Is Your Man Obsessed By His Weight?
By Brian
@wolfie34 (26771)
United Kingdom
August 15, 2008 3:33pm CST
Is your boyfriend, partner or husband obsessed about their weight?
Are they forever going on about how fat they are, or are they always trying to lose weight or always going down to the gym to get a 'perfect' body
Do they compare themselves to other men when it comes to their weight?
Do they worry constantly about how fat they are, or obsessed about their stomach's?
Are they continually weighing themselves or touching parts of their body which they do not like and are wishing they were slim?
Are there men out there who just obsess totally about their weight and are very self-conscious about it?
Does your man get depressed about his weight and how fat he is and does it rule his life and does food start to frighten him?
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13 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
15 Aug 08
[i]My husband is checking his weight everyday since we just place it in our bathroom..LOL! He is not fat..He is 6 ft and 1 inches tall with 190 lbs! He doesn't like to add more lbs so, he is watching it.He is not also comparing his weight to his friends!
Just conscious not to gain![/i]
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@GardenGerty (157918)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Wolfie you should be able to see that it is not fat by how your clothes fit. Can you send some of that dedication to me. I do not mind the muscle weight, but mine is covered by a lovely coat of fat.
@snowy22315 (171317)
• United States
15 Aug 08
I think he is more obscessed with his brother's weightt. He is always saying David needs to lose some weight, David is going to have a heart attack. David needs to do something about his weight etc. David does have something of a weight problems it's true, but my husbby and his whole family seem to be obscessed with it.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 08
Bit like my father, my father is obese but he doesn't care, it's his life I admit but when it affects his wife then that's a different story but he is happy to continue his unhealthy lifestyle, I just don't want to turn out like him so I guess that makes me more obsessed about my own weight.
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
22 Aug 08
My hubby looks good. He has put on a couple of extra pounds. I am pregnant, I attribute his slight weight gain to sympathy. But my 5 year old daughter made notice.So now he is being a bit more careful about what he eats.
@rockkk (71)
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16 Aug 08
yup he is quite obssesed with his weight n always think abbout it only.. he thinks about it n always thinks he is quitr non sense wen compared to others in the family. so he is tryin to do all the non sense in tryin to reduce the weight. bgut m afraid tat he ll onw day suffer because of it.
@GardenGerty (157918)
• United States
16 Aug 08
No, not really. I think he did try hard to be fit to some degree when we first met. What you are describing is more typical of the women I know.
Hubby has a new, boring job, where he is a security guy at a food plant. He tells me he is doing push ups and other exercises when he gets too bored, because he will otherwise get fat. He says if they review their security tapes they will wonder what he is doing.
Hubby has a new, boring job, where he is a security guy at a food plant. He tells me he is doing push ups and other exercises when he gets too bored, because he will otherwise get fat. He says if they review their security tapes they will wonder what he is doing.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
Nope... My fiance is not obsessed with his weight (I think I am. Lol.) When I met him, he was actually waaaaaay to thin. Harhar. Like I weighed more than he did. When we got together, he started filling out and I love him the way he is right now. The weight made him look better. Sometimes he eats a little too much but he can actually shed it without having to go through several diet fads or exercises.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
My husband before used to worry a lot about his weight. But I think his worry stems from being being unhealthy which is brought about by being overweight. He is concerned though about his stomach and if its sagging. I remember him mentioning it several times before and he would then plan to diet and exercise.
@raydene (9871)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Hi Son
The only men in my life these days are my sons
and 3 are very tall and thin, one is 5 10 and muscular,
the last is 6 5 and heavy not fat.
My girls are both tall beautiful women.
Honey with your awesome bod any guy beside you would be
checking his figure!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
@amit1975ch (48)
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16 Aug 08
that is for basically for the girl but i can say something on that everbody try to fit in the life coz ther is no way to live in the future world due to global warming so many disecese has been increased so fitment is the better way for living
@melcahjone (135)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
i'm glad my husband is not like that.he's concerned,but he's not obsessed..
