A Bad Case Of Bees Around Honey

@wolfie34 (26789)
United Kingdom
September 3, 2008 2:35pm CST
Or flies around shite! Do you get fed up, frustrated or find it hilarious when you see guys fauning over women in public places using their position to hang around attractive young ladies? For example at my gym there are some male gym instructors who are always hanging around the girls in the place, seeking any excuse to start talking to them and using their status as a gym instructor to faun all over them It's so bleeding obvious! If I ask a question I get a one word answer from them, if I was female, attractive and young they'd be practically throwing themselves at me Whilst the jealousy factor is not quite there, I just roll my eyes and it's so false, so blatant what they are doing but it is also very unprofessional too So does this annoy you, perhaps where you work the men fall over themselves to help or faun over a pretty girl or lady that comes in, maybe she's a customer. Some men just think with what's between their trousers, what do you think Ladies? And men are you more likely to help a young woman in trouble or an older lady without the voluptiousness and the buxom, slimline body?
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@Phelyne (129)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Really I think it depends on the guy. I try not to generalize (notice the operative word). But, as a rule, I'd say if there were a fine chick and an old hen in the same area, the wolf would go for the chick.
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@wolfie34 (26789)
• United Kingdom
3 Sep 08
Great analogy! I think my gym has too many wolves and too many chicks!
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@Phelyne (129)
• United States
3 Sep 08
lol! Glad you liked it. Just came to me as I was typing. lol
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@GardenGerty (128826)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Believe me, the women are also using their charms to manipulate the guys at the gym and get their attention. That is just how the world works. It sometimes is the pits. At any job the unattached of both genders gravitate and do the little dance. How can I get you, even if I do not want you, just as long as I can have you. I think EVERYONE knows it is false and blatant. They just think that is the best way to play the game.
@wolfie34 (26789)
• United Kingdom
3 Sep 08
Reminds me of the pigeons, the male pigeon will always follow the female around and same with most animals, I guess humans aren't that much different, the mating rituals LOL!
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• India
4 Sep 08
I have seen the other way round too. Woman fawning over young bucks!! We had a nun in college who used to literally dance around when she saw guys. Well, I would help anyone in trouble if it is within my power to do so!! But I have noticed the tendency you have described in a lot of people. For instance, the Principal of the college where I last worked used to be extra sweet to young female lecturers. And he was a priest!! But when older ones approached him with any problem, he would be grumpy and non cooperative.
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@abbey19 (3129)
• Gold Coast, Australia
4 Sep 08
I used to go to the gym regularly, and it was sickening the way some of the instructors drooled over attractive ladies who went there. Very unprofessional in my view. I think that's why a lot of women prefer a "ladies only" gym.
@wolfie34 (26789)
• United Kingdom
4 Sep 08
Makes sense my friend doesn't it. Would be a good idea to have, I am not sure if they have any women only gym, but I'm pretty sure they'd be popular!
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@abbey19 (3129)
• Gold Coast, Australia
5 Sep 08
Not sure about the UK, but here in Australia there are lots of Ladies Only Gyms - and they are VERY popular! Full to bursting! Perhaps that says something about our Aussie males!
@weemam (13377)
4 Sep 08
To be honest sweetheart it has been some years since I personally noticed ,, BUT , when Ross goes shopping with me the assistants talk to him more then me :) :) xx
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@charms88 (7540)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
Ha, ha...this reminds me of the guys I worked with many years ago. I was one of the 2 females working in an International company. Every morning, all the guys was required to hand out reports to me. They used my place to eat breakfast, to exchange gossips and yes...flirt outrageously with me. This was fine with me for as long as they behave properly. I was very clear with them from the very start. I'm not interested. If you are single, unattached, blessed with all the right curves, guys will naturally want to have a little piece of you. It really depends on how a guy wore his trouser. Some wore it because it was a part of their garment. Some wore it for the sake of showing off his masculinity. The latter group does annoy me. I guess we need to accept that such men do exist. Surely we can't control what's inside their trouser. It will be up to the pretty girls whether to be flattered or be annoyed.:)
@mummymo (23707)
9 Sep 08
LOL I have seen this countless times in so many situations sweetheart and it just makes me laugh! Of course I used to be one of those slim ladies who men fell over to help but with the passing years and thickening body that doesn't happen so much I am afraid! Doesn't worry me though as the real 'gentlemen' are still the same as they always were. As for men thinking with a certain part of their anatomy - we all know that is true! lol xxxx
@Bluepatch (2480)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Sep 08
There's been bees around honey since there were honey and bees around. It can be disgusting. I've known some guys like that and they are a cheap bunch of lustful crap-holes. But then, again, there is the honey - who doesn't like it ?
@cwilson26 (2736)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Yeah and it makes me sick. Seems you have to have big boobs or have blond hair to get attention. Thankfully, I am happily married and do not have to worry about this. :)