Married Vs Single ? Pls Choose Giving Your Reason ?

some people don't want to remain lonely for the rest of their lives. being married gives them a sense of security and a guarantee of at least a friend for life. i think there's nothing wrong with that. =) being single is fun. is freedom. you can definitely do anything you want without answering to anybody. but how long can you managed without love or someone there for you?

I don't agree that it's good tobe single. Yes there is a time but at some age or the other you need to have a partner. I don't know why many people complain that they are not happy with their married lives but for me I think it is the best thing that happened to me. Maybe most of people don't have understanding with each other and that's how things get messed up in relationships but if you have a good understanding why are the problems there, can't you just resolve them. A partner is a someone who really is there for you when you need him/or her. No friends, no relatives will support you the way your partner will. I am happy with it but it depends on how you carry on your relation ship.

i would prefer to be married.though there a many problems in married life,marraige gives a sense of belonging which no other relation can offer.

Hi Genesh44, These days getting married is not just for safty net because women are working and have their own money and are very inderpendant in their own right, thy do marry for just love and want to be with their partners and to have children safty has relly nothing to do with it. If my husband and I split up tomorrow I will be fine. Tamara

as for me ,i would like to choose marriage rather than single. from birth before marriage,we have a long period of time to experience single life and i think if u want to be single,u can fully enjoy this periods of time. marriage is just a tradition in many countries and parents expect to see their children completing their life,because marriage is considered a necessary part of one's life. yeah,marriage is the end of single life,but after marriage,we still can enjoy life, we still can boast some of our privacy. take care.

Marriage is a bundle of responsibility who only some can carry!

As of now, I want to be single. I have plan to get married but not this years. I have many plans to fulfill. But The most important of being single is that you are not committed, therefore, you dont have to worry about someone who will require your time, money and effort.

You know, I am at the point that I really do not know if it works anymore. I've watched every person I know get married, have kids, get divorced, put the kids in theraphy for the divorce. I am almost at the point that I think people are harming the kids more by getting married than by just being there for them as mom and dad. I do think people should get marrie3d and stay married though before having the kids. But! and this is a biggie! Only if they are committed to making the relationship last and stay healthy. Otherwise it's just a waste of money and time; and potentially harmful to their children. It's just rubbish!