A mentally impaired person should also be given the chance to live normally!

Philippines
August 20, 2008 6:02pm CST
This would be a pretty sensitive topic but its one that I've always wanted to ask. A lot of people in our country have a different perspective on those with mental disabilities... like Downs syndrome or Autism. There's a common misconception that once a child is born with an impairment, they either have to be sheltered and should never be exposed to the world or that they cannot live at least a comfortable life. A lot of these children are unable to be schooled because one.) special education is too expensive or two.) parents don't want their child to suffer the teasing and cruelty of other people. I've spoken with a lot of people regarding their thoughts on mentally impaired people and a common mistake that they have is putting them in the same line as those people with mental disorders (which should not the case.) In other countries, the government would actually support people like them and would help provide jobs in order for these people to lead (or at least try to lead) normal lives. There is only a small amount of discrimination and they are treated like normal people. This would be great if all countries were like that however, there are also a lot of countries where people are just not given the chance to lead a normal life. It saddens me to see this because instead of helping these people grow, it just impairs them more. Now that's just for people with a mental impairment. Can you just imagine the horrors people with mental disorders experience if they are not supported properly by society? Here in our country, there are a quite a number people who have mental disorders and are actually shunned by their own families. Worse, a lot of them are either put in asylums or are left to roam the streets with no family, no friends and no support. What is more disheartening is the fact that a lot of the centers that they are put in are merely places where these people eat and sleep. It's like a veritable jail. I've actually gone to one of these centers or "homes" and it was the most disheartening sight to look at. The place was overcrowded and everything stank of urine and unwashed bodies. I was thinking, how can these people get better if their living condition is like that? I've actually heard of stories where a place was so overcrowded that they actually had to bring some of these people to a far off place and actually leave them there to roam the streets and that the only time they'll get them back is IF someone would actually report that there is someone who needs their attention. The thing there is, if no one reports the poor lost person to the proper people, he/she would stay lost forever... Now that has to be the most messed up thing that I've ever heard... stuff like that really happens. What are your thoughts on this? Does your government support people with mental disabilities or disorders? Do tell.
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@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
21 Aug 08
I prefer to think of these people as just a little challenged which we all are in some way, if mentally challenged people can live in society with a little help then they should be given the chance, not just to throw them out in the big wide cruel world to fend for themsemves but given a little help and care they should be given that...we all need help at times and helping each other is a part of life thats what it is all about..
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I live in the Untied States and they have several things for impaired or challenged people here. They have schools and housing and jobs for most of them to do and there is also all kinds of fundraisers for them.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
I'm from the Philippines and the government does not support these special children. From your story, you sound like one who comes from my country too. Like you, I agree that in other countries, they give special attention and privilege to families with someone who has a mental disability. Schools here in our country for these children are really expensive, and yes, it is a shame that a lot of people judge these kids for their mental disabilities. Sometimes, they are just not aware of why these children were born with such disabilities or they just simply don't care if these people get hurt. I think these judgmental people think that just because some people are mentally disabled, these people will not get hurt anymore.
• United States
21 Aug 08
I actually have a brother that has down syndrome and autism, and although i live in a country that provides support for people like him, a lot of the time you still have to fight for what you need. It bothers me greatly that people like him are shoved into institutions and never given a chance to reach there potential. My brother will never mature past the age of a five year old, but there are a lot of things he can do for himself. He even has a job were he shreds paper the company that employs me. My brother is one of the lower functioning special needs people. It bothers me that people don't realize that a handicapped person can lead a perfectly normal life and when someone finds out that the child they are pregnant with might have a problem they abort. Those tests they take are not 100% accurate and i am getting off topic here but it is a subject i feel strongly about.