dont you feel jealous when your friends' discussion get more responses?

@dreamssri (1796)
India
August 12, 2008 9:28am CST
be true here...i too sometimes get some good number of responses,but some of the people out there are getting that in every response... Even though the discussions are boring,they get responses?!?!?!?!WHY?? do you know why??..well,i dont know... My highest is 27 responses... Not all the time,but sometimes i feel like that....Dont you??Be true..
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
12 Aug 08
I don't get jealous no. Buit I do wonder how the heck they managed to do it when most of the time I can't seem to keep any momentum like this with my own discussions! An absolute majority of the discussions I have posted over the last two years attract less than 20 responses; maybe even less than ten on average actually! I did break 100 once but have not been able to do so again unfortunately. I will keep trying!
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@dreamssri (1796)
• India
12 Aug 08
100 !!! you are awsome!!...you rock!!!
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• Indonesia
13 Aug 08
I wont get jealous, I promise I wont :D Promise promise promise :)
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@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
Okay!! I believe,believe,believe!!! Thanks, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
No, I don't. I'm happy for all of my friends here who got a lot responses and when I saw them receiving those post, I also response to them, then I give them + rating for that. Everybody deserves that..like you. So just enjoy and keep on posting my friend!
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@dreamssri (1796)
• India
12 Aug 08
i also never missed to give a "+" whenever i can..!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
12 Aug 08
Jealous? What's that? How can you be jealous of a friend? I am proud of my friends when they get loads of responses and honoured to be their friend. A long time a go when I was new it wasn't easy to come up with topics which could draw in many responses but then as time went by I met more people on here and my friend list grew and now I can respond to them when they are doing something interesting and they do likewise. Jealous? No way! It just spurs me on to be as competent as they are in drawing the crowds of MyLotters who flood their discussions with responses. One day I might get there and so might you too! If they can do it we can!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
12 Aug 08
That's the whole point - if they can then WE can too! Nothing is impossible if you really want it bad enough!
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
12 Aug 08
More than telling that "to be jealous",i will be unhappy as why i cant do that...its the feeling of disability...That's all friend!
@Wizzywig (7847)
12 Aug 08
I've never had as many as 20 responses but it doesn't really bother me that much. Sometimes it does surprise me just what people DO respond to but, the whole point is to respond to what interests you i guess. I think there are probably some people who like to just respond to discussions they can give quick and easy answers to for the sake of getting more posts ??
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@dreamssri (1796)
• India
12 Aug 08
yeah!! some people have the habbit if responding to the discussions only most of the time...i too do it when my mind stops working and so i cant get any new topics to discuss..
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Ummm I don't have any friends that are active on here that I personally know. Even if I did I would feel proud for them before I ever felt jealiousy.
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@dreamssri (1796)
• India
12 Aug 08
if you dont have friends then make friends here...myLotters are so kind..
@venkygec (783)
• India
13 Aug 08
Hey!! What is there to get jealous in that... that will make you even more motivated to post more... start good discussions and attract more responses... I feel the key is to have more friends... the more the friends the more the people who see the discussion.. and responses we get... what say???
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
yup!! you're right!! it motivates us to start some more good discussions!! Thanks, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@kate635 (126)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Not really jealous but just wondering. Sometimes the discussion is just plain simple but it still receives a lot of responses. I got a maximum of 20 but I just started posting this month since I last registered here a year ago with just 2 postings. I have notice that even if the one who started the discussion does not respond, still many is posting their comments. Hope I would make it to top someday! :)
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
yup! i totally agree with you!! Thanks, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@gemini_rose (16264)
12 Aug 08
It never bothers me if friends get more responses than me on any discussions that they set. That is the truth too, I think it is great if they get a great number of responses. I like to get a good number of responses to my discussions but then I realise that I have to respond back to them all,which seems to take forever!!
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
but i always respond to them all! Thanks, Sri
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Aug 08
no i didn't get jealous if one of my friend got higher number of response, i a, very proud of them. 2 days ago i posted a discussions that has now 62 respond of it. so far i got 75 responses on my previous discussions. i hope many of my friends will continue to support all of my post because i will also do the same.
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
75 responses...i think i can do it in my dreams!!!!!!!! please tell me the topic of the discussion...i'm just curious about it!!! Goodday, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
A little bit, but more like I'm wondering how they do that and kinda admired them also to have a successful discussion. Also, I wish and hope that someday I would make a discussion that will get more responses. So far, the highest number of responses that I got from all the discussion that I made is 65.
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
Hats off!!That's just great!! May i know the discussion topic? Thanks, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
No, I do not feel jealous when my friends here in MyLot got more response on her/his discussion, I felt so glad that the list of friends that i have here in MyLot can do a better quality post of discussion and I do look at those friends of mine to be a challenge in my part to reach the same post that they have in each of their discussion, Isn't it wonderful to know that your friend here in MyLot are on of the most talented in posting a discussion......
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
Yes of course i'm happy too but i'll be more happy if i too can do that!!! Goodday, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
13 Aug 08
I will not jealous. But I am curious how they make it. My highest response number is more than 30, but most are no more than 10. I don't know why some post are so welcome. Sometime I believe I make a good post, but only a little responses. I am at a loss but I will try to make better post.
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
Yup!! me too curious about it!!My highest is just 27 and some people have more than 100 Thanks, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
13 Aug 08
I don't get jealous. Because i don have friends here. Joined yesterday only. Lol. Even if i had friends i won be like that. I am mylotting not to get money and just for fun. Don wait for money. Happy mylotting and you will get more. Take Care.
@dreamssri (1796)
• India
13 Aug 08
Welcome to myLot...Yours is a funny answer!! Goodday, Sri( Please visit : voidurl.blogspot.com )
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Aug 08
Dear friend, Not yet been jealous of any. I do like to just go through those responds. More over I may just find the best respond and like to read that. But never felt jealous may be I have also sometimes got much responds and hope if one gives more tags one could get more responds.
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
i did. that is why i want to post something that can attract many as much as possible.. but i just couldnt.. my highest was only 18 responses.. and so far right now, i only receive 7 responses as average...but i didnt get jealous to the point of making every effort.. hehe..that is something
• Singapore
12 Aug 08
No jealousy whatsoever. I think each discussion has its own attraction. Some may appeal to more people than others. It also depends on the time the discussion is posted, friends you have, and whether you have a lot of responses to be considered among the hot responses.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Actually it's more of wonder that I feel because I try to know why theirs get more responses. So I look at the topic where and where was it posted. Then I would know if the topic really deserved a lot of responses or not.
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I don't get jealous ;O) Let's just say to each his own. Your friends' discussions might seem boring to you but since many people responded it then they didn't think it was boring ;O) My highest is about 27, too ;O)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
I dont feel jealous at all. But I get sad when some of my discussions does not get any responses. But its okay, I dont mind at all. That is why I am more of a responder than a discussion starter. Been here for almost a month now, (I think) but most of my earnings came from my responses.