Are you a onesided person?

@annjilena (5620)
United States
September 9, 2008 10:39am CST
do you hear the whole story before taking sides.are do you remain neutral and take no one side.
8 responses
@gabbana (1815)
• China
10 Sep 08
hi, i believe no one is a one side person. on the countrary, multisides. in different situation, like at work, at home, facing subordinates, boss, friends, we show different ego to them.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
12 Sep 08
believe me some people takes side even if it wrong they take side
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
If the matter is between a friend, a brother or any of my family versus a stranger, I would take side of course to people who are close to my heart, call me unfair on that I just love my people. In cases whereby both side were involved, I would rather shut up and listen to both side of the story. I have already experienced this one, I pacified a friend from another friend, I asked them to talk together and I become the third party taking no side to any of them and they end up hearing each other out.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
10 Sep 08
thank you
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
10 Sep 08
It depends on the people and what the siuation is. Then I think about it might take one side or the other so i really depends
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
10 Sep 08
thank you
• Malaysia
9 Sep 08
I usually will hear from both side before I take anyone side.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
9 Sep 08
thats a good way to be but you know some people takes sides before hearing the whole story.thank you may god bless you.
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
9 Sep 08
Hello,Anjilena! I remain always neutral.I can't be a party to anybody's dispute whatever the circumstance may be.Rather I prefer to negotiate to settle up the dispute or difference between the two.thanx.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
9 Sep 08
thank you well spoken
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Me, i'm a neutral person..I listen the stories of the both sides and gave them advices...It is just want verything will tun out right, and as much ias possible, i don't want to be one sided or bias to the both party... happy mylotters!
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
9 Sep 08
thank you
@riyasam (16570)
• India
9 Sep 08
its not good to take anybodys side before knowing the full story.therefore i tend to keep mum.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
9 Sep 08
thank you
• United States
9 Sep 08
It depends. I have some friends that's impossible to play devil's advocate. They don't care they just want you on their side. I have some friends that like it when I look at it from a different view. Don't get me wrong. I'm always there for my friends but if they are wrong they are wrong and it's my responsibility as a FRIEND to let them know.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
9 Sep 08
well spoken thank you