What's your role?

@youless (104245)
Guangzhou, China
September 26, 2008 11:31pm CST
Besides you are a husband/wife, what's your another role for your spouse? I think I am like an assistant who is very helpful for my husband. He is so lucky to have such an intelligent wife like me
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@tianli (311)
• China
29 Sep 08
LOL~~~ you are so lovely . but the Chinese prefer modesty.There is a saying that modesty helps one to go forward . *_*
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
I know, you just pointed out one of my shortcomings
@lucy02 (5017)
• United States
29 Sep 08
He is lucky! I am also my hubby's maid, secretary, cook, errand girl, delivery service, and probably a few other things. Of course he does things for me too. Today he mowed my mom's yard so I guess he's our gardener too.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
In brief, you are your husband's everything
@Amagnimo (637)
• India
28 Sep 08
besides being a husband and Wife, atleast one of them must play the role of being submissive to other - that makes all the relationships more easier and livable. Great you are intelligent, but if none of the other submits because of the intelligence, the relationship fails. Lots of love from both the sides, lots of submissiveness, lots of care for each other, respect, truthfulness, honesty, etc. are the virtues that a good role-player might want to adapt in order to play nice roles. Being intelligent is gonna help your husband a lot, but only if he is enough understanding. You know what, I know of two people who were too intelligent to be made for each other. Both of them had great care for each other but they were too intelligent. Their intelligence and their way of sharing opinions never allowed them to submit to others... they were sure of their own ways, and hence weren;t able to accept the other's opinion. Well, that doesn't happen so often, so I guess, its okay for you to be intelligent. ... I am still single...but already committed... Am gonna enjoy the life a lot...God's grace is forever with me... I feel like the luckiest in the world!
@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
I think sometimes intelligent people know how to hide their abilities so that others will feel relaxed The most intelligent people know when to be intelligent and when to be silly
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@Amagnimo (637)
• India
6 Oct 08
Ah well, thank you for the BR. Yeah, intelligent people - atleast of whom I know, are so smart that they can really hide their identity. Real one. They reveal their identity to only those who can accept it. They don't show it off if the other person is not ready to accept or grasp the truth of their identity! I know of one such great personality. But well, I'll not be telling of that since again, many readers here might not be able to accept the truth! Happy Lotting Nemo PS Thanks for the BR again!
• United States
27 Sep 08
Partner. Equals. We were born for each other, so it seems.
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• China
27 Sep 08
That is well said, Genimi. I also think that a happy and cooperative couple are born for each other to be helpful and advisable to each other. All the best to you.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
Thanks for your response.
@ersmommy1 (12595)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Please pick one. I am schedule coordinator. Mother, nurse, teacher. Not to forget maid, cook, whew! Are we tired yet? I am just lucky my hubby appreciates these things. And more than sometimes helps out!
@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
It's lucky for your husband to find you
• Canada
30 Sep 08
My husband and I work as equals. We have certain talents, and individual qualities we bring to the marriage, but none of them are because of our genders. He is a good cok, for example. He does all the cooking, and he's really good at it. I manage the fianances, because that's something I'm really good at. all decisions are made together as equals.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
It's great that you have a husband who cooks well
@checapricorn (16049)
• United States
29 Sep 08
[i]Hi youless, Hmmm....I am his friend and great companion..LOL! He is more smart than I am..LOL!ANyway, He tells or shares me his challenges at work, problems and successes... Companion that even if we are not talking, we know that we are there for each other![/i]
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
That's perfect
• Philippines
28 Sep 08
I'm my wife's worst antagonist in everything. har har har...
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Sep 08
Then both of you will continuously make a progress together
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
28 Sep 08
I am his helpmate, cheerleader and friend.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Sep 08
Obviously you are so important for your husband
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
aside from wife? i am also sexytary,chef cook and organizer
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Sep 08
Then you have various kinds of roles
@zandi458 (28124)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 08
lol... I am sure you undoubtly become his treasured trophy. I have been the greatest supporter and critics to my husband and as not to brag here without me his life is hopeless and empty. I have been the pillar to his strength and should say my influence has given him the foothold in his business success.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
You play an important role for your husband
@williamjisir (22885)
• China
27 Sep 08
Good afternoon, youless. It is so nice of you to be an assistant to your husband besides your work or career. It is very helpful for a spouse to assit his or her significant other in the career. Keep it up, youless.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
Glad to hear that