habbits, actions you hate about the people around you or in your friends

@sang2k2 (1833)
India
September 11, 2008 7:46am CST
like digging nose, touching the hair oftenly or continuosly (specially woman),burping loudly without feeling offended in crowd,making unwanted sounds , sipping liquids with loud sounds or eating things noisily.talking loudly over the phone.abusing , etc what all do u hate in ur friends and do u correct them..add some more to it..as we would be able to lear the etiquettes here.
9 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Sep 08
Hi dear well i dislike many thing but try to live with iy and dont point it out unless its too disgusting as i know its habit , and hard to change take care
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
13 Sep 08
nothing is hard to change...add some if u know
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
13 Sep 08
Cupid you say...I can be blocked...you mean to say that my friends would block me? well if they want to I cannot stop them! If they do not want me as their friend and want to block me I cannot force myself on them.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Sep 08
hmm, sure not impossible but very hard
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
12 Sep 08
You have made quite a list here. Enjoyed reading it. Other than those listed above I think the one habit that I get very very angry about is when a friend is online and the minute I say Hi he/she immediately goes offline. I dont know why but this makes me very very angry. For me it means that the person is saying I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU......And when if happens too often with one particular person I think I should be taking the hint...
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
12 Sep 08
phone calls I just forget...its just that I am online the whole day and chat with friends throughout the day....and when this happens I cannot describe what I feel at that moment....especially those whom I am quite close to...
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Sep 08
Hmmmmmmm why u get angry if anyone dont want to talk to u, u can always be blocked , have u ever thnk about That
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
13 Sep 08
Cupid you say...I can be blocked...you mean to say that my friends would block me? well if they want to I cannot stop them! If they do not want me as their friend and want to block me I cannot force myself on them.
@dpk262006 (56727)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 08
LOL! I caanot stop laughing after reading your post. You have really compiled a comprehensive list of habits, which can irritate any one (me including). However, you cannot ask everyone to amend his/her habits. It is easier said than done. You require a diplomatic skill to convey that his/hers particular habit is disturbing and he/she refrain from it. Many people take it very seriously and may retaliate. I think I try to convey my friends about their bad habits, if any, in a polite and courteous manner, so as not to offend them. What about you, how do you convey about bad habits to your friends?
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Sep 08
yeh i tel my friends,but when i am alone with them not in front of the crowd..as these are bad habbits and one needs to change them.
@dpk262006 (56727)
• Delhi, India
15 Sep 08
It is a wise idea to talk to your friends in private about their bad habits, this way you can convey your 'message', without offending them. I know you are wise enough in this respect.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
17 Sep 08
hmmm thanks for telling me that i am wise
@mimpi1911 (25473)
• India
13 Sep 08
Sang I hate all of those, frankly. They are obnoxious! people lack civic sense so much so that they do not know even how to conduct themselves in cocktail parties or when in a hospital! This is funny sometimes. Now, can you imagine someone in her part dress in hospital and behaving like a teenager when she's in 40ties! I really appreciate your gesture to correct your friends. Ideally that should be it. But in case of strangers we can correct them only to be frowned at, in most cases. Thanks.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
13 Sep 08
thanks for the response..
@rkrish (3003)
• India
12 Sep 08
i have a bad habit, If see friends and their bad habits, then i too start doing those bad habbits of friends...now a days basically i am avoiding to notice much of these kinds..its real for me..thats y i am not even watching any bad habits of friends...
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Sep 08
oh.thanks for repsonses
@lilcee (2703)
• United States
11 Sep 08
Some of the things I hate to see are, when a guy spits, or when they feel like they need to scratch. I also can't stand it when people have to talk on their cell phone in a Dr office, especially talking loud so you can hear the whole conversation.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Sep 08
they need to be taken to task , dont u think so.
@sudalunts (5526)
• United States
11 Sep 08
far*ting, is quite annoying, my husband does this all the time, I say something to him about it but he still does it. Yawning loudly is very annoying, I worked with a woman who would yawn so loud, you could hear her all over the office. Laughing loudly on the phone at work, while taking a personal phone, when they should be working, same lady that yawns does this also. spitting on the street, hate when people do that, children pick things up and put their hands in their mouth, so spitting is a nasty habit. Just to name a few
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Sep 08
thanks for the value additions.
• United States
11 Sep 08
the one thing i can't stand is people that bring their kids out in public and don't teach them to behave. my mother made sure before she started taking me out in public that i knew how to behave. i didn't throw my food on the floor. i didn't climb out of my chair just to sit on the FILTHY floor underneath the table. parents think it's cute and it's not. you are not the only people in the world and it's a public place. what goes on in your house is not necessarily okay to do in public. if you have children and they misbehave take them home. if i acted up my mom would just take me home and i learned my lesson.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Sep 08
yeh i gree, atleast parents shoud enough care about their while being at home or outside. as the way kids would behave at home would repeat the same out as well.
@dpk262006 (56727)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 08
LOL! I cannot stop laughing after reading your post. You have really compiled a comprehensive list of habits, which can irritate any one (me including). However, you cannot ask everyone to amend his/her habits. It is easier said than done. You require a diplomatic skill to convey that his/hers particular habit is disturbing and he/she refrain from it. Many people take it very seriously and may retaliate. I think I try to convey my friends about their bad habits, if any, in a polite and courteous manner, so as not to offend them. What about you, how do you convey about bad habits to your friends?