What Is The Biggest Mistake You Made?
By Gwapako_28
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
Philippines
September 27, 2008 6:11pm CST
Choosing the father of my 2 kids and getting married with him is the biggest mistake ive ever made in my entire life. We are now 5 years separated and i have problem in marrying again especially foreigner because of my status. I need to annul my marriage first and we all know filipino that annulment is very much costly.
I know all of us made a biggest mistake. But after all i dont regret somehow because of the 2 kids i have from him. My miko james 5 years old and evan james 10 years my angels my everything...
4 responses
@scorpio19 (1363)
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27 Sep 08
Hi Gwapako_28..I can honestly say that all my mistakes have not been mistakes at all, they have been a learning process for myself and even though I'm not with my kids father anymore I can not regret having children with him or else I would not have the kids I have now.
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
i didn't say i regret of having a kids from him. what i am trying to say is marrying him. how i wish me and him just a live in partner and not marrying legally like we have our marriage in the church...
@scorpio19 (1363)
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27 Sep 08
sorry I never meant to offend you, I just meant in time you will see it differently whats the point in regretting anything it's what makes us eventually.
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@pam210 (344)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I also used to say that the biggest mistake was marrying my ex but then I wouldn't of had my two girls so I now say that the biggest mistake was staying in my marriage as long as I had and how I handled my divorce. My ex was horrible and really destoyed my self esteem. When I finally got enough back to get out of the marriage I just wanted out. I agreed to alot of things and thought that everything would work out with the custody of our children and we would get along. Wrong - I fought me for 10 yrs and I spend thousands and thousands of dollars in court. Instead of being the nice guy I should of stood my ground got custody of my girls and went on with my life. But now it is hopefully over. Both of my girls are over 18 and I haven't talked to him in about 2 yrs.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
im glad u got ur divorced. i know everything will be fine after all the mistakes we have made in our life...
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
27 Sep 08
My biggest mistake ever was going over board with my credit card and getting myself way over my head. I stayed at a job that I hated for many years because of that debt, had I never incurred that debt I could have gone back to school and tried for another carreer. I could have at the very least switched jobs, and started over, my husband and I would probably have a bigger house, or be closer to paying this one off. It is all paid off now, but it took several years of my life to do that.
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