Guys always like thin girls,is it true?

@yenwie84 (1345)
Malaysia
August 13, 2008 6:36pm CST
If you were a guy,which type of girls do you prefer as your girlfriend? Thin one or fat one? Is size really a matter in a relationship? Do you mind if you have a fat girlfriend? I can imagine,if I were a guy,I would also love thin girls,but of course attitude and personality of that girl would be more important. If I really her in person,I think I don't mind about her size,but maybe I will ask her to control her weight for the sake of beauty and health. How about you? Please share with me,thanks.
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28 responses
• United States
13 Aug 08
I am not thin, but I am not huge, and my husband has always liked thick girls. He is very thin. He said he would never date a thin girl, because he would be afraid of breaking her..lol.. I was thinner when my husband and I got together but since our son I have gained weight. He said he doesn't care how fat I get he loves me for me and not my weight. I think a real man can look past the size of there lover. If I were a guy I wouldn't care about outer appearance either. Just like I like my men skinny but honestly I have dated all sizes and I love the person for who they are not what they look like..Thanks for letting me share.
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@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 08
You are right. Size should not be a problem in a relationship. If ones cares about his or her partner's size,I think that must be not a true love. Thanks for giving me your opinion. Have a nice day.
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@ratyz5 (7752)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Everyone is born differently and grows within different environments. Can't blame them for being either too thin or too fat but, they can still make an effort to be just right to compliment their personalities. I'm a slim built guy and if I fell for a plump lady, I guess I fell for other reasons than her figure. If I fell for a lady who eventually got plump, I wouldn't mind at all. Then again, we can already realize for ourselves if our figure has changed and it depends on ourselves as well if we're willing to make an effort to change or not..
@shamzy18 (2319)
13 Aug 08
well actually i have heard guys say they like love handles. also there are some guys who like fat people. and i see loads of fat girls with not so fat boys i think sometimes it not about the size about personality also just because you are fat doesnt mean they are ugly can be goodl looking from the face
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@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 08
Thanks for sharing.
• United States
14 Aug 08
I think I am attrated to thin girls. I do not know why but I just am. Seems weird to me because I am not exactely thin myself. I am 5 foot 7 inches tall and weigh about 200 lbs. I do not think I am a fat basterd but i am not thin. My last girlfriend was not real thin. She had just a few extra pounds and I felt myself not being as physically attracted to her as I was some of my other girlfriends. We are not together anymore and I looking back I do not think it made that much of a difference in our relationship. But how can you really tell. I mean she was attractive but she was not the thin girls that I usually date. Maybe subconsciencously it had something to do with it, I do not know. I was not real aware of this until I was working with a bigger girl. She was a very cool person and we became friends. But she is the one that pointed it out to me. She said that when thin hot girls were around I always seemed happier and more flirtatious. She later asked me out but sorry, I was not physically attrated to her. I thought and thought if this made me a bad person, because people always say love is blind but if you are not physically attracted to them then I guess that what makes each of us different. So in answer to your question then I guess I would have to say, yes I am more attracted to thin girls.
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@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
As for me I really don't want very thin girls. They are not enjoyable to hug and they don't eat a lot and usually she would waste food when you eat together. I agree that we could ask them to control their wight for health reasons because if someone really loves he or she would stay beautiful and healthy for you
14 Aug 08
If I were a guy I would prefer an average sized girl, not so fat and not so thin. Thin girls looks like the number 11, and i don't like that. Most fat girls look messy in terms of dressing and carrying themselves(not hygenic). But I'm speaking of firls here in the philippines. But this would all depend with the feeligs. So what if she's fat or skinny as long as she's the one making me happy and she's the one making me feel content it's alright!
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@hezoid (2147)
14 Aug 08
I do not think it's true at all! Of course i am not a guy myself but plenty of larger ladies have partners/fiances/husbands who adore them and i guess people like all sorts, fat or thing, tall or short, blonde or brunette, pale or tanned, i could go on but you get the picture! I am curvy myself and my own fella loves me this way. Plus looks aren't everything, personality counts for a lot too.
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• United States
14 Aug 08
I say many guys would prefer a thin woman over a fat woman but I did hear and read that are many men who indirectly state that they like fat women. I did see a fat woman who is married and have children.
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
[i]Hello yenwie84, My answer is it depends. I am attracted to shapely bodies and beautiful faces. So if a girl has a beautiful face and not shapely bodies it's ok. I don't like also very thin girls, it seems they are not very healthy. Attraction physically is the first step to a relationship I think. For longer relationship attitude and personality comes into play, physical look can be overlook for the relationship to work. With regards to your questions if I mind if I have a fat girlfriend? My answer is No, because for sure I got attracted to her that's why she is my girlfriend now. But if you ask me if I want to have a fat girlfriend, my answer will be No. Mostly I will be looking for beautiful and shapely girls first. You are right about the health risk. If you are fat there are several healthy risk you will face. The best way to not be fat is to control yourself so you don't eat too much avoid a lot of diseases and have a healthy lifestyle. [/i]
@insulin (2480)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Well I am a girl and according to fiancee,of course i'm not fat and i'm not thin but I got thick body..Lol It really depends on the guys taste but size?it really doesn't matter if you really both love each other..How about those people who don't live normal havin 1 feet?why some people still love them?Well I can really say it really depends on your attitude and your character thats what my guys always say because there are times that I am discouraging him about me because yeah I got scars from my allergy in my shoulders and he doesn't care about it even I got belly he don't care..:-0 I will surely say that if the person love you for real then he or she will accept who you are no matter what..:-0 there was a saying that love is blind and sure it is..:-0 God bless and have a nice day..:-0
@metschica25 (5405)
• United States
14 Aug 08
Hello I think it depends on the man what looks good to him . I have met men from all walks that perfer something different . I have known more men who like girls with meat and who have curves ! My fiance loves me the way I am and loves all my curves and loves the apple bottom . When I was younger I had lower self esteem because of my weight and thought how could he like me. As I got older is when I have learnt that to most people weight does not matter .
• Canada
14 Aug 08
i think there is some guys out there that only want thin toothpick women. i have had friends tell me their man broke up with them because they put on a little weight. i hate men like that. if i was a person that was only with people for there looks and not whats on the inside i wouldn't have had my kids and i wouldn't have had some of the boyfriends i've had. i think a person should look at whats on the inside of a person not the outside.
@tlb0822 (1412)
• United States
14 Aug 08
My fiance always told me that he prefers girls we eat.lol. I'm not super skinny, but i'm fat either. I mean I'm not the wait I was 2 years ago, since having my daughter, but i've maintained a healthy wait since. I don't think all guys like skinny girls. I don't think they like girls to be really overweight were it is threatening their health either. I think that a healthy weight is the best bet.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
14 Aug 08
Im a girl and i really love girls who are plumpy i love their cheecks not because im a bit plumpy i love only plumpy girls i was very thin and now i made myself plumpy just because i love plumpy girls.. its not that i dont like girls who are skinny but the thing is girls who want to look good always reduce their weight and become skinny like a skeleton and it really looks akward !!! Im commited and my guy always asks me to be like as i am and he wants me to be plumpy . he also added that size is not a problem or him it all depends on charcter of girl and he loves my character more than my body, he said even if i was thin or fat it is not going to bother him.. My guy is something good and different but my friend's boy friend always pesture my friend to become thin and because of that she is not eating now and starving without food now she looks very pale because of anemia.. How bad when guys just love girls for body they can have imaginations for their girls but if it is not possible they should accept the fact or otherwise they should quit the relation if body and flesh bothers more than heart and character!!!
• China
14 Aug 08
yes i eant my girlfriend be thinner .maybe she so be more beautiful .but also personality and attitude are important too
@sk66rc (4257)
• United States
14 Aug 08
Size of a girl doesn't really matter to me... I've ran into more big girls who were nice than thin girls... Skinny girls seems to be pissed all the time, may be it's from malnutrition, you know, from being on a diet or something to be that thin... I've always gone for someone with personality... I'll be honest & say I am attracted to average size girls, girls who are nicely proportionate instead of being too skinny or too fat, like my girl friend... If my girl friend were to gain a lot of weight, I would love her any less... We would just have a talk about her health issues that extra weight would have on her & work out together to manage our weights...
@lloyd2002 (182)
14 Aug 08
I've dated fat girls, thin girls, those with big boobs and those who have hardly any. What I can say from experience, is that I find their personality, intelect and sense of humour far more attactive and more of a turn on than the physical features.
@Harmonie (94)
• United States
14 Aug 08
I prefer healthy big boned women.I dont really care too much for thin model chick looking women.I like some meat on the bones something I can hold onto at night and keep me warm in the winter time.If I see that my lady is getting too big I would ask her to change her diet andstart working out a little bit more but,my love forbig women will never change.
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Never hear guys like a thin girls, maybe sexy not thin though, hehe
• India
14 Aug 08
I do not like thin girls at all... I'd rather prefer a plump girl than a thin one.. The reason for this is that I'm a bit big, I mean, I have broad shoulders and by broad I mean very broad. So you would surely know how it would be if someone very thin stands next to me.. bourne