crises

@riyasam (16567)
India
September 20, 2008 8:11am CST
i find myself constantly bickering nowadays.previously i was not like this .is this what is called middle-age crises??????
4 responses
@dpk262006 (56752)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 08
I feel each one of us indulge in bickering, however, the intensity or frequency may vary. To get angry is a natural phenomenon and it is a common trait. We all get angry due to one reason or other and when we find that the other one's not paying any heed to our advice or is not obeying us, we tend to quarrel. May be bickering is a method of coming out with our pent up emotions. You can count upto 1 to 10 when anger starts builiding up in you, due to any reason. Please do not take it very seriously (bickering) it happens with every middle aged person. Keep Smiling!
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
1 Oct 08
i try to count numbers but i feel better once i have blurted out something.
@dpk262006 (56752)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 08
It is entirely upto you, if you feel you feel good if you blurt out something then it is alright, but one thing I would like to add - please do not feel guilty conscious once you have blurted out, irrespective of the fact who was on the receiving end.
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
3 Oct 08
sometimes i do feel guilty also,so now whenever i am angry i count numbers.
@mimpi1911 (25474)
• India
1 Oct 08
Hi riya This is but natural and life along with the happy things bring some annoying things as well. That keeps us disturbed most of the times. May you are too much caring, too much into the well being of the family. That's good , in fact I really appreciate. But amidst this we must try find peace for ourselves. We must take out me-time and do stuffs which make us happy. You can read if you love that, you can go shopping if that amuses you or even you can talk to friends...whichever fits you , you must go for it.Life is short and try to live it to the fullest. Happy living.
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
1 Oct 08
i do love reading......thats what i do nowadays.i like shopping,then arises the problem of finances.oof
@mimpi1911 (25474)
• India
1 Oct 08
That's true. You can hang around with good friends, if that helps..
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
4 Oct 08
i do not make friends so easily.i have 3-4 very close friends.thats it.and these friends donot live nearby.
@narayan2006 (2955)
• India
20 Sep 08
Dear friends,as one passes through life and gains experiences of variety of events and situations, tastes,attitude and desires of a person changes,replacing the past ones.Life brings new circumstances,challenges,opportunities and new set of problems that needs to be handled with renewed confidence and positive attitude. It is the attitude and approach to face the crisis that makes one stay unnerved and undisturbed or break down. Crisis can makes its presence in any stage of life,no matter how much alert one stays.It is important to stay positive,balanced and peaceful and seek sincere advice,solutions and assistances from all closer sources.Every cloud has a silver lining. Thanks.
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
21 Sep 08
each day brings its own trouble.
@missybear (11393)
• United States
20 Sep 08
i do the same thing. my boyfriend says all i do is, whine,rag and complain. sometimes i drive myself crazy.
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@riyasam (16567)
• India
21 Sep 08
WHAT MIGHT BE THE CAUSE?????