disposing things...

@vanities (11395)
Davao, Philippines
August 6, 2008 5:40am CST
i was thinking of changing or disposing of my dining table ..a six sitters which is made of wood and a glass on top...i was thinking of selling it to my friend at a low price atleast 50% of it..i bought it just a year ago..or maybe give it to my brother.. i had already contacted my friend about it ..and she agreed with it..but still im contemplating on giving instead of selling...what about you guys what do you think??.. do you sell or give things if you had a new one??
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Most of what we have is not worth much selling it but there are people who like it any way so we have given some stuff away when we replace it.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
thanks for responding and sharing have a nice day!!
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@jillhill (37353)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I just recently did buy some new furniture and gave away the old stuff. I didn't even try to sell it as it was just about shot! LOL...but someone else will get some use out of it. Had it been in better condition I probably would have tried to sell it.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
6 Aug 08
If you give it to your brother after offering it to your friend, you will create hard feelings. In this day and age, money is getting harder and harder to come by where I live, so you would know my answer. Take care
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
thanks for sharing your opinion on this ..its well noted
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I have done both. I need the money so i tend to try to sell more things. NOt everything sells of course so I end up giving some things away. I really havent tried to sell that many items though, just pretty much things I'm pretty sure I will never use again. I like most of my things. We may be getting a new dining room table too, but I dont know if we could get much for ourold table and chairs.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
thanks for sharing yours..have a nice day
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
If you badly needed the money, sell it. If you don't, give it to your brother, at least there you can still see it. Old things had many sentimental value associated with it. So, think twice before making a decision.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Aug 08
thanks for responding.. and yes maybe i had to think it first..
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@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
6 Aug 08
It depends, do you need the money? If your friend is in agreement then sell it, or if your brother really needs a dining table and is unable to buy one, I would give it to him for nothing. Personally, I am a giver, I would give something away just to give it, if it is something that I no longer have use for. It is very nice of you to have a generous heart
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
i guess i had to think it over first..thanks for responding..
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• India
8 Aug 08
If you don't mistake me, i would say better sell it to your friend even if it is 50% of the original cost, than giving the same to your relations, be it brother or sister.. Its my experience that, tongues speak cunningly at times..and they may wait for instances to quote.. " what else did you, give me.. a old.. out fashioned dining table..that which you considered redundant.. and not a new one.." I don't exactly mean that all the people are like what i said, but what i mean is why to opportune for such an atmosphere? As these kind of situations are quite common in our country especially where the joint family system is in practice. Have a good day friend.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
thanks my friend
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• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Practically I would say just sell it to your friend. At least you gain back the money maybe not the whole amount but at least you gain back half of it. On the second thought if you think your brother need it the most so I would say just give it to him. He'll be really glad if you did. It's not a lose anyway. Your brother is not a different person.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Aug 08
reasonable enough..thanks for responding..
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
sell it. wala ng libre ngayon. har har har. i bought a new tv and my brother wh has a video game rental as his business is interested with my old television set. but i did not just gave it to him. i told him to pay 2 thousand pesos to have my tv. he agreed and i brought my child to the mall and bought some magic slate for him. be bought fries, donuts and ice cream. the remains of the money i put it in my son's bank account.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Aug 08
cool...salamat!!maybe i will sell it na lang..
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
11 Aug 08
If you already made an agreement with your friend you should honor it. Since it is new and you likely spent good money on it, I would try to recoup some of my losses if I were you and sell it. If however it was older and the memory of the purcashe was long ago, I would probably give it away.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Aug 08
that was a good idea!!
@pam210 (344)
• United States
11 Aug 08
If you can sell it especially since it is only a year old I would do that. I know your brother can probably use it but a dining room table is not really a necessity. If a person is in need of an item then I would go with giving it to them - but you can live without a dining room table and since you have an eager buyer that you already have talked about it I would sell it to them. The next time you have something you are replacing consider giving it to your brother before you ask someone to buy it.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Aug 08
very well said ..thanks for responding...but my brother dont know that im thinking of giving it to him..not at this very instant...