Do you think a bad boy will change for love?

Canada
September 7, 2008 8:54am CST
I think guys and girls for that matter will change for love. But it depends on who. My ex boyfriend was a bad boyfriend with me, and he wasnt all that committed. I used to always wonder if hed ever find a girl he thought would be worth it enough to settle down. And apparently he told me the other day he found someone that made him feel that way. I guess it just ttakes a girl/guy that they think are worth it to change their ways. Do you think love can change even the worst guys out there?
10 responses
• United States
16 Sep 08
No. People don't change crcumstances do. If it is in someone's nature to be a jerk then deep down inside they will always be a jerk. He might find himself in a situation where he really cares about a person and as a result refrains form being a jerk to her, but it's still there and there's always the chance that it will come out again. Same goes with cheaters. I think that if you're in the mindset that cheating is okay, then you'll always be a cheater. The situation might change, for example he might be sexually satisfied with his current partner, or it might be the case that no other women are catching his eye, or perhaps the ones who are cathcing his eye aren't interested in him, but once the situation changes and he has the oppertunity to I believe he will because it's in his nature.
13 Sep 08
yes i do think that some people can really change when it comes to love. it's a tough choice to do when you change... but it never fails to impress girls when a guy changes for a girl!
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Of course even the worst criminals can change in the name of love. Love is the powerful feelings of all.
• China
8 Sep 08
I think love can chang even the worst guys!Love is the most magical madicine to people's heart!
• United States
10 Sep 08
I don't think you can change anyone unless they are ready to be changed. The only thing you can do is love them and show them what life could be like if they did change. If you've been able to change someone they must have seen something in you that they liked and that they wanted. It would be nice if it happened with everyone but it doesn't. Those of you who were able to manage I applaud you.
@Sarah1108 (310)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Yes i think love can change anyone. I am engaged to a past bad boy lol. he tells me everyday that i changed him. but little does he know he also changed me. i needed his bad boy moments to know what i really wanted in life. he is so happy that he has a wonderful girl and and all of his guy friends want to know if there are anymore out there like me. i try not to judge him on his past. he was the type of bad boy that a lot of girls wanted and they didnt want him to change because he had a good hustle but when he found out that i dont care how much money he makes or how nice his car is and what fashion he wears that started to change him. he saw that unlike the other girls i was not a gold digger i wanted him to stay out of trouble and i cared about how he made is money and that he made it the right way
@riyasam (16556)
• India
7 Sep 08
i think you are right in saying love does work wonders.if you really love a person,he\she will change to be in your good books.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
you wish, in your dreams. if you percieve your partner to be a bd boy and you hope to change him, you are dreaming, my dear. you cannot change that person. no one can, the more we force someone to do against their nature, the more one does what he do best, wreck his life, including yours. my unsolicited advice is dump him and that would do a lot of good to you. you are better of with someone whom you can be comforatable with, try having your bestfriend as your boyfriend and things would be al ot better because you treat each other as bestfriends and not as lovers.wake up.
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
yes. love is full of wonders. i don't find it impossible for someone to change his bad attitudes because of love. when you truly love someone, it makes you do things you don't usually do. it makes you want to see him/her happy with all the things you do. i guess that drives a person to change.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
yes bad boy will change for love but i kept telling my ex before that he change because he's not really a bad boy but there's a good and soft spot in his personality also.. he changed because of his love for me and i really appreciate it. i thought we'll last forever but i'm wrong..(",)