punishment

@sang2k2 (1833)
India
August 30, 2008 1:15am CST
would you want the person who betrayed you , to be punished by god or by you.? how would you want to punish him/her? how would you want the GOD to punish them? Has anybody witnessed any thing like this add your experiences...
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9 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
30 Aug 08
Hi dear well i wont punish any one as i have no right for that and sure Gos is there and watching all and he is besrt decesion maker and best Justice So i will let it to God No specific punishment, but i think regret feeling is worst punishment Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
30 Aug 08
very true u r
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
maybe the worst as well as the best..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
1 Sep 08
If somebody betrays me, I would not punish her/him myself, I would leave it to the Great God. His/her deeds will get him/her the reward from God, what he/she actually deserves. If someone betrays me, it is a reflection on his/her character, not mine. If this kind of thing happens with me, I just stop thinking about that person and try to erase/delete all files in mind, related to him/her.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
1 Sep 08
Please chill and cool down dear!!!!!!!! Do not be so angry or think too much about the person who betrayed you. Please remember it is said that there is a difference of just one letter between 'danger' and 'anger'. Even if you are able to punish the fellow who did harm to you, your own sour and bad feeling and your bitter experience due to his/her beheviour is not going to vanish. Whatever wrong he has done to you, will always remain in your memory, but if you take it further and take revenge.........you will not be abe to get out of this vicious circle.....and your mind will keep thinking about the whole episode. I know, it is easier for me to advice you, you are the sufferer, you know better than me. This is just my humble advice, you are free to punish him, as you feel like..........LOL!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
1 Sep 08
but im an unsual kind and i wish to see that person sufer with my eyes and i wish i cud juz punish him the way i want to...as i thought that without my mistake theres no right to anybody to come and hurt me without any mistake of mine...i juz have so much of anger for that person that i feel like killing all the thoughts and pour my anger on that person and teach hime a lesson..and i cant wait for god to do all that.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
2 Sep 08
i know all this is for a while...hope i come out of it at the earliest.thanks for the advise
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Aug 08
Dear Things are at times out of our hands and we can rant and get more upset. Wrong doers will get their punishment in any form no matter what. Mental and emotional punishment is the greatest of all sufferings I guess. But dear, who are we to punish anyone! There would be right time and right place and the right person will be punished by the right person. It could be you as well!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
wow i wish i could be the one to punish the guilty doig bad or hurting....
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Aug 08
Peace dear. Things will take care of itself. You just donot lose your sanity over something that does not deserve it. *Cheers*
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
thanks a million honey
@subha12 (18441)
• India
2 Sep 08
Very frankly i will think that person be properly treated by God for his action. if he cheated me, he will get thje treatment in life from God. who am i to hurt or punish him? God will do what is necessary
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
4 Sep 08
thanks for the response.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
I just believe that when you do things that hurts someone,it will comes back to you triple times or more, when you don't hurt anyone it comes back to you triple times or more in happiness. God is good all the time and watching all of us. He also spank us when we just don't do things that is right. That is why their are people who really suffer for what they did uin the past. That's what my opnion is and what I see. Have a nice day! God bless!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
three times or more....hmmm quite an observation
@mayka123 (16581)
• India
30 Aug 08
Commitment, betrayal and now punishment. Looks like you want someone punished. Isnt it? I think I would leave the punishment to God. And in fact when I see the person suffering for anything later I feel that God has punished him in his own way. I am no one to judge any person on why he has betrayed me. Only the person involved and God would know the reason. So I would leave it to him.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
yeh kind of i want to but i cant...and hoping god to make evryone realise this that life is a circle. whtever u do with others one has to experience that in his/her own life.. thanks for the comments.
@mayka123 (16581)
• India
30 Aug 08
If all of us could punish those who did any wrong to us I think there would be less crime and lesser criminals around because then the criminals would be scared of being punished. And where we are emotionally hurt I guess there is nothing we can do.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
yeh the crime rate would be low as well as the punishment would be instant and we would not wait for any judgement...
@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
I was betrayed in the past. I thought I could just think that I could leave it all to God, but it never made me feel contented... I'd rather seek revenge for peace of mind. Just my honest opinion.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
yeh i can understand that one looses peace of mind....:( may God would bless you with all what u desire..
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
Hi sang2k2! There are times that I want revenge or wanted God to punish and hurt those who have hurt or betrayed me. However, at the end of the day I ask for forgiveness for thinking that way. I always ask God to teach me how to forgive those who have hurt me and at the same time ask God that those people who have hurt me will be enlightened and see the error of their ways. Take care always..God Bless!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
ok thats a good way of thinking
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
30 Aug 08
Ofcourse she needs a really good punishment to betray me and i already have done it, my ex girlfriend left me for coz she liked some other guy and she left me out she came back to me and that time i used her completely made her think that i've forgiven her and then i left her !
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
isnt that person's coming back to you itself is a realisation in itself....and a punishment too...but im happy atleast you got a chance to see her regret for her mistake....