Do you Always turn On your Messenger when you are Online?

@poohgal (6845)
Singapore
August 30, 2008 7:49am CST
I am a MSN messenger user but I haven't use it for nearly 3 months! I used to turn on my MSN messenger every day. I am online almost every day but somehow do not have the mood to turn On my MSN messenger. Actually, I only notice that it has been so long since I last log into my MSN messenger when my friends asked me why I am always not online. 3 months ago, I was irritated with a friend because he kept disturbing me by nudging me many times using MSN messenger. I was so irritated that I logged off and continued with what I was doing. Ever since that day, I stop logging in. (Anyway, no worries, I am still friends with him even though he's childish ) Do you Always turn On your Messenger when you are Online? Why and why not? Thanks
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• Philippines
31 Aug 08
I am a yahoo messenger user. And yes, i always have my YM on always, since my hubby lives in another part of the world. I always want to keep it open just incase he's around and he could leave some message. Oftentimes, when im not expecting any important message from anyone, i usually turn it off. Only if im doing some graphic designs, that requires my full attention. I don't usually like anyone buttin in and poppin out on my screen out of nowhere when i was so focus on my artwork. I couldn't help but glare on the screen, like hoping i got magic and make it 'poof!' gone. But i always welcome interrupted message, specially from my friends too. I don't usually give out my ym name, unless i feel that you can be trusted. But my friends understand that when im online, they can talk to me anytime, but usually im more invisible than visible. I just lurk in YM most of the time, while i do busy mylotting. :P
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@patgalca (18179)
• Orangeville, Ontario
31 Aug 08
I agree. I perfer to make plans with someone to go on MSN to chat at a certain time. But that has never come up.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Yea. Messenger is the fastest and cheapest way to get in touch with your loved ones. Haha.. when I am doing work or in mylot, I prefer to be undisturbed too.
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
With me it's, uh... marginally different, I suppose? I mean, I'm online everyday like you are. But while I log in to my yahoo, gmail and msn accounts, I'm often logged in as invisible or away because I... am not really a chatty person. Like you, when I'm doing something online, it's kind of a bother for me to talk to someone constantly. I like focusing on what I do so I can finish it faster and go on to the next thing that needs to be done and while I do enjoy chatting to some people, I feel pressured to reply to every single one who sends me a query asking if I'm on, so I opt to become invisible. When I'm invisible, I can have the option to talk only to the people I feel comfortable talking to at that particular moment. It seems a little, uh, mean, I suppose. But I think it's better to not start chatting with someone when I don't have anything to say to them in the first place. Plus, I don't like to leave them hanging by simply not responding, so. Urk. That's often what I do, haha.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
True. When I used to be 'online', I am mostly in the invisible mode too.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
30 Aug 08
I used to back when my husband could IM me at work, and we would sometimes talk to each other on there, but his work does not allow it anymore, so I don't have any reason to turn it on anymore.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Yea. Many companies banned IM. They do not want the employees to be distracted.
@banadux (630)
• United States
30 Aug 08
I try to leave mine on as much as possible. A lot of people use instant messaging as a way to keep in touch. I don't just use MSN. I use a program called Trillian that allows me to use AIM, ICQ, MSN, and Yahoo all at once. If anyone annoys me on there I just stop talking to them. I don't tend to keep friends with people who annoy me.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Yea. Those annoying friends of mine belongs to the minority. Even though they are annoying at times, they are nice people.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
31 Aug 08
Hi friend,Sometimes when I feel bored I turn on my yahoo messenger,times when am very busy in mylot I turn off.In yahoo messenger we have the facility to hide ourselves from online mode to offline when we are busy.so I prefer yahoo messenger.Thanks for sharing.Happy mylotting.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Same with MSN. We can appear Invisible too. Thanks for sharing too.
@pking0 (18)
• United States
30 Aug 08
Well, I usually leave my messenger on. Why? If your browsing the internet, and you get a new message, you can talk to your freinds while doing something else. This is great, because it prevents you from getting bored on the internet :) NOTE: If you leave it on, but are away from your computer, this is not always good. You see, your friend might be talking to you *or TRYING to talk to you* but since you are away from your computer, you can't talk. They might think that you are ignoring them, and can lead to arguments later. That's my advice!
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Haha.. I used to have it on and then walked away from my laptop. When I returned to reply the messages, my friends were offline. I'm never bored on internet as I enjoy mylotting and am active in some other forums too. I also enjoy watching anime.
• United States
30 Aug 08
When I was younger, I used to have all of my messengers turned on all the time when I was online. The only time I didn't use them is if I was angry at someone and didn't feel like talking to them or anyone else at the time. However since I've gotten into college, I may have my messenger on but I don't always turn it so people can see that I am online. That way, I won't be attacked by people all the time. I mean after a long day with classes and stuff I'm not too interested in talking to a lot of people.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Same sentiments. After a long day of talking to people, I do not feel like chatting too.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
I used to do that as well. Turn on all my different messengers whenever I go online. But I rarely do that now a days. To me, the messenger is taking up way too much valuable space running in the background. Unless I know for sure that a friend is going to be online, we would be better off chatting via emails. But of late, after upgrading my PC, I am starting to run it again. I just log in and leave the messenger on. After coming out to work for quite a while, we are all no longer as active on the messenger as we used to be when were students. Heh heh...
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
16 Sep 08
Really? When I was a student, we were all either busy with our assignments, always discussions held over some sort of messenger. The most popular one of my time was ICQ. Every where you go, you will hear the "Orh-Oh" tune played as every one was busy sharing notes and chit chatting over the net. Then comes after the exam, it would be worst. More messaging, usually till very late in the night too!
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
23 Sep 08
It has more to do with my character.. I don't enjoy instant messaging and social networking sites as much as my friends.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
Even as a student, I was not very active on Messengers. I've ever MIA one whole year from Messenger before when I was a student. Currently, I have not logged into MSN for around 4 months.
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• India
30 Aug 08
Yes! i have my gtalk ( for money making) on all the time when I'm online! And i keep getting messages at the rate of one every 3 mints! Some times some of the visitors of my blog talk to me when I'm online, some times i get messages saying that i got paid by some sites (very rare these days) , or saying that i got a new referral in mylot etc...
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
gtalk? I never heard of it. Interesting. You seem very geared up in online money making.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Oh.. Now I know.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
24 Sep 08
I always turn on my Yahoo Messenger, but I put up the sign "You can send me a message" he he he...because sometimes I'm cooking or doing other stuff or I'm not in the mood to chat...gladly nobody has ever really bothered me he he he...
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
24 Sep 08
That's good. You have nice friends. My friends will still disturb me online even if I'm on busy mode. When I told them I was busy, then they said I should be offline.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Sep 08
Yea.. They are the 'not so close' friends.
• Finland
24 Sep 08
WHAT?!?!?! It's YOUR messenger. You can do whatever you like. Just because your computer is on and your internet is on doesn't mean that you're glued to your chair in front of the computer, right? Tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk...
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@Elixiress (3878)
30 Aug 08
I use MSN and AIM messengers and I turn them on because AIM has a lot of people that I like to talk to and MSN is the place that I get my email updates and a lot of people that I used to know well sometimes talk to me, so it is a great catch-up. No one nudges me, because I just shout at them and if that doesn't work then I block them. I tried Yahoo messenger, but that did not last as I did not like it and no one I knew used it.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
I should try shouting too. It's indeed a good catch-up but I think I prefer to catch up face to face.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
1 Sep 08
That's true too. I think I have such friends too and I hardly meet up with them as it seems awkward to.
@Elixiress (3878)
31 Aug 08
They are not really people that I have spent time with, just people I used to talk to in school and maybe once or twice outside. So going out with them for day or so would be rather odd and "new" while catching up on the internet is safe and comfortable.
@jaffna (778)
• India
30 Aug 08
i always do that..ma friends would wanna be in online with me often...so i always have the habit of turning it on..mine is yahoo messenger..i keep changing ma chat messengers to skype for few days...MSN and windows live so on..
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
That's good. It seems like you have many friends on YM.
• Canada
31 Aug 08
on msn messenger you can turn off the winks/nudges etc in your settings, then you can be online, or you can temporarily block that person, or you can sign in as appear offline and choose who you want to message! I am signed in msn all the time unless one of the kids is on here :)
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Yea. I know but I think I am just too plain lazy to change settings and to log in now.
@stroibis (40)
• Sweden
30 Aug 08
i just think its enoying when all your friends write to you so it's not often i logg on
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Sometimes I find it a little annoying too.
@Gothicana (458)
• United States
30 Aug 08
no ,sometimes i only wonne look up my mails not in the mood to talk but that is not often
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Thanks for sharing.
@jsmith12 (438)
• Canada
1 Sep 08
Yeah. In fact, I use MSN, Y! and AIM all the time because I have diffrent people on all three messengers. Though rather then installing three separate ones, I just install Trillian, and it can run them all for me. Overall the greatest program I've ever used.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
1 Sep 08
Yea. I've heard of that program. I think it's good too. Having 3 separate messengers can be confusing. It's good to have a program to manage them.
@jsmith12 (438)
• Canada
3 Sep 08
Yeah very useful for me as I have people on all three messangers who refuse to use anything but their messanger. So rather then cutting off some firends, I keep everyone happy.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
31 Aug 08
i have yahoo messenger. i log in everyday but its invissible to everyone.its just a quick check then log out.i dont have much time to chat coz i dont have habbit of "i´ll do it later on" of my daily works.i need to finish my work first before i chat online.but if i have offline message yes or some important to chat yes i am visible to that friend.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
1 Sep 08
Yea. I rather be doing other things online too.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
1 Sep 08
agree
@msedge (4011)
• United States
10 Sep 08
I just do it sometimes because i have no one to talk to during the time that i do Mylotting and other stuffs.I don't have anyone to talk online that has same time as we have.All of my friends and relatives are from my country and its not the same time as ours.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
11 Sep 08
Thanks for sharing.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
29 Sep 08
Your welcome
23 Sep 08
No! I spend a lot of time on line but not always I turn on msn! Sometime I like explore the web within disturb! (sorry for my bad english :-(
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
23 Sep 08
Welcome to mylot. No worries. We are all learning here.
23 Sep 08
thankyou:-) you are very, very kind!
• Malaysia
27 Sep 08
my msn will be automatically on when i am online. it's the best way to keep in touch with my long distance friends and family. besides, i treat it as a 5 mins break whenever i m bored at work in the office.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
28 Sep 08
You are lucky. Some companies ban MSN.
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
it used to be banned but i'm not sure why it is automatically connected when i turn on my computer recently. hahahahaha. i'm so happy about it.
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
yes, i do always logon to YM when i'm online, especially nowadays. i'm trying to help prepare for the wedding of my friends - the bride is in japan right now while the groom is in germany and they will be getting married here in the philippines. YM has been a very convenient tool for us throughout this process. =)
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
6 Nov 08
wow... you are a very nice friend. Hope your friends' wedding will run smoothly.
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• Philippines
6 Nov 08
thank you, i hope so too. *fingers crossed*