are you cheerful or pessimistic?

cheerful or pessimistic - which one is u?
China
August 7, 2008 6:27am CST
hey,every mylotter, r u a naturally cheerful person or a naturally pessimistic person? i think i can label myself as a naturally cheerful person cause i am so humorous that always bring happiness to friends around me,and i don't always dwell on the sad things happen to my life,i just forget and forgive. i think it is helpful to my health. what about u?let's share.
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11 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 08
Hmmmmm i think i am not that Pessimistic but i am sute other people are better judge of that, so whats ur opinion about me? Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 08
thanks so nice of u and i like ur comments take care
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• China
8 Aug 08
u r enthusiastic about friends here at mylot. u r cool.
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@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
I am a cheerful person but when it comes to real problems, I get real too and I would always state the worst situation. In that way I could also get to see the best solution in a problem. I think that dwelling on the negative side would make life not beautiful for you but we need a little of it to see its real beauty.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Aug 08
You have good qualities and understand why others would want to be in your presence. I'm a content, happy person. I love life and make it a point to have fun. Am not moody and get along well with others. I am very funny, just ask me. Have plenty of resources that would verify this fact. I forgive but don't always forget. I enjoy friends who are also happy and funny. Have had plenty of help along the way with being in a good, financially stable marriage which really helps. No money worries, no kid worries since they are grown and moved out. I have a good life and thank G-d everyday.
• China
10 Aug 08
yeah,carolbee,u really lead a happy and relaxed life,no worries,that's great.yeah,i also like to play with those who are happy and funny because i don't always feel nervous and uneasy in their company.they often bring unexpected surprise to my life.enjoy your life and happy every single moment.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I think I have my moments of being both . I would say I am more cheerful that I have been the last few years . Lately , i have been somewhat moody but i know things will get better .
• China
10 Aug 08
hey,metschica, being happy and cheerful does good to your health as well as yourself and others around you.actually we should be detached from those trivial chores,and live a more wonderful life.life is really short.yeah,be optimistic and things will go better.just let everything goes as it normally going on.
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 08
I think I don't have a fixed personality with me. I can be cheerful and pessimistic as well. It's all depends on what I am facing in my life. If there is a very huge problem for me and I cannot solve it alone, I will be pessimistic and keep on thinking about the problem. Overall, maybe I am a person who is more prone to be pessimistic compared to be cheerful. I hardly laugh to lame jokes.
• China
10 Aug 08
hey,yenwie,maybe you are a serious person towards life,you pursue perfect and outstanding,you want to do everything great in your life and always try your best to finish what you have to do.that's great.come on,may u succeed in the days to come.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 08
I like to live in present, and avoid past...Friends love my company, because of my humor,. But on the hand I never forget , past ,those lessons I have learned and those who have done a favor to me
• Pakistan
8 Aug 08
you have given the correct words to my thoughts, thanks for a nice response
• China
8 Aug 08
the remembrance of the past is the teacher of the future.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
7 Aug 08
i am quite cheerful but due to lifes certain circumstances,i have become a little critical but i am not a pessimist.happy mylotting.
• China
7 Aug 08
critical thinking is necessary on life to help us judge different occasions. good luck,
• Canada
22 Oct 09
I am cheerful, but I am realistic. I always consider the worst case senario, and then plan for it. This way, when the best happens, all is well, but IF the worst happens, we're prepared for that too. Notice that i said "when the best" but "if the worst" thus hoping for the best, but realistically preparing for whatever else might come my way.
• United States
14 Aug 08
I am cheerful when it comes to other people but pessimistic when it comes to me.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
11 Aug 08
I'm a pessimistic person and alway worry about all kind of things. Dwell on sad things that happen to me.
• China
7 Aug 08
i don't know what a pearson i am.sometimes i like a quiet enveroment.but some times i like to be crazy.i always worry about lots of things CPI,my future and so on.but i think i'm a fighter try my best to have a bright future,to realizat myslfe.i don't know myself.
• China
7 Aug 08
actually i think u know urself very well.u know ur future,u care so much about economic suitation,u want to fight with ur dreams,that's cool. u want to get what u really want to get in life. just be confident about urself,i believe u will succeed. take care.