What's your role?
28 Sep 08
besides being a husband and Wife, atleast one of them must play the role of being submissive to other - that makes all the relationships more easier and livable. Great you are intelligent, but if none of the other submits because of the intelligence, the relationship fails. Lots of love from both the sides, lots of submissiveness, lots of care for each other, respect, truthfulness, honesty, etc. are the virtues that a good role-player might want to adapt in order to play nice roles. Being intelligent is gonna help your husband a lot, but only if he is enough understanding. You know what, I know of two people who were too intelligent to be made for each other. Both of them had great care for each other but they were too intelligent. Their intelligence and their way of sharing opinions never allowed them to submit to others... they were sure of their own ways, and hence weren;t able to accept the other's opinion. Well, that doesn't happen so often, so I guess, its okay for you to be intelligent. ... I am still single...but already committed... Am gonna enjoy the life a lot...God's grace is forever with me... I feel like the luckiest in the world!
6 Oct 08
Ah well, thank you for the BR. Yeah, intelligent people - atleast of whom I know, are so smart that they can really hide their identity. Real one. They reveal their identity to only those who can accept it. They don't show it off if the other person is not ready to accept or grasp the truth of their identity! I know of one such great personality. But well, I'll not be telling of that since again, many readers here might not be able to accept the truth! Happy Lotting Nemo PS Thanks for the BR again!
30 Sep 08
My husband and I work as equals. We have certain talents, and individual qualities we bring to the marriage, but none of them are because of our genders. He is a good cok, for example. He does all the cooking, and he's really good at it. I manage the fianances, because that's something I'm really good at. all decisions are made together as equals.
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29 Sep 08
[i]Hi youless, Hmmm....I am his friend and great companion..LOL! He is more smart than I am..LOL!ANyway, He tells or shares me his challenges at work, problems and successes... Companion that even if we are not talking, we know that we are there for each other![/i]
27 Sep 08
lol... I am sure you undoubtly become his treasured trophy. I have been the greatest supporter and critics to my husband and as not to brag here without me his life is hopeless and empty. I have been the pillar to his strength and should say my influence has given him the foothold in his business success.