Would you rather be single or married?
By JannaLee
@JannaLee (660)
Philippines
7 responses
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
25 Aug 08
i think i have always been the marrying type and i am married now. i would rather be then be single. not that i am against single people i just think this is the best choice for me. it makes life better for me knowing there is someone there that i can count on. and will helkp me out and whomi can help out.
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Knowing that someone will be there for you each time you fall; learning that someone will be happy every time you're glad and having someone to watch your back..protecting and loving you with all their lives...is just the greatest gift this world can offer^^ Enjoy your married life..Happy mylotting!
@poona_m (336)
• India
25 Aug 08
I am married and I would rather be married than single. I am a full time housewife and a mom at home. I am blessed with a loving husband and a cute little angel baby boy. I cannot imagine my life any better without the two men in my life. Life has been so much merrier after my marriage.
I would say being single has its own share of fun. the freedom of being single and not to worry about anyone else cannot be enjoyed when you are married. But sharing your life with someone is very necessary and gives more meaning to one's life.
I believe when you marry all you want is a witness to your life. Someone who could be there with you in the ups and downs of your life and hold your hand when you need one, give you a shoulder to cry on when life upsets you, have a heart felt sound laugh with and feel the moments you experience are not a waste but someone is there to witness them and enjoy them too.
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Wow, That was one amazing response, thank you very much.^^ I guess it feels so great to be a mother and a wife..^^ Though you've given up on single life, another door has been opened to you. A wonderful life with the two most important men in your life. enjoy life as a whole^^ Happy mylotting^^
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
25 Aug 08
marriage is the institution established by God, and we must marry and bear & rear
@morrowynd (95)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I am totaly all about being single. My life is my own and I chose what I want, when I want it, and when I want it to stop. I rule the remote.
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
25 Aug 08
Though I'm not married at the moment, I am living with my girl friend... We both do want to get married eventually... It's not that I'd rather do it alone but I've been doing things alone for so long before I met my girl friend I guess I'm more used to it that way...
@dokaor (307)
• Thailand
25 Aug 08
For me absolutely yes,please sigle is the best ,no kids no wife life is yours..Free to do ,think,act and etc.you r on the top of the world..
from merried person
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
I must agree that being single is indeed extravagant,less worries, night life, great time, marvelous trips and a whole lot more. But there are really times when single people feel sad and lonely. When you have to spend holidays and special occasions all by yourself, when all you have to do is curl up under your sheets, instead of hugging the person you care for..Thoughts from a single lady..^^Welcome to mylot and happy mylotting^^
@metalhalo (599)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I love my married life. I got married at the age of 20 and 8 years later we're still going strong. Married life can have it's ups and downs but like anything else if you have your whole heart in it and faith in your partner and yourself then it will work out. We enjoy being together and feel blessed with our 7 year son. We can thankfully smile over the bad times because they've brought us to where we are today.
I can understand why being single would seem more care-free in a way. You don't have to responsible for anyone else other than yourself. You can make choices without having to consider your family or the consequences. When married, even something as simple as changing a job could be a disaster.
I chose to marry my husband because I loved him and I wanted to show the world that I honestly believed in him and the loved that we shared. Marriage works for some and for some it does not. It's really just your preference of choice and whether you want to be fully committed to someone. To put someone else ahead of your own needs. Being single might be easier...but who said the great things in life to achieve were easy?






