what circumstances makes one feels inferiority complex

@sang2k2 (1833)
India
September 17, 2008 4:37am CST
being with people having hightstandard of living, or travelling with friends who are more handsome or beautiful than you, being with some one highly educated or highly paid or very smart?
7 responses
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
17 Sep 08
The complex is there when you feel that you are inferior to others which is most of the time imaginery. Very often it is because of what we have experienced when we were young. When a person thinks that he/she is not very beautiful or handsome as the case may be...or when a person thinks he is not very intelligent..when they think they cannot express themselves properly.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
17 Sep 08
i dont know whether its a effect of experience while we were young , but definately i get complex when i see someone prettier than me..thanks
@mayka123 (14342)
• India
18 Sep 08
You do look pretty dear.....dont bother if someone is a little bit better than you.....
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Sep 08
yeh i shall not hence thanks...
@dpk262006 (56727)
• Delhi, India
17 Sep 08
It will depend upon person to person. It is a matter of thinking and perception. I do not feel inferior or superior to anyone. I just come out, as I am. I try not to show any superiority complex to my juniors or colleagues. I treat others as I wish to be treated myself.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
17 Sep 08
well i dont really treat anybody inferior but at times i kind of feel inferior due certain things.infact in very much down to earth but my face kinda shows a diff history.thanks for the response.
@dpk262006 (56727)
• Delhi, India
18 Sep 08
It is really great to know that you are down to earth, so am I. I do not try to boost and blow my own trumpet.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Sep 08
oh thats cool
@mimpi1911 (25473)
• India
17 Sep 08
Sang I would say neither of the situations you stated would make me suffer from inferiority complex. 1. ppl having huge standard of living: this would make me appreciate their fortune and hardwork 2. ppl who are more handsome or beautiful: they are fortunate and I would love to appreciate their beauty 3. ppl highly educated: I would look up to them and try to converse and enrich myself 4. ppl smart and highly paid: I would respect their hard work, sincerity and whatever it takes. The point is, no where inferior thing comes in. I may not be the best but I know who am I. We should not underestimate ourselves and instead frowning on the crooked nose I have I would rather appreciate my beautiful eyes. Happy living.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
17 Sep 08
love you thats so very simple and such a high living..thanks a million, i think reading this one can actaully get inspired to stay like this and would learn to appreciate oneself.i would assimilate these things in mylife as well...thanks honey.
@subha12 (18449)
• India
19 Sep 08
there are many. when obviously the people around me are of more superior quality in terms of designation, quality and all. i feel down.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Sep 08
ok designation doesnt bother me much..but for me its the clothes and the outer appearances matter a lot...maybe thou they are materialistic but they do count....thanks for the response...take care...
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
19 Sep 08
Hmmm i think that ubbringing can be only circumstances which make one feel inferiority complex. As if u understand and accept the reality, than no one is equal so no need to have eirther Superiorty complex or inferiority comples Take care
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Sep 08
thnks for the response
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
18 Sep 08
Of recent the only times that i have felt something like an inferiority complex would be because of certain values and ideals that i have seen in people. Values and ideals that i may have had difficulty in retaining or those that i continue to strive for. Looks, education,pay,money....,these are all materialistic things, which may draw my attention for sometime but certainly have never given me a complex.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Sep 08
hey wow values thts a new addition and a point to think upon...
@rkrish (3003)
• India
17 Sep 08
Inferiority is a childhood complex, breaking out in the coming ages is a real challenge..Inferiority complex are the real goals to achieve for me and i turned it in that way and i try to make it...stage fear, speaking out boldly, standing up in a crowd, taking calculated risk are the examples of my inferiority complex
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
17 Sep 08
hey that sounds remarkably good to me...taking inferiority complex as a challenge or a goal to perform and break the barrier..good one buddy.