WhaT iS tRue LoVe liKe?

United States
September 5, 2008 10:39pm CST
I thought I was in love with my daughter's father after being in a relationship with him for five and a half years but after his actions I have came to the conclusion that he might just have been a high school sweet heart "lust". Could some one please express how their love is and any details that come with it, how do you know when it is true love? thank you for reading hope to hear from some one soon
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@Holv03 (535)
• United States
6 Sep 08
Theres different types of love but I know the kind that your talking about. Your talking about when your with someone how do you know its true love. Theres not an exact answer to this question but there are a few answers to it. Love to me is not a feeling because anyone could say they love you and not mean it I think love is an action. True love is when one person and another person end up trusting, respecting (Major Part Of It), caring, concern, affection, and many other positive emotions. True love will differ from person to person because of how emotionally mature they are but if you read the bible this is what it says and that to me is the definition of true love : Love is patient, love is kind it does not envy it is not rude it is not self seeking it is not easily angered it keeps no records for wrongs love does not delight in evil but rejoices the truth it always protects always trust always hopes always perseveres loves never fails......this is the true definition of what true love is and is very hard to find but when you do just hold tight to it because its going be worth it.
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• United States
6 Sep 08
THank you for your response and again for the absolutely great answer you gave towards the topic. Everything you have posted is very true and sounds like you know what you are talking about since you have a great resource the bible. I am happy to read that there are people with positive and mature thoughts.
• United States
6 Sep 08
I meant to put best response on you but I just realized I out it on Rocker.. :0( on accident well your response was the best.
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
6 Sep 08
Love if it is true is a one way road. Here you will not cut off, you will not turn back, you will not spend the night in roadside hotel. To be mistaken here – means to withdraw. The love is a long way without the right on a mistake. A way up to the first mistake. Who was going to go, should go … In this happiness.
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• United States
6 Sep 08
Thank you for your response and for sharing what your feelings are towards the topic.
• United States
6 Sep 08
I think it depends on the person and everyone will probably say something different. I think it's mostly a combination of deep companionship AND lust. If you don't have both, it doesn't work. But I also think that the only way to know if you are truly in love is to know yourself and be able to take a step back and assess yourself, your feelings, your partner and how your partner makes you feel without the cloudiness of immaturity or infatuation.
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• United States
6 Sep 08
Thank you for your response and for sharing your thoughts on the topic you wrote your side and I find it great thank you.
@rocker21 (2717)
• India
6 Sep 08
You are a looser! thats what i wanna say!
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• United States
6 Sep 08
LOL Well thank you for your response hope to see yours posted soon.
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 08
True love? Well.. I don't know what you mean by true love. Love is every where by any means, and with different shape. Mother to daughter is a true love, Father to children is true love too. Husband and wife who just married is a true love, even when they have been married for 60 years, it is still a true love. I mean, love is changig its shape everytime. From the love for a reason to the love without a reason. From a love from a friend to a love from a lover. From a lover to a soulmate. From a soulmate to an endless love. I don't have the right words to describe how it could change its shape, but everything in you is love, and only love could make you do such things that sometimes nonsense. What is true love like? If anyone here could answer, I would like to know it too..
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• United States
6 Sep 08
THank you for your response and for expressing that there are different types of true love and for mentioning that their are different meanings towards it, the discussion I posted was intended for relationship love as with your life companion.