Sweeter as the years go by??
August 15, 2008 12:01pm CST
wow!!! I heard that from friends way back... long time ago. It is different now because what I heard from married couples, they said, as the years go by,not sweet anymore. They long for that time when they were yet dating, oh!! how nice they have so many things to talk about. They enjoyed w talking with each other.. but now?? they hardly have time to talk and if they talk, they argue. What happened? Is it true? I find it normal to have arguments sometimes but the sweetness is always there, well,,that's in my case.. what about you? Just curious...
• United States
15 Aug 08
Hi Bebs, [i]I guess that is true to some who are both tired at work and do not spend time together anymore...in our case, we always try to set a day where no tv, no pc so we have all the time to talk, share experiences, share jokes , play cards, anything that will bind us more.. I know being 24/7 together, i find it boring without diverting something from the usual [/i]routine..So, if both will work together to maintain the sweetness as if new lovers, the better!
• United States
15 Aug 08
Oh!! sweet!!! that is good...I admire your way of bonding.. playing cards, no tv, no pc?I agree with you,, PC is a great attention getter. Me and my hubby are so engross with our PC everday that we sometimes have no time for bonding.Your idea is good.
20 Sep 08
I would say that in my case. The love has grown deeper. The love at first site as faded a little and the general romance of first love is gone. However I think that it is not lost but replaced with a deeper more meaningfull love that will grow with the eternities.
16 Aug 08
In my case, I believe the sweetness when we were just dating as sweethearts is different with the sweetness we have now. The level is different. We still maintain the sweetness despite being married for 23 long years. Maybe the secret is just to keep on loving and caring despite some differences and always maintain the respect for each other. We do have arguments sometimes, but we see to it that we kiss and make up before the day ends. We don't allow the sun to go down on our dispute because we always want to sleep in each other's embrace. Oh it would be so lonely if you are back to back when sleeping or a pillow is in between you or the other one is sleeping at the floor, or the other one is sleeping in the other room, just like the stories of my friends. Ha!ha!ha!