Where is the Respect?

@bobmnu (8157)
United States
September 22, 2008 5:28pm CST
Senator Obama started it with his comments about Sarah Palin being a mayor from a small town. I just saw a pop up ad on the inter net that talked about Mayor Palin. I have heard Senator Obama's supporters refer to her a Sarah Palin mayor of a small town. I have never heard anyone refer to Senator Obama as State Senator and only rarely have I heard the Junior Senator from Illinois. More times than not I have heard her referred to as simply Sarah Palin. She has earned the title of Governor and out of respect it should be used. I know why her opponents do not use it. To use it gives her stature and importance. There have been many times I have heard Senator Obama simply refer to her as Sarah Palin this or Sarah Palin that and does not use her title. The media did the same thing with Senator Clinton by referring to her as Hillary Clinton. This is a slap in the face of every woman especially those who have worked hard to achieve success in their lives. If you listen to the Senators address each other in the Senate it is my Esteemed Colleague, or the Honorable. Lets all try to use the Title theses people have earned.
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@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Honestly I typically refer to them by their last names. The only exception was Hillary Clinton because just saying Clinton could have people thinking that I was talking about Bill Clinton.
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@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Even if you don't like the person you still need to respect the office they hold.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
24 Sep 08
Bob, I agree with you but I know I've been guilty of calling all of the candidates and nominees by names other than their official title such as "Governor Palin" or Senator Obama" (or Clinton, Biden, McCain, etc.). However, I really don't mean that to be disrespectful to any of them, it's just that sometimes, right or wrong, I'll refer to someone by only their last name or in rare occasions by their first name. I recall there were several posts about Hillary Clinton while she was still a candidate for the Democratic nomination about how, for example, in the Democratic debates everyone else was referred to as "Senator", Governor or Congressman while Hillary was often simply Hillary. I'd thought about that myself and sometimes wondered if some people DID mean that disrespectfully but I can honestly say that for myself personally it was nothing more than habit. Senator Clinton had been our First Lady for eight years and for better or for worse most Americans had gotten used to calling her Hillary. She's certainly the best known Hillary there is and especially in the field of politics and government so when someone said "Hillary did so and so" or whatever everyone knew who they meant, right? Then when she was Presidential candidate that practice seemed to just carry over into that campaign. As someone else already mentioned when just the name "Clinton" was used it usually would bring former President Bill Clinton to mind. To make a long story short - SORRY! - I think it was just one of those things that for the most part didn't really MEAN anything regarding Senator Hillary Clinton. Although I'm not a supporter of Governor Palin I agree that referring to her now as "Mayor Palin" is disrespectful because in that particular instance they're clearly intentionally using her former, less important title. Annie Annie
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Rose, why is it OK for YOU to disrespect SENATOR Obama but you think we're supposed to bow down to Sarah Palin? You're proving Bob's point only you're doing it the opposite way and think nothing of it whatsoever. Annie
@ClarusVisum (2163)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Personally, depending on my mood, I'll either leave out all titles or include them all. I'm a fervent Obama supporter and even I rarely call him "Senator Obama"--most of the time, just "Obama" works fine for me. It was annoying during the primaries, though, because people were so used to associating simply "Clinton" with the former President that I got into the habit of using "Hillary and Obama", which I realize is logically inconsistent. Got to say, though, I see a lot more people calling Obama "Barack Hussein" (which not only ignores his title but makes a not-so-subtle implication about him) than I see people calling Palin "Mayor Palin". I always am curious to ask those people why they don't call the Republican candidate "John Sidney" (as if I didn't know the reason; I'm actually curious about their excuse, to clarify).
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@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Calling Senator Obama by Barack Hussein is a sign of disrespect.
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• United States
23 Sep 08
Of course it is. Sadly, I'm pretty sure that's the point.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Sep 08
I don't know why they can't just give their policies and stop the nastiness, this is what I hate even here in Australia the back biting and mud slinging, it seems to be the two parties in this country as soon as one party suggests something the other one automatically has to go the other way, I hate it, I don't know why they can't just give credit where it is due, they would look better within themselves...I hate Politics because of all this...
@newtondak (3946)
• United States
23 Sep 08
It's a way of belittling people without actually saying anything - it definitely shows a lack of respect. I do find it interesting that Obama seems to be more concerned about Sarah Palin that he does about John McCain!
@liscampll (124)
• United States
23 Sep 08
I see what you're saying. It drives me crazy when people post Barack Hussein Obama. Like none of us know his middle name. It's almost election day then it will just be President __________ or Vice President ___________. I have heard a lot of people just say McCain, Biden, Obama and Palin though.
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@soooobored (1184)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I disagree. I refer to John McCain as McCain, Barack Obama as Barack Obama, and Sarah Palin as Sarah Palin. I think that referring to someone by name rather than title doesn't necessarily imply disrespect, and I don't think it has anything to do with her being a woman.
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@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
23 Sep 08
When you treat them the same that is the Respect I am talking about. Referring to one by name and the other by name and title is a sign of disrespect.
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• United States
23 Sep 08
It is true, no matter how much people do not like Senator Hillary Clinton or Governor Sarah Palin, the titles should be used when referring to both women. Out of respect, Senator and Governor should be used to describe Senator Hillary Clinton and Governor Sarah Palin.
@Destiny007 (5805)
• United States
23 Sep 08
If Obama did that, then he would be acknowledging that she has the executive experience that he lacks, and that all of his statements about her lacking in experience are false. The fact is that Palin has much more experience to be VP then Obama has to be President. The truth is that Obama has accomplished nothing in his life, and to address Palin with her title as governor would be to acknowledge that.
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Sep 08
There are some very scuttle ways in which the media disrespect people. I've seen it here in Trinidad. They actually say here in Trinidad that the media is no respecter of persons when they are challenged. Its ridiculous.
@RAGHUBIR (65)
• India
23 Sep 08
oll people like respect.because its big think.for our personelty.if you want respect than you should try to do good work and help to people.every people try to become speicle because respect is importent think without any good work good think u can not get respect
• United States
23 Sep 08
I am not understanding your problem with Sarah Palin being referred to as a mayor from a small town. At one point in time, she was a mayor of a small town. She has also been referred to as a governor before. At this point in time during the run up to the election most if not all of the American public know the offices all 4 candidates have held.
@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Weather you agree or disagree with a person's position you have to show respect for the person and the office. We have seen it over the years with the a start in the 60's with calling the police "pigs" and calling the soldiers "Baby Killers". Followed by you don't have to listen to your parents and don't trust the authorities. Now there is a marketing saying that fits "If it feels good, just do it" Today it is all about me and what is best for me. As Mrs. Obama said we need people going into the fields of Nursing, Health Care Teaching and Social Service work to help people and make a difference. To some extent the economic problems we are having today are a result of lack of respect. CEO's are more concerned with the next quarters profit than keeping jobs. Lawmakers are more concerned with winning the next election and keeping their power, than doing what is best for the country. That is why it is important to show respect for people.
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@dionesioz (100)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
i guess thats a part of politics. it will happen everywhere,and no matter who you are,