?
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@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I say I love you to those I really love. I usually make sure I say I love you to my boyfriend, even if he's leaving after a fight...This is the most important time to tell him I love him... The people I love, should know I love them....there's no point to sharing this world and this life together, if I cannot be honest about the way I feel... I would never use those words to appease someone....That's playing with their emotions and it is utterly wrong..
• China
30 Jul 08
hi, dear Pitgull. I couldn't agree you more. Just be honest, show the true feeling and never play the emotions.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Yeah its true pitgull, that we used never use the word ILOVEYOU to appease someone - its totally a wrecked playing emotions and its totally wrong. Thanks for comment!
@rkrish (3003)
• India
1 Aug 08
"I LOVE YOU" comes out with heart and meaningful for the first time, when we propose and in other times, it used to be more like aaffectionate word. The phrase which is being used to propose for the first time means more and has value too!! And sometimes we meet our loved ones after a long time...because of the gap, we whisper I LOVE YOU with I MISS YOU.
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
yes, i bet...the first time you said i love you to a person would be the most valuable one... Thanks for the post my friend!
@sharay (2769)
• India
30 Jul 08
Of course yes and it is very hard get those three words out of my mouth, i never use them just like that even if its my hubby...very ocasionally i use it, the last time i said was to my daughter who is 3 years old, who loves me so very much...she deserves it every time i say and i really mean it
@sharay (2769)
• India
31 Jul 08
Yes...it is...i have no words to explain her love towards me, a few times i was in a very bad mood and could not stand her naughtiness and beat her up, her father came to pick her up, but even then she wanted only me to take her and would not go to her father
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Yeah, you should raise your daughter with so much love and attention. At young age your daughter knows that you love her so much and see, she does the same...Isn't it such a nice feeling...
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@jamie08 (430)
• United States
1 Aug 08
when i tell my boyfriend that i love him Sometimes i dont always mean it i just say it cause he said it to me . But i do love him just sometimes when he makes me mad i just say it to make things better. I think we just say it too much now and it just gets thrown around too much.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
2 Aug 08
Jamie, I bet you dont love your boyfriend that much, 'cause that are certain times that you don't mean what you say. And you just say it, in behalf for a response to what he said. If you truly love your boyfriend, I think the words must come out from the heart, not by the mouth. And if there is REAL LOVE, you should never get tired saying it. Hope I didn't offend you! Happy posting!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Aug 08
i tell alot of people i love them & i mean it. family & friends i do love. i tell my sons & grandchildren every time i talk to them or see them. i think u should tell people u love them if u do.
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
yes, if we really mean it, then we should always do it... Thanks for the post! Have a nice day!
• United States
30 Jul 08
Yes, everytime I say those words I mean it. I know that the phrase is nothing to just bounce around like a basketball. Love should be valued as a true emotion but unfortunately it isn't always the case. As for me, I say it when I mean it. I wouldn't want anyone telling me that if they didn't mean it.
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
I strongly agree with you KRAYSIETAM, that everytime we say those words we should mean it.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Jul 08
i say i love you a lot.but i do not mean it everytime.sometimes i just say to end an argument.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Was that so..Did it always work to end such argument?
• United States
30 Jul 08
Yes i do.. I tell my husband that i love him as much as i can in a day. Becuase i want him to know that i love him more than anything in this world... He tells me that he loves me as much as he can in a day..
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
That's great! Love will always be spoken when you mean it...
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
30 Jul 08
Of course,if i don't mean it actually,i don't say it at all.It's just my mind.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Hope he can read your mind...haha!
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
for me saying i love you is very important, if i say i love you it's real & i dont say i love u just to play with you or something. i didnt say those magic words unless i felt it.. & it's important in a relationship, coz by saying i love you, you can even change his/her mood hehehe..
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Yeah, you should really feel it from the bottom of your heart..LOL...those words can really enlighten the day when you say it to the one you love...
@mansig (67)
30 Jul 08
When i say I LOVE YOU to some one than i really mean it.I told to my boyfriend i love you 2 months ago.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Does that mean you love your boyfriend 2 months ago? What about now?