I Am Who I Am

i am who i am - Who I AM
United States
September 7, 2008 4:34pm CST
Do you really know.? I mean Really, Really Know Who you ARE? It took me so long to figure it out. This isn't something that you just know. Its something that you learn about yourself. I have went through so much in my life to get where I am, to learn who I am. ( that's a different story) [i]I am crazy, loud, friendly, flirty, tell you like it is, independent, loving, I can laugh, I can cry, ( in the same conversation ), I'm a bottle blond, I'll give you a kiss, or tell you to kiss my @ss, I'll give you a hug, I can be friends with almost anyone, I'm a b!tch ( you just have to get use to that ), if you love me I love back, if your mean to me I'm mean back. I'll be your best friend if you let me. And I can keep a secret. That was the hardest thing for me to prefect. That is part of who I am. Who Are You.?[/i]
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6 responses
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I am talkitive, I am caring, I am loving and strong, I also have weak moments but they do not last long. I like to plan and then I like to dream. I am not sure how else to describe self. I am allergic to something that is not making me feel good right now, that is how.
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• United States
14 Sep 08
I am talkative, and caring also. And I am a strong person. All those things put together and people sometimes don't know how to take us. It will make you have weak moments. But we just have to get our thoughts together, and go on. Sorry to hear your not feeling well. Maybe its allergies?
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
10 Sep 08
well said iam what iam and iam very independent i love hard and i can be very firm when i need to be,i like to have fun.i write poetry,i sing,i draw,iam a mother iam a grandmother iam a wife.i like race car driving i like swimming i like the hot tub.i like playing spades,2600,bowling,watching moving,i like my friends i spend a lot of time with my friends because they become part of my family and i only hangout with family in friends no rough stuff.this is what iam iam very loving person and iam trust worthy.
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• United States
10 Sep 08
Thank you for sharing that with me. You sound interesting. Everyone is so much different. Thanks so much.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Yea I know who I really really am....in fact my former therapist commented that I know myself extremely well and better than many ppl she's met in her life.....I went through several yrs of hardcore soul searching in my 20s and actually found myself for the first time in the beginning then took the time to get to truly know myself and it ws the best thing I've ever done for me to be honest with you... Who am I? I'm a little bit of everything..I'm a wild child, a mother bear, a hardcore b!tch, a survivor on all levels. I'm intelligence, wit, fun, meloncholy, anger, rage, love, compassion, brutally honest and supportive. If I bring you into my life, heart and soul you will be there for life even if at some point it has to be from a distance. If you p!ss me off, YOU'LL KNOW..I'm inner strength, determined, stubborn, off my rocker (4 out of 5 therapists agree), childish, all grown up, sexy, manly, a lady, a mom, a lover and a friend...I'm talented, an artist, open minded, open armed and have a HUGE heart...the list goes on but I'll stop there.
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• United States
8 Sep 08
Very good. you do know who you are. And 4 out of 5 therapist agree. If they didn't you could always kick there @ss right?
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Who am I. Well I feel I can be complicated at times, yet simple at other tims, and I have a mind of my own. I'm strong and independent, I don't need to rely on others to take care of me, I am the care taker for whoever needs it. Most of all I'm not a game player. I hate games. I'm honest and down to earth.
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• United States
10 Sep 08
That's very good. Sounds like you have it about have it figured out. I like the honest and down to earth part. Thanks.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Hey walk! You sound alot like who I am! If that's ok with you! It's true you've described me pretty much to a tee! And it has taken me a long time to become who I am. Except I am not blond by no means, I have dark hair (chemically enhanced to cover the greys)! Oh, and I'm not especially flirty anymore. I can't get away with that at my age. But when I was just a bit younger I sure was! But I still will tell you to kiss my azz in a NY minute! I also can be your best friend, buy don't piss me off or try to stab me in the back because before you turn around that knife will be sticking in your front! I don't take crap from anyone. If you hurt someone I care for I will make you hurt too. I have definitely been told that I am a beotch many times, but I've also been told that I am a very sweet and caring person, which I truly am! I have learned to "push the comfort zone" as my rehab counselor had told me in the last year over and over again in my quest to stop drinking and taking prescription meds. I conquered alot of hidden fears too. I just graduated from rehab on Thursday and I am now 10 months clean and sober! It was something that was necessary for me at this time in my life or I might not have had a life. So all this has taken me to where and who I am today and I am sort of proud of myself for the steps I've recently taken and I will continue to take!
• United States
8 Sep 08
So in a way you have just discovered a part of who you are. Very good. The one thing I have to remember in my quest to continue on in discovering more about myself, is YOU DON'T NEED ANYONES PERMISSION TO BE YOURSELF. I'm never worried about being embarrassed, who cares who sees what I do. I may never get the same opportunity again. My kids care a lot. That's our job to embarrass them right. I'm proud of how far you have came. I hope we even learn more about our self from each other.
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Hi! Yeah, me too. I know who I am, but maybe I am not done understanding myself yet. Sad as it may sound, I know I'll get there, and I'm enjoying my way getting there.
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• United States
9 Sep 08
Well, you are very young, and you have a long time. When I was your age, I had no idea. I was who everyone else wanted me to be. Now I can speak up and say no. I can say yes. I can say kiss my @ss to anyone, even my boss, without getting fired. That's the kind of person I am for 1, and the other I have learned how to read people. I thing we will always be trying to understand ourselves...