Clearly Define the Person You Want to Be

India
September 21, 2008 7:12pm CST
Who exactly do you want to be? What kind of person do you want to be? What are the personal ideals? Whom do you admire? What are their special traits that you would make our own? It's time to stop being vague. If you wish to be an extraordinary person, if you wish to be wise, then you should explicity identify the kind of person you aspire to become. If you havea daybook, write down who you're trying to be, so that you can refer to this self-defnition. Precisely describe the demeanor you want to adopt so that you preserve it when you are by yourself or with other people. Please share ur opinions and coments on my discussion.......... Thank You
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21 responses
• United States
22 Sep 08
The German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche devised the perfect person called the "Ubermensch", which roughly translates to "super man". It's the concept of living life to make yourself happy and without any regrets. That's my goal.
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• United States
22 Sep 08
Thanks so much ^_^
• India
22 Sep 08
Really Awesome response u have concluded in a simple sentence Thanks for ur response Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
• India
22 Sep 08
That's a fantastic discussion topic! I want to be independent in every action I do. I want to build a beautiful family and raise a wonderful daughter. I want to do all my duties properly and on time. I want to do Pujas to God regularly. I like to be very active and also want my family members to be the same way. On the whole, I want to be active, perfoming, pious and happy.:)
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• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for ur response you are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I want to be a writer. I see my children growing to be successfull and peacefull adults one day. I want to be a kind, patient, fair woman. I want to be a traveler. I am doing my best right now to cause these things to happen and it is posts like this that help to remind me of this plan. I also keep a page on my desk that I write things that I am thankfull and greatfull for so I don't focus on my failures and mistakes that I make. But the good things that are so much bigger than that. I also aspire to be good example to my children and loved ones so that they can make better choices than I have made from time to time.
• India
22 Sep 08
i really don't want to change ur own strategy yaar i shared one of the strategy which will help to increase ur weight in ur Life please take this discussion in that way. U have expressed ur feeling from ur Heart. Im so Happy Thank you for ur response Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments to my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
• United States
22 Sep 08
The person that I am...
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• India
22 Sep 08
Thank You im so glad to meet you You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank you Once Again
• China
22 Sep 08
hawaii  - hawaii surf
i want to be a simple who is loved adn respected by most people, i want be graceful forvever even i'm very old. i want be a good wife and good mother, i want to own a permanent love althou it's so hard. i want be a strong-minded female although i meet big trouble in my life. i want be a self-soverned female if one day, i depart with me lover and my familar. on the other hand, i want to be a heartless girl, so that i won't be so sad if my lover betray me.
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• India
22 Sep 08
Thank you for ur response please encourage good discussions you are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
@clarkmy (428)
• China
22 Sep 08
to be a honesty ,intelligence,and s sence of houmour are all worthwhile qulity ,but we know there is on wonderful person on earth,i feel the most important one in life to have is sensitivity,a sensitive person is aware of himsely and the way thier actions affects others a sensetive people would make everyone feel comfortable . maybe this is ones i want to be
• India
22 Sep 08
Thank you for ur Sensible Response Im really enthusiastic to keep such good discussions Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank you Once Again
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Sep 08
I think I am very happy with myself, I have lived a good life so far and learnt many lessons from that life and from the mistakes I have made, I am not rich but I am happy in my little world, I am healthy so I think I am very lucky so I think I have been dealt a good life...
• India
22 Sep 08
Ofcourse u are happy with ur World what i mean to say is How to upgrade to be a Good being ? How to transform ouself?? Please try to think in that way Thanks for ur Response your are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank you once again
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
To be a known businessman, about my attitude or personality? i am contented the way i am. I admire my mother most, because of her patience and unconditional love to us. Self Control that's the treat of my mother that i want to be my own.
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@deserve40 (1656)
• India
22 Sep 08
I have not any roll model in my life. I personally feel that everbody has ones own strengths and weaknesses. I have been trying to learn from every person whom I have come across. I have felt that learning is an on going process which never ends. That has helped me in developing my personality and especially in fighting the odd situations. However, I believe that one must have some goals in the life and they should be clearly defined. Even it should be made well known to your friends and relatives who would constantly remind you of your goals and will support and encourage you to achieve them. I feel that one must have short term goals as well as long terms goals. Many times the circumstances change drastically and at that time the long term goals seem impossible to achieve. At that time your short term goals do help a lot.
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• India
22 Sep 08
i really expected this type of response im so happy Thanks for ur response You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions PLease keep in touch Thank You Once Again
• China
22 Sep 08
I hope I can be an angel,to help every body when they need!
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@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I want to be wise. I want to be defined. I don't want to say "Can you please, if possible, not make me do that.." I want to say "No, I don't wish to do that." You know what I mean? I want to be certain and secure, I want to have a foundation. I want to get rid of my shyness and make things happen and take control! I am currently taking steps to do this, and it is turning out pretty well. I think you can really be that person you want to be once you define it.
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• India
22 Sep 08
Yes u are right for everything we have to go step by step only yaar Thanks for ur response You are always welcome to share ur feelings and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
• India
22 Sep 08
That's a fantastic discussion topic! I want to be independent in every action I do. I want to build a beautiful family and raise a wonderful daughter. I love cooking and want to cook healthy food. I want to do all my duties properly and on time. I want to do Pujas to God regularly. I like to be very active and also want my family members to be the same way. On the whole, I want to be active, healthy, dutiful, pious and happy.:)
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• United States
22 Sep 08
I think it's a fallacy to try and define who we are explicitly. Each individual is filled with so many intricacies that to express that level of complexity in something as (relatively) simple as our language leads to an extreme simplification of who we are. Thus even the most explicit definition is insufficient. I believe a truly extraordinary person will not be limited by any definition.
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• India
22 Sep 08
Fantastic saying yaar Thanks for ur response Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch THank you Once Again
• United States
22 Sep 08
The person I want to be is the person I am growing to become. Evolving day by day, open to new experiences and accepting the challenges of life , searching for solutions and implementing them with courage. Putting no limitations on the end result as long as it is for the better good.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
22 Sep 08
First and foremost I want to be a good parent. I want to teach my children good values and morals and teach them to do their own thing as long as it is the right thing. Secondly, I want to be a positive person. I want to dream big and know that I can achieve those dreams if I am willing to work for them. I want to know that life is a journey and I must make the most of it. And I want to put those thoughts into action. I want to reach for the stars, knowing that I will someday catch one.
• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for ur Response please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank you Once Again
• United States
22 Sep 08
I am happy with who I am. I mean I wish that I had stayed in school and pursued my dream of becoming a veterinarian, but that didn't happen. Instead, I became a mom. I still dream of being a vet now and then, but it is just dreaming. My children are my life and I would not change the way things are for anything in the world.
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• India
23 Sep 08
I want to be strong and self-sufficient. I want to inspire people who are downtrodden and help people who I can help. I want to be a lesson to liars and hypocrites. I want to enjoy every moment of my life and work hard to fulfil all my dreams!
@chabawel (329)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
If given the opportunity to live somebody Else's shoes, I would choose Princess Diana because of her compassion and selflessness. I would like to live like her life helping other people in different parts of the world. But, I don't like the paparazzi life. I like to have a simple and peaceful life but have the resources to help other people in need.
• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for ur response Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
@esilanna (168)
• Malta
22 Sep 08
Hello mylotting friends!!I want to be a simple person, a person who is capable of being happy without extraordinary things. I want to help people in any possible way and I want to travel a lot.
• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for ur response Please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank You Once Again
• India
22 Sep 08
Sometimes it is so hard to just be yourself.i am a person who is quite positive about my life and thats what i like just being myself.I myself would want to become something may be a avery famous lawyer or a writer whatever i wish to do i certainly wish to be famous.i think it brings a high to life.i may have a lot of ideals but haven'nt come across anyone that i would want to be like..sure i would want to be someone who people would want to be like...i know its a far fetched dream but i hope it comes true..life is too short i want to make the most of it by just being MYSELF!
• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for ur response please encourage good discussions You are always welcome to share ur opinions and coments on my discussions Please keep in touch Thank you Once Again