Real Diamonds Or Fake Diamonds What is it for you ? ;-)

United States
August 20, 2008 10:01pm CST
Do you always have to wear real diamonds. Are you the type girl that has to have the best of every thing. My Wedding band is the real thing. And every thing my husband buys me is the real thing. he would never think of buying me something fake. If I buy myself something, it will probably be fake. Why not get a 2 carat ring cheep, instead of paying $700.00. I'm not material about every thing. If it looks real and I can fool people, good for me. I'll tell people, yea it's real, and they believe it..........;-) So is it real or fake for you.....;-)
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@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
21 Aug 08
If I have a diamond, I want it to be real. I got a gold band when we got married - matched bands. But, when we had been married around 20 years, my husband gave me a 1carat diamond engagement ring. It will probably be the only one I ever have, so I do cherish that. If people know what to look for, they surely can detect a fake diamond. They do not sparkle like a real diamond under light.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I worked in a jewelry store many year ago. A trained eye can spot a fake any time. And, you only have to have the sun or a very bright line shine on them, and you will notice that a fake doesn't put on the array of color in it's brightness that a real diamond does. And the better a diamond, the brighter the shine.
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• United States
21 Aug 08
They really do, sometimes more. Most people can't tell the difference. As long as you don't try to go too big, it is really pretty.........;-)
@lira23 (208)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Every girl wants a real Diamond, but honestly it doesn't matter to me as long as I get a ring. A wedding is something very special, if a man wants to marry me,it better be a Diamond,hehe well not always, but it comes from the heart so I don't think it should matter, as long as it's no completely fake.
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• United States
23 Aug 08
I agree, it should come from the heart. It want be fake if it is from the heart, and you both love each other...Right......;-)
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
21 Aug 08
We do not have diamonds, either of us.Or even gemstones. We have silver bands. Hubby wore his out that matches mine.I got him a plain one for now. We would like to go to South Dakota, and while there pick out some Black Hills Gold rings. I like crystals and stones, but do not have much call to wear them. I guess it just depends on what we are buying. I do not have to have name brand designer clothes, but I have found that I need name brand, real leather, well constructed shoes, not for the name value, but because they decrease the pain in my feet and in my knees and legs. I used to do Pay Less, and Wal Mart, but they did not wear well or feel good. I guess shoes are more of an indulgence for me than jewelry. The other real thing I like to wear is a real smile.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Gardengerty, you are right. Well-fitting shoes are much better for your health than a real diamond or gem. My children's pediatrician once told me that you can skimp on anything in a child's life but never skimp on their shoes. Always buy them the best fitting shoes you can afford because those feet will have to carry them for the rest of their lives. I tried to do that for my children and hope they have done it for theirs. I have some problems with my feet and my mother always made sure we had proper fitting shoes, so I see the need for those good shoes. I have big feet, so I've never skimped on mine, either.
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• United States
21 Aug 08
I do have to wear silver or gold or my skin will turn green. They say that is too much nickle in your body right? The stone is not that important....:-)
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
21 Aug 08
It depends. If I can't get real diamond might as well I don't get a fake one. If I can't get real gold, might as well I don't get a fake one. Doesn't mean I am material girl or anything, I just don't want to spend time, money or energy for something that is not worth what I spend. This way if someone asks is it real, I don't have to lie about it. I'll save lying for more important things :) If it's something I use regularly like household stuffs I don't mind buying them at dollar store, what is the point buying $5 dish washing sponge if you can get it at $ 1 and throw it away after a month use?
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
23 Aug 08
the $ 1 rule is only for household and diamond is not so for these things if I can't afford it I am not buying it at all rather than buying fake I'd rather use the money to buy something else
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• United States
22 Aug 08
It is not throw away jewelry. And you don't buy it at the $1.00 store. Most of it is still quite expensive, Just not the price of diamonds. And it is set in gold still. To me this is a trivial lie, most people don't ask. Why would they, of course its real.....;-)
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• Philippines
21 Aug 08
I guess everybody wants the real thing. I want it too, but oh well, I can't afford it. For me, it's not a question of wanting it, it's a question of affording it. Sigh. Good for you, your hubby is generous enough and romantic enough to give you the real thing. I know, I'm a practical person as well, I'd rather spend on something not so expensive but looks good as well. But well, your hubby sure knows how to express his love (*wink). I'm sure my wedding band didn't cost my ex-hubby more than $100, my! He never even gave me an engagement ring! Other girls can be so lucky...
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Err... been separated for 4 years now, no hubby to ask for the real thing.. Well, my time will come.. Hmmmm, I don't think we can really trust them in such areas, especially fashion, yup, such bad taste in some guys...
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• United States
22 Aug 08
Maybe for an anniversary that's what you could hint you want him to buy you. A engagement ring. I always pick out my jewelry before he buys it. Most men have bad taste, Don't you think.?........;-)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Ey! Thanks for the BR! I appreciate that (*wink)
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21 Aug 08
i enjoy wearing stuffs that are glittering and very catchy to the eyes. But I rather not buy real diamonds.its pretty too expensive and costly. im just being practical with the present economy status. someday if the right guy will give me a golden real diamond ring, he's gonn abe the prince charming of my life.Diamonds are real womens bestfriend. You look rich, just by wearing any real diamonds on your body, but for now i just stick with the fake one.... =)
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• United States
22 Aug 08
The good part is no one has to know. Just don't tell. If some one ask, just say isn't it pretty......;-)
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Aug 08
Bling heart - Silver bling heart
I just like anything that sparkles, i have so much of what they now call bling, sometimes i think that bling seems to sparkle more than diamonds, it would be nice to have diamonds but that is not an option for a lot of people.
• United States
23 Aug 08
It not an option for a lot of people. I don't see the point in spending a lot of money every time you want a new piece of jewelry. I am picky about what I get though......;-)
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
21 Aug 08
honestly, i dont really care at all. i dont care if its real or not because i really like to change up my jewellry a lot (i get bored of the same thing all the time) so i like variety and if its fake, i can change it around alot.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
Of course I will always go for real. It's a good investment after all. And my husband does the same as yours. He would never give me anything fake. A gift for him is something that should last forever. And diamonds are forever! But I have nothing against fancy jewelry. They are also good for every day use. In fact there are those that really look genuine and can be used to fake people around. Ha!ha!ha! Especially the snatchers out there. But they are fake so they fade and after a while they are for disposal. Once you add up the money you used to buy all those cheaper fake ones you will realize that it could buy you even at least one real one. How is it? Do you think I am right?
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Well I think you've given me good tips there. Next time I make sure I would. Thanks dear!
• United States
22 Aug 08
Well I buy quality products. And the stones are always Set in gold or sterling silver. So it usually doesn't fade. I guess you have to watch what you buy.....;-)
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
21 Aug 08
For me real fake. lol I like zirconias. They are fun to wear and I do not have to worry about losing the stone or anything like that.
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• United States
22 Aug 08
I like diamonique. That's what I always take on Vacation. If its lost, Its okay, Or stolen, someones gonna get their filling hurt..LOL........;-)
• Australia
21 Aug 08
I would say depends on what you can afford. Its nice to have the real thing, of course...but then again, if it will cause you financial hardship and miseries later on in life, not to mention the risk that it can put your life into (I'm talking of break-ins, burglary, hold-ups etc), maybe you can settle for the second best. I'd also say, depends on your lifestyle. If your social calendar is always full of big parties and you're rubbing elbows with the high rollers, then of course, you have to be in the same level. But if you're just an ordinary girl leading a very simple, ordinary life...to have a real diamond for me, will definitely sound impractical. Especially nowadays, even top-paid celebrities are sometimes wearing "costume jewelleries (fancy bling-blings) whenever they're attending big events and galas.
• United States
22 Aug 08
Your so right on everything you said. I know a girl that's not gonna get married till her boyfriend can buy her a $30.000 ring. And she doesn't work. Her parent are rich. I hope her boyfriend is. You can almost buy half a house for that. She has lost her mind. My first wedding ring cost $400.00 That's all we had.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Hey walkthetalk! I refuse to wear any jewelry that is fake. I will only wear real diamonds and real gold. I don't like silver but will wear it on occasion if it's sterling, but I basically hardly ever wear it. If there is a nice piece like I have a really nice cat watch that has 2 fake diamonds for eyes that I will wear because I love the watch. It is a Gruen watch and I bought it because if is unique looking and I love cats! I just am not comfortable wearing fake diamonds even if they look real. I have seem some that look more real than the real ones. It's just not for me.
• United States
22 Aug 08
Hey Opal, Each her own. I have real and fake, and no one knows the differences. So it makes no matter to me. I just love jewelry.........;-)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
With the recession that's happening around the world, I don't care whether it's a fake or not. It does not matter to me at all. It's better to be fake on material things than to other things.
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@dhisaw (304)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Well I know if it is up to me I prefer to go the cheap route. With my husband he feels that if we have the extra money then he gets it. To me it does not matter about fake or real as long as it comes from someone you care about and love. That way you know it came from the heart. My wedding ring is not real and I know it. We did not have very much money at all at that point so I am happy with what I have. I know for my sister-in-law she keeps changing her wedding sets I think now she has gotten like 3 different ones now.
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@emskoneko (805)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I don't mind wearing real or fake. As long as I like it, I'll wear it. I'll even tell everyone how fake it is. I just want to wear it because it looks good on me.
• United States
23 Aug 08
I like it because it looks good also. I don't see the need in volunteering the information about the value. Who should care.......:-)
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I really don't care. Well, I take that back. I do care. I care about NOT spending too much money. With the horrible price of diamonds and gold these days, I cannot see a reason to part with the money. Nope. I'll take fake. I guess when you get older, your "friends" would never dream of asking if it's real or fake, so that's not an issue. I wear the jewelry that I like. And I do LOVE rings. Sometimes, that means I buy a pretty Avon ring...and you'd be surprised at the number of people who ask where I got it.
• United States
21 Aug 08
I think you're right, although I never cared to impress anyone even when I was young.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Hello What is that saying there is nothing better than the real thing . I believe that each and every girl wants atleast a real diamond engagement ring . Mine is a real diamond and I also have the circle necklace of diamonds . Those are the only 2 real pieces of jewelery I have . I would one day love to get white gold hoop earrings . My earrings now are just silver and they dont last very long . I think it might be a good idea to invest in something real and have it around for a longer time . Sometimes , with diamonds they look real when they are fake , but just look at the band . Some of those real big rings that are huge and so many carrots look fact to me actually . The other day at the ball park a lady had a ring that took up half her finger and was wearing a holed up pooh bear shirt and that made me think !
• United States
22 Aug 08
Yea, if your gonna wear a ring that big you probably should dress the part. My point was, I think it is okay to wear fake diamonds. I have more fake than real. I also like sterling silver. Or whit gold. Either one. More than yellow gold. But I have more sterling silver. Thanks.........;-)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I would not say that I have to have the best. I have worn both, however now it is the real thing for me.
• United States
23 Aug 08
I still like either one. whatever looks good, I like. As long as is is sterling silver or set in white or yellow gold. I am picky about that...;-)
@jmtsao (1)
21 Aug 08
I tend to lose everything so I prefer fake. I've lost a lot of expensive jewelry so I'll stick with the fake stuff.
• United States
23 Aug 08
I let my daughter use my jewelry, And she is not very responsible yet. So she only uses the fake stuff. I've lost one necklace. I paid $85.00 for it,and I really liked it. I have tore my house apart. Who knows.?........;-)
• United States
21 Aug 08
It depends on how much your looking to spend and how responsible you are....If your young, fake diamonds are the way to go...If you are more mature then if you can afford it real=]
• United States
23 Aug 08
Your right. I think young girls should buy fake. Very irresponsible. My daughter puts my things every where. Bugs me to no end. I like fake too though.......;-)