Would you forgive your partner (girlfriend,boyfriend,wife,husband) if they cheat

@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
August 8, 2008 7:20am CST
on you? If you do, why?
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I could forgive but never forget and for that reason I would give back the same as I received!
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
which he deserves i think..to be fair and square..LOL..
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
8 Aug 08
Never. I can never do this. Its not my way. I get back on them if they did something like that. I cant tolerate this act over me.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes..i think they don't deserve the love we are giving them if they cheats on us...
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
Yes...once they leave, its never meant to be true love...
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
9 Aug 08
Theres always this thing in love If they love they never leave
@Jennious (30)
• Vietnam
9 Aug 08
I think I can forgive if he honestly confess to me. Nobody's perfect. Maybe it was just his weakness moment. I don't know if I can do that when it happen. It's just my opinion :)
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
probably, not unless you'll experience it...by the way thanks for posting! Happy mylotting! and Welcome to MYLOT!
@abhaijith (2963)
• India
9 Aug 08
mm,I don't know ,how will i react. I can't even think about it.May be i can forgive.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
well i think you can't be sure unless your in the situation....
@keepklose (127)
• United States
9 Aug 08
the first two times yea. but the third time im out.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
wow, you can forgive twice....hmmm in the third time she'll do it again, i think she's making it a hobby and it isn't good at all...it may turn out to be her attitude...
@Corimore (249)
• United States
8 Aug 08
NO i was cheated on by my ex and I tried to make it work but he wasn't into it. He just wanted to play with both me and the other woman. So No I don't think i could do that again. It's to hard to trust anything they say or do ever again.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
8 Aug 08
yea,the relation is based on trust.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, i think it should be a lesson..when we already experienced it, we should never take the risk again. once they cheated on us, its hard to forget what they've done and trust them again.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
8 Aug 08
if i love my partner,i will forgive him.but it will be very difficult to trust him now.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes..relationship is based and trust, love and faithfulness to your partner...when one is missing, i bet it isn't love at all...once you give your forgiveness, you should still give a benefit of a doubt...
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes i can forgive if my boyfriend will cheat.. but my treatment to him will be desame like that time when he did cheated on my.. i´ll be putting a barer between me and him
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, i bet once they commit that, cheats on us then, the feeling and treatment would never be the same, since the pain will remain in our heart...they are fool for doing that act..
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Hi sharie17, Well, case to case basis. I can forgive him but I can't forget easily. No ones perfect, but "time will heal". If my boyfriend will cheat on me, I will let him explain everything, like why did he did that? I don't like this to happen when were already married because this is more painful when we have already children, I don't want that my children will suffer under any circumstances. If I can still save the relationship of course I will forgive him. And If this happens again and again I think I have do some thing.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, if you already caught him while you are still on boyfriend-girlfriend relationship it might as well happen when you were married, but surely ask him an explanation for that. you can never be assured that he will change unless given a second chance, but if it is not worth it, then he don't deserve it..better leave him, he can never be a good partner to you...as the other said on the above post, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER...
• United States
8 Aug 08
For the most part, woman genuinely try to forgive their man for cheating on them and try to work things out. I have forgiven and the trust is definitely not the same anymore and it's such a terrible feeling not trusting the one you're with. Now for men, it's quite different. It's as if their world has come to an abrupt end when they find out that they have been cheated on. They handle it worse than us women do. Take care and God Bless!
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
yes, because i think men are more egoistic...isn't that unfair to us, woman, because when we do such act or either any mistakes we've done, it is always hard for them to forgive us...
@rkrish (3003)
• India
8 Aug 08
Forgive and Forget are the basics of relationships and the relationships you have mentioned are those whom we live for !!!! Without them there is no life for us, so not forgiving or rembering the things will create problem for us and for all !!! But definetely, i will have a BIGGG discussion and express my bad experience and feelings to make her understand !!! So not to repeat in future. Finally express you love and have hands off !!! Enjoy living and relationship !!!
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
i agree, we should be vocal to our partner how we've been hurt so bad to let him/her know what and how we feel, it might give him/her the idea that she/he he will not do the same again...otherwise, he dont deserve the love and trust we give him the second time around... Thanks for posting!